my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have never had sex with different partners before. do you guys think we have a high chance of gettting a sti? we have always used condoms but now we want to stop using them because i started taking birth control pills. we plan to be married in the future, but i am afraid of getting an sti or something like. he got tested and nothing was wrong or anything. but i was still wondering how high of a risk i have to get a sti?
If you both have never had sex with anyone else and you both are clean, then it is alright to not use a condom as long as you are taking birth control. But still nothing is 100% safe.
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my boyfreind are thinking about sex. and we know we are both ready for it so please dont say anything along the lines of "you might not be ready".
but anyways. we are going to be safe about it. but my boyfreind doesnt want to buy condoms, he just thinks its embarssing. and isnt that supposed to be the guys job?
If he thinks it is embarassing to by them i guess he doesnt want it as much as he says he does. Youre right tho, it is his job to buy them. Tell him that if he wants it that he has to be the man and buy HIS protection. =]
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i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.
Yea. Yourse such a nerd when YOURE not the own getting STDs and YOURE not the one getting pregnate at a young age.My aunt got pregnant with my cousin when she was 17 and beleive me, up until this day, having him at a young age hasnt helped her much. Its alright not to have sex. If therye really youre friends,theyll totally understand.=]
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well, first of all, im REALLY uncomfortable putting this up, but i need to know.
for some time now, my 'area' has had throbbing 'desires' i should say. it feels gross and wrong. is this just being a teenager with hormones or something else?
This is perfectly normal.
I know this may sound weird but if youre really desprate you could try masturbating. It will make you feel much more comrotable with yourself in that area.
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I just figured out my sister does sex with small teddy bear. She uses the nose to pretend it's a dick and she does it. Is this normal? Can I help her stop if it's harmful. Help!
I think that this is fine. A teddy bear will not hurt her in any way and she is just growing up and her hormones are problaby just all over the place. She'll grow out of it. =]
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is masturbating a sin? just a question---cuz i think its completely gross!!
Im guessing youve never done it. But really its ok.There is nothing wrong with it. Its very healthy and any doctor will tell you that.For guys it helps lower your risk of cancer down there and for girls it helps yourself get more comfortale and used to your own body.=]
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Lately I haven't been able to fall asleep til like 6 oclock in the morning.
I don't mind staying up till 12:00 or 1:30 but this has gotten ridiculous. I can't sleep, and when I do sleep I sleep til all hours of the day.
It seems like I can't get enough sleep when I do fall asleep, and I'm very groggy.
HELP? I need advice on how to make me tired, or what is causing this.
No matter how tired you are during the day, takin a nap will only make it worse. During the day just try and excirse and set a time that you want to go to sleep everynight. If you cant sleep, try reading until you cant read anymore. This will start to get to into a runteen. =]
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well me and my boyfriend have been dateing for 6 months im sure hes the one i want to spend forever with. But theres only one problem, i feel terrible all the time, i mean when we fight i always feel like its my fault,when he talks to other girls and i tell myself there just his friends it still makes me feel horrible,and even little things if like he doesnt say bye b4 hanging up the phone and i dont want this terrible feeling to go on. any advice on if this is normal, and how to fix it.
anything is apreciated
I have felt this way before with my boyfriends. I would worry about the stupidest little things and would sometimes accually not be able to sleep. Sometimes this can be serious and you might want to talk to someone about it. You might be suffering from terriable anexity or OCD. I have these both and it sounds to me like you might also. If it gets worse, dont be afraid to ask for more advice or ask to talk to a school conslcer. =]
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okay so i've been getting my period for almost a year. and so one of my boobs is like a 34a and the other one is flat across my chest. its been like that for 2 years now. is that normal??!!
