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Halloween is coming up and that means it's time for scary movies! :) Does any one know of any good movies that have a good story plot & makes ya sit on the edge of your seat?!! (link)
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I'm not sure what its called so you'll have to look it up but my teacher told me it was so graphic they had to kill a real monkey, unfortunately they messed up the tape and had to make another one. Its supposed to be the scariest thing ever. Apparently the directors were taken to court because some people believed that to get such graphic scenes they must have really killed someone. All charges were dropped though. Serisously you have gotta watch this film. well worth it sounds
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ok so i am f/17 and i want to become closer to God i mean ive been baptizted before bt i really want to become closer to the lord i guess i just got baptized because i felt i had to at the moment i was close to the lord before i got baptized though.bt after that everything went down hill =[ i just want to be closer to the lord because he is my confort bt im scared to talk to him for some odd reason
soo how can i become closer to the lord like i was before?
what can i do ?
and will god be angry at me because ive changed? (link)
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no, I am at the same cross roads. If you'd like someone to talk to turn to god and speak with him. I don't believe you've got to go to chuch and everything just to respect, appreciate and follow him x
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So i need some freaking sweet music. I listen to pretty much anything, so any suggestions? Thanks guys! (link)
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I love the writer by ellie goulding :) or prof green x
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I am wondering how i can get birth control without my family knowing. Also obviously I can not drive yet. I want birth control for two reasons, one to reduce my period because I have to change a super tampon every 2-1/2 hours and also, if I might want to lose my virginity at some point. I just wanna be extra safe against stds and pregnancy. can you please help me? Its urgent. (link)
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Just tell them that its because you have heavy and V painful periods. You cannot have anything on prescription eg. pill. Without having someone over 16 sign for it.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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I'm Sorry your message was too confusing to understand, he didn't tell you something because HE KNOWS VERY WELL IT IS WRONG WHATEVER HE DID .
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22/f, okay so I work in a school as a SPED instructional aide, and I like a co-worker of mine, a teacher who is a 27/m. He's is like the sweetest man ever... almost too sweet. So sweet that alot of women(not really much competition considering my self esteem isn't really high) are/were after him too. But I know he dosen't like them cause the teacher I work with told. The two of them are best friends.
Anyhow, he's like a big kid and that's what I like the most. Still plays video games,and a very caring teacher (teaches SPED) and cares alot about his brother who is also special needs. Plus he lent me his super expensive calculator for an entire year... We've hung out a few times but I can't really tell if we vibing or not cause I never paid attention to it. I was just happy to be in his presence. He's bought me drinks and food before too :)
So now, a co-worker of mine has told him I liked and he said "Ms.P---, I'm going to have to holler at her...." *I don't even know what that means*... so the first day back to work he came and sat next to me and I sat there for like a hot second cause I got nervous and had to move...
Now I'm too shy to really say much of anything to him. I only say Hi to him when I see him in the hallways and whatnot...So should I try to pursue him still? Do I have any kind of chance? Any ideas as to how I can break out of this shyness?
The only reason why I didn't tell him I liked him was because, well as any other human I don't want to get rejected. But my co-worker said that she "needed to get the ball rolling"
Any advice/opinions/ideas/thoughts are greatly appreciated! (link)
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WOW! This must be tough huh? trying to get noticed in a sea of women who are desperate to get your man. Okay when he says hollar at you it means he'll have to think about it and call you. But he was probably just saying it as you do. This does NOT mean he doesn't like you. Its just a habit of speech. You should ask him if he wants to go for a bite to eat and leave it at that. If nothing really happens, and he doesn't make a move don't keep asking him places it'll look desperate, just leave it. If he knows you like him, stepping back a bit and secretly crushing on him from afar will make him less pressured and maybe he'll ask you to go out instead. The only way to break the shyness barrier is to go straight to the gold and ask him outright to go out for a drink or something to eat. Don't call it a date, just a bite to eat/or drink. Good luck x
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my boyfriend said that he wants a tamagotchi for christmas, and he said that he wants one that looks like the one he had as a little kid. he said it was red and had dinosaur paw prints on it. i've looked everywhere i can think of for one that looks like this..one that's new or at least one that works good..does anyone know somewhere else i can look? or something i can do to get one for a reasonable price? (link)
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They try to make every tamagotchi unique so you probably won't get one the same. Just buy him a red one and say the one you had was unique and I looked everywhere to find it even on advicenators, but I couldn't so I got you this one which is unique in its own way also.
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15/m im about to have sex for the first time this sarurday what should i do not to embarrass myself :/ (link)
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It can be hard to show everything your insecure about to someone else. Make sure you take precautions and let her do most of the talking, but the other guy sounds right. Dosen't seem like your quite ready enough make sure you are first.