Yes. its normal. Dont worry, your other boob will catch up. This happens to a lot of people after then get theyre period. =]
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Hey-
I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too
the problem is that we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem
the problem is- I want to kiss her (not make out just kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it
Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help
-premature kisser
Whatever you do dont ask her "can i kiss you". That really kills the mood. Just slowly go in for the kiss maybe after just touching each other or laughin about something.Maybe just grab her hand and look her in the eyes and most likely she'll get the hint. :-)
good luck! =]
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13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do?
its alright. youre 13 and your hormones are all jumping around. Its called being horny. Im sure you knew that. Starting at ages 13 all the way to about 16 or 17 our hormones are really going crazy and like sometimes sex is all we think about .Its ok to think about having sex with your boyfriend but also maybe that dream was telling you not to have sex. When you say that you and your boyfriend touch each other do you mean on like your boobs and his penis? Because after looking in a book like that and having touched your boyfriend you may have just been sexually eroused. And that perfectly fine at our age. Dont worry about it. Its just your hormones. :-)
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I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not?
If you ask a doctor, any sexual activity like oral,handjob, ect...is considered being sexually active. Sexual intercourse is sex but so is this other stuff. Its alright that he gives you oral sex if you guys really love each other you are still a virgin, in a way. But until you have intercourse youre still a virgin. :-)
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i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.
do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.
It is alright for a guy to be clingy.If you just nicely tell him how you are feeling and he listens he is worth it. Dont worry about what his other girlfriends say. Even if it might be true. Just go out with him and see if everything works out. And if it doesnt just let him know how youre feeling and if it really has to come down to it you might have to let him go. Sooner or later he will get why girls break up with him and you might even be doing him a favor by sticking with him/ excepting him,like you said, for who is he.=]
good luck! :-)
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I am finnaly getting a cell phone!! but.. it is my Mom's old one :( but y'know it is something. I am going into High School and they say like 100 minutes is enough, but i am afraid that when i get new friends i will be talking to them alot, and i cannot convince my parents that i NEED more minutes... what should i do???
100 minautes a month is a little over 1 and a half hours. That really isnt enough. You should make a chart comparing different Plans and show your parents that you are responsible enough and that you deserve this. I went throug the saem thing with my parents and im getting me new cell tomrrow. Belive me, if you take the responsiblity and time to go and research other plans like cingluar[recommended] verzion,sprint,t-mobile ect...im sure your parents will give in sooner or later.
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13/f.
Im getting contacts in a couple days (monday) and i was just wondering if anyone can tell me anything about them. IS it hard to put them in? Can they actually like slip down in your eye where you cant get them out? how long can you wear them? What will I have to do when i go to get them? Any tips or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. :)
I wear contacts and they really are not that bad. They are not hard to put in at all and everyone always worries about them sliding in the back of your eyelids and stuff but that stuff hardly EVER happens. Most eye doctors tell you to wear them when you wake up until around 7 or 8 at night. Do no wear them for reading or the computer [for fun] If you need them in all day to read,use the computer,ect...dont worry about it. You must always clean them and the eye docter will show you how to do that and she will even help to tell you how to take them in and out.They will take a little getting used to but you can not feel them at all in your eye but if you wear a lot of eye make up[like me] you might have to go and buy different kinds[the eye doctor will tell u all about that]. do not wear them when you sleeep but if you forgot every once and a while it wont hurt.
good luck =]
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okay so this guy thinks that i have kissed a guy before. i havent. he is much more experienced then i am sexually. will he know that i havent kissed someone before when we do kiss. should i let him make the first move and do the kissing. i want to be a good kisser. any tips would be great. and i know that i shouldnt lie to him. but. i already have. so any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you
This same thing has happened to me before. It really depends on what kind of guy he is. Maybe you could just be like ..."heyy i really havent kissed anyone and was afriad to tell you..." and just laugh about it, most likely he will laugh too. But if you really dont wanna do that there are a lot of great websites out that you help you be a good kisser like Virtualkiss.com and just go ot google and type in Kissing Tips and those websites really do help. Hate to say it but most people who have kissed before/made out will know if you are experianced or not.
just go to those websites and i think you will be fine.=]
good luck!!:-)
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do?
Well just wait a little bit. Like you said... It WOULD be really embarassing if he said no and also it might be a little akward if he does say no and then the whole rest of the year he knows that you like him and are in the same class with him. But just saying hey wats up? and bein nice to him and askin questions could really be the thing to make him ask you out.