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I am a 16 yr old female and have been smoking cigarettes for about a year now. I first started smoking marlboro reds then switched to marlboro menthol 100s and im HOOKED. if i dont have cigarettes or running low i shake and cry and find a way to get them. my addiction is taking over my life pretty much! i smoke constantly. i HAVE to smoke one before bed or else i will not sleep, i also cannot start my day without a cigarette. id say i smoke about 15 cigrattes a day. i have this flem cough and have had it for a few months. its getting worse and i constantly have to cough but nothing comes up just need to clear my throught. i dont know what to do! or hot to quit! please help!! (link)
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Go to the doctors and ask for this-
In america recently they brought out this tablet for depression but then realised it cured cigarette addiction also. You take them for 2 weeks or so, whilst you smoke, then you stop altogether, don't even need or want one. They are brill and can work wonders just ask or look up their name online. At least then you'll know their name so you can ask their doc for one. Good luck x
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i am depressed. i dont know why but i am. i just cant help but dislike everyone and i cant seem to find joy in anything lately. i am not usually like this. whenever im home alone im miserable, but at the same time i dont feel like seeing anybody.
i recently broke up with my boyfriend so im guessing thats a big part of it, even though i was the one who broke it off. i find myself wanting to go back to the relationship, but i feel like maybe if i get through this depressed stage ill be able to realize that i broke up with him for a reason. or maybe i just need him in my life.
any ideas on what would make me happy? im trying to keep away from music that reminds me of him but even the most irrelevant songs do. any ideas? thanks (link)
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everyone has a little upset time in their life and this is one of those times. Instead of thinking how upset you are now its over think of how happy you'll be when you find the real guy who truly makes you happy. don't fret, hang in there, even though you don't feel like it now try and do things with your mates they'll make you happy and get you back on your feet x x x
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my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have met most of his family, he is american. his family is diverse, some asian and hispanic. my family is 100% indian. he has met my brother, sister, mom and dad. my dad is very strict on dating, he doesnt like it but he cant stop me from dating because im almost 21. and my boyfriend is 22. my mom likes my boyfriend though. the issue is we have been on and off in our relationship and i dont think my parents think ill marry him so they are a bit concerned with that aspect. his family is huge on christmas, my family doesnt do christmas. my family cant even have dinner with his family because my parents refuse to. i know theres no way to fix this. lets say we do get married, then yes my parents will get along with his family but i dont think theyll do christmas. this is a huge issue on our relationship because we are looking into the future with us. any kind of advice for us really? (link)
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yes, you have to let your parents know you respect and love them and appreciate any advice they can offer. But your growing up, almost an adult and they can't control everything you do. Try telling them about the benefits of appreciating other cultures, like your boyfriends and tell them you'll always love them, but your old enough to decide for yourself who you date. Tell them they don't have to like you bfs parents but if they truly loved and respected you they would put up with them as it would make you happy. Sometimes things have to get worse to get better. If they argue they'll soon realise if you truly love him that will not change and they'll see the best thing is to suppourt you through it. Tell them if things go badly then they can say i told you so, but for now your happy and you'd like them to be the same for you. good luck xxx
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I had to do a presentation in my class the other day and at the end of it when I looked and made eye contact with my crush and saw that he was smiling. I guess I said something cute but his smile was really big. :]
I've liked him since last year but we're only acquaintances and the time we actually spend talking is minimal. I feel like I've seen him purposely look in my direction but it could just be my imagination.
Does my crush sound like it's returned? I'm afraid that I just think it is because I'm biased and WANT it to be.
PS: I'm 17/f
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I think that your crush is probably returned if he keeps making eye contact with you and smiling however if he pays as much attention to other girls aswell then im afraid it might just be your imagination, if i were you i'd ask him to go somewhere with a group of mixed genders so it doesn't look like you've asked him on a date, then get to know him from that and see where it takes you, yours sencierly, Ebony :)
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I have this co worker who every time we are supposed to close together always calls in he usualy works days and I work the closeing shift .he only helps close 2 nights a week .I don't know if its because he doesn't like to work with me or just don't like to help close.there is a lot of cleaning you have to do at night and I know a lot of people at my job don't like to do that sort of thing because the people during the day shift don't do anything but he knowes if he don't come in than I'm on my own and that gets anoying so what do you think any ideas (link)
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This all sounds rather silly to me, this guy isn't even someone you have a crush on. You should make a joke of it when he cancels, next time he does it make sure he knows your not the happiest person on the planet that he keeps leaving it to you alone all of the time. Maybe he has a hidden reason for cancelling so often. Maybe a geeky club people would take the mick out of, or maybe he just dosen't trust himself, he can;'t keep his hands off you. Either way good luck :)
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Okay, I have the Samsung Exclaim. My cell phone plan is for Sprint. I've liked my phone, I had it maybe a year and a half but I am the type of person who gets used to something, then after it isn't new to me, I hate it. I need change. So, I just passed my Sweet Sixteen a week ago and I got a lot of money from it and I want to Rumor Touch. (If you have this phone, tell me what you think of it, I heard it's AMAZING! and I have a deal that I can get it in only 50 dollars.) Now, my contract for my Samsung Exclaim is over in November, about two months. I feel like I can't wait that long but I know that maybe by November, when my contract is over and I can get a new phone, maybe a newer, cooler than the Rumor Touch will be out. Also, if I get the Rumor Touch, I would pay for it. If I want until November, my parents would pay for it.
What do you think I should do?
Should I wait?
Thanks! (link)
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defo wait. You know how in the winter around november time they bring out all the new cool phones near xmas. You'll probably see an amazing one you love more and won't get bored with hold out you'll get a better phone that way. You can always buy the phone you like after if you don't and at a much cheaper price as it will have to be on sale and cheap to compete and be sold against the new and cooler phones x x x
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So i hear that you can really make good money sellin stuff on ebay, can somebody please tell me how to get started in the ebay business (link)
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yeah sure, it always depends on what your selling but you can make some decent money on ebay. First make an account and connect it to your pay pal. Contact me and I'll lead you on from there x
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I have diarrhea and i don't know what should i eat except for mashed potatoes and rice and bananas. thank you for helping (link)
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they say you should also eat plenty of fruit and orange, that helps fix constipation and has to help the other way also
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This summer I lost 30 pounds fast and I havent gained it back, but I want to lose more weight.Its taking forever to lose weight now and I have been exercising and eating right. Is there a way that I can lose 30 pounds fast again? (link)
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theres this new thing called flabelos that shakes fat and you can lost a dress size in just 3 weeks. You can find it in most tanning salons and some nail places. Look out for it. Otherwise, your body puts on 1lb a day just by changes in your body. This weight may not move. Its ridicolous to change your life so drastically good luck x Otherwise try a weight machine or doing more activities and clubs, try joining your local gym.
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Soooo... one of my really good friends is a girl, she's a year younger. (I'm seventeen, she's sixteen). Well since she's younger, and a really good friend, I'm kinda protective of her. She's pretty much like my little sis. Yeah, she's hot but she's also like 5'4/100 lbs... Sooo mix her tiny body with juuust a pinch of alcohol and she's every guy's dream. A hot drunk girl. It really doesn't take much to get her wasted. See, I don't even approve of decent guys for her (what brother does??) but when we got out to parties and stuff and she's wasted and all these d-bags are tryin to get on her, I have to protect her. Which I don't mind too much, but I'm worried about her. That if I'm not there, some guys gonna take advantage of her. I've tried to tell her about this... tell her I'm concerned about her but she WANTS to hook up with guys... And nothing I say can get her to take it easy on the booze and be a little smarter with the boys. She's gonna get her self in trouble! And I just don't knwo what to do... She's my bestfriend but I don't OWN her ya know?? If she wants to get her drink on and hook up, I'm still gonna love her but I'm worried... (link)
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sorry, its her life. i actually have a little sis so I know what its like. The only way she'll realise if she wakes up one morning next to one of these d bags and realises how serious she has to watch her alco intake. Your right you can't protect her for all of her life. Let her do it , plenty of young women like her do the same and have no one to watch out for them. its great your helping her and being a good 'bro' but yknow ' you live and learn'. She has to learn for herself. Kepp interfearing and she'll cut you out completely and she'll need you to sort out any future d bags that break her heart. I know she could get an STI or anything, but thats just life, she's gotta do it sometime let her learn and then trust me if it all comes crumbling down. be there for suppourt, but she has her own life and she has to learn alone. GOOD LUCK X
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 6 months. he treats me good, and were like best friends. only problem is, he is not like romantic. Hes never done anything really cute for me... he hardly ever takes me out on dates, and i have to like nag him to like go out to dinner or a movie and he never wants to pay.Besides that though he treats me really good, and its the first guy i can actually trust. He just doesnt know how to be romantic and do cute things for me, and when i try to tell him i need more, he'll ask how or what i want him to buy me, and i dont want to have to tell him, thats rude, his sisters husband says shes the same way, so it must just be the way they were brought up.
I've already told him he is not romantic and i need more, but he just doesnt get it, and its nothing like worth breaking up over but it would really make him so much more perfect. Plus, he hardly says i love you cause he says it was over used in his last relationship, but he still shows he loves me in his actions.
any advice on what i could doo? (link)
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You said it yourself, hes the first guy you trusted, he is better matched with someone who doesn't give a damn whether he loves them or not. You need a guy to get off his backside and show he loves and respects you. Who thinks about you and runs you a hot bath when your tired and looks after you. The longer you stay in this relationship, the worse it will get until it comes to an end. Detach all feeling for this guy and move on. It oculd hurt for a bit, but you'll find a guy one day, or maybe even sooner who loves you to death and shows he loves you, just by the way he looks at you. who'll take to every place you've ever wanted to go and give you the dream wedding, child and family you've always wanted. Just because he loves you. hold out for him and don't just settle on second best because you trust him :)
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My boyfriend and i are fed up of just making out so we want to get touchy feely with each other.
I sed i would give a hj which i thought he would say yes to, but he sed he wont let me touch him anywhere unless i let him finger me and im not sure what to do coz he wants to do it while we are in the cinema and i dont know if i should say yes.
BTW i am 14 and he is almost 15 (link)
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Trust me, I had a mate who got fingered at 14, never let him finger you until your ready and sure you can take the criticism if that got out. Stick to the getting off and other things until your ready. Tell him that your not ready for that yet. If he breaks up with you he may tell everyone because people will think he is cool, whereas they'll brand you a slag. Names like that can stick for life. good luck x
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