Also,the flirting woudlnt hurt either.lol
good luck =]
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16-female.
i always feel like such a geek. i'll admitt it i dont have THAT many friends but i have my few close ones. but most of them are a year younger than me. and on of my best friends or the one i hangout with alot is my cousin -she turns 16 in october. sometimes i feel embarassed that my cousin is one of my best friends and she doesnt have many friends either? i mean in like 9th grade i would hangout with so many different people and i would never be home and now im going into 11th and i dont hangout with many people especially from my school. i hangout with everyone from a different school (my cousins school) and they're all a year younger than me. my brother is always like wow your a freak what are you and nikki doing today (my cousin) and im like i dont know why? and hes like i dont know your always with her because she is your only friend. me and my cousin go over to her house and sit on the computer or watch tv most of the time which is BORING. but we dont have much money (thats why im finding a job) and we never know what to do! and we have this wedding coming up and my brother he is 19 is going out with this almost 18 year old girl and she is going with him and my brother is like is kristen (me) bringing a guy? and my mom is like i dont know she never goes anywhere...i was like ohh great even my mom tells me i dont go out and dont have any friends. its not like i want it to be that way! i mean i have other friends in school that i talk to IN SCHOOL but i never hangout with them out of school. ive never had a boyfriend but everyone is always in complete shock when they hear that because they all think im so gorgeous (i dont see it though) i dont hangout with any guys really either except maybe like 2 that are a year younger than me and are my cousins friends. im not going to get into any clubs or sports because im going to get a job soon and i want to focus on doing good in school too! and last night my brother and his girlfriend went out to eat with a bunch of people i guess and this girl from my grade was there and she is going out with someone my brothers age. i mean this girl was on my softball team a couple years and i talked to her here and there like a "hey" or something but she is the so-called popular one. and my brother is like i saw ashley yesterday and she asked what you were doing and i was like what did you say and he is like i said im not sure. and then i guess she is like ohh yeahh well she hangsout with all the younger people anyways. this really bothers me! what can i do? i want to be out all the time and just for once have my parents be like your always gone why dont you stay home for a couple hours like they do to my brother!..
any suggestions?
thanks so much.
alright.i know how u feel.really.i do. because i feel the same exact way. i used to have tons of friends.I wasnt the most popular girl but i wasnt a complete geek. But now that im getting older i have lost a few of my really close friends. I think what you need to do is just maybe hang out with some people that you never haave hung out with before.Try something new. YOu said that you wernt going ot be in any clubs or anything but maybe you should rethink that. You really can make a lot of friends that way and it would look really good on your college applicaion. Dont worry about hanging out with ppl that are younger then you. Tons of people do.But on the other hand, i would try and make friends with people in youre own grade also. I dont know you so please dont take this the wrong way because i could be totally wrong but it sounds to me like maybe youre not very comfortalbe with yourself and beleive me, thats OK.many people are not comfortalbe with themselves but we all just have to try our best to just put ourselves out there and dont always be afriad of what other people are going to think because after high school none of this is even goin ot matter.really.its not. I can garuntee more people like you/would like more then you think. =]
answer given by :cherry01
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does anyone know where to get hairstyle instructions on how to do your hair like lizzie mcguire's? (not hilary duff, lizzie mcguire, from the show)i really like some of her hairstyles but i can't find any instructions on how to do them. and i tried googling it but that wasn't any help. also the lizzie mcguire website on disneychannel.com only has one hairstyle so that website wouldn't work. good answer= good rating. ;) thanks so much!
Well there are a lot of magazines out there like teen people,cosmo girl,ect. that sometimes have great hairstyles in them. If u go to somewhere like exkard ot CVS they have entire magazines just on how to due your hair. You could also just try and expirement yourself.sometimes i find that easier then reading instrustions.
good luck =]
answer from: cherry01
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I need help with my sex life. i try to stick it in there. but it gets stuck. then i get scared and costriobick,
can you help me?
Do you mean...gets stuck inside her? Well,a penis can never really get "stuck" inside a girl.Try and just relax and even,if you have to,fantasize. Ask her to do something that would make it easier for both of you.Take is slow maybe and then you might get you more excited instead of scared.Sex is sopposed to be fun and i understand you get scared,but really,dont worry about it. Just let it happen and if you dont worry it will be much easier and it wont get stuck anymore.
good luck.=]
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