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there really isn't much you can say to shock me. i've seen and heard a lot, so if you need help, don't be afraid to ask anything. i'm amazing at answering anything to do with sex.. so ask away =)

oh and yes.. that is ME in the picture. it's my halloween costume: a mile high captain!

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my makeup comes off alot before the end of the day. does anyone have some tips on helping my eyeliner, mascara, eyeshadow, && perfume stay on longer? thanks! ill rate!

http://www.modelinabottle.com

it's a spray that goes on your face and keeps your makeup on.

other than that, cheap makeup doesn't last as long as others. try clinique makeup, and a waterproof eyeliner and mascara. for eyeshadow, there really isn't much you can do but not try to rub it off. spray your perfume on your elbows. it stays there the longest.

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I'm 14 male and ther are a few things I always wanted to know about girls that my sound stupid but I have thought about a couple of times before.

1) Why do girls always go to the bathroom in groups?

2) Why wear a bra? Doesn't it feel uncomfortable having something wrapped adound your chest?

3) What can a guy do sexually to a girl that feels the best?

4)When a girl gives a guy a BJ does she do it cause he wants her to do it or do some girls actually like it? I would think there raelly aren't that many girls that really like the idea of sucking a guy off and having him squirt in her mouth.

Thanks , and if the last question if too rude please just answer the other ones and forget # 4.

1) Girls always go to the bathroom in groups simply because we are girls. We talk about boys in the bathroom, fix our makeup together, and some girls feel insecure going somewhere by themselves.

2) I personally hate bras, but it's a little socially unacceptable to not wear one. If you get cold, you don't want your nipples to show. Also if a girl is lacking in the chest department, they can use padded bras to make it seem like they have more.

3) Hmm.. well it depends on the guy's experience as well as how far the girl wants you to go! It really depends on the girl to decide what feels best. Some girls like to be fingered, orally pleasured, or they just like sex. Personally, I just like sex! Once again, it depends on the girl's desires for what feels best to her.

4) There are other options to a guy 'squirting' in her mouth! Girls don't normally like giving BJ's but we know that to a lot of guys it feels the best compared to having sex. Most guys can feel that they are about to orgasm; which is useful information to a girl that doesn't like the taste of cum! Some girls like giving blowjobs and having the guy cum in her mouth. It's a personal decision but many guys like for the girl to swallow. The guy can ask the girl what she'd like him to do when he reaches his orgasm (before she starts giving the BJ!!) so that he knows what she wants. Just don't pressure the girl into doing anything she doesn't want to do, and you're fine.

Don't worry about being rude, I'm here to answer ALL of your questions! If you have any others that you might feel embarrassed to ask anyone else, feel free to ask me!

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i have always had really good skin, but now my face is really bumpy. since i have never had an issue i don't know what to do. i do not have pimples or zits, not really that many red heads, but my face is very bumpy, it's the worst on my nose.

i don't know what to do except wash my face and that is doing nothin, does toner or other facial products work for this? what should i do? any home remedies?

Proactiv helps get rid of that. If you can't spend that much money then try going to a drugstore and buy a moisturizer to put on a freshly washed face.

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what gets rid of a heartburn?

try taking pepcid ac.

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I have this pimple on my upper lipline and it's kinda big and red. What can I put on it to make it smaller (something i don't have to buy) because I have to go out tomorrow and this is bugging me.

don't use toothpaste!! it will make it MUCH worse. it's probably not a cold sore so just treat it like a pimple. put a hot towel on the pimple to make it come to a head so that you can cleanly pop it. then put clearasil on it! if you don't have clearasil try using head & shoulders dandruff shampoo on it. it works without drying it out too much and making it look worse. just DON'T use toothpaste!!

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how do u jerk off a guy? is it like a handjob?

a handjob is jerking off the guy. if you don't know how to do it, ask him how fast he likes it. then make a slight fist around the head of his penis and jerk it up and down, put don't pull down too far. he'll tell you how he likes it. ask if you need anything else!

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Im 15/f and i tend to sweat a lot. Even if im not cold i sweat under my arm pits without even knowing it. I always want to wear a sweatshirt over my t-shirt because it gets bad. Yes i wear deoderant! I've tried like every kind out there and nothing seems to take away the wetness. Its embarrasing because everytime i lift up my arms people see this big ole sweat "puddle" is there anything that will help??? Thanks a lot!!!

I used to have the same problem so my doctor recommended using Certain-Dri. You can get it at the drug store and it's around $4. Just make sure that you put it on before you go to bed, don't put it on freshly shaved underarms, and use it only on your underarms! Another thing is it can be itchy because it's closing your pores, but try not to scratch it or it will be even worse.

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I bloat a lot to where my stomach sticks out so far! It is embarassing. What are some ways to prevent bloating? Thank you.

try using a diuretic (there's one called diurex) to get rid of water weight. it makes you go to the bathroom WAY more so be prepared.

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15/M *** Just like every other guy I know I always check out the boobs on all the girls
I see. I was wondering if girls look at guy's crotchs in the same way.

i've been known to check out my boyfriend's crotch every once in a while but no, it's not a usual thing for girls. with guy's having pants on, it's not like we can see the actual size, where as girls' breasts size can be seen with their shirts on.

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This is a question for the girls. I have to wear white pants tomorrow at school and just my luck i got my period today! And of course when i get my period i get paranoid about having leaks. My sister has tampax pearl tampons that are super and i dont think thats the size i need and i cant get ahold of her to ask. But my question is which is better to prevent leaks pads or tampons?If tampons which is best to use? If any of you use tampax pearl have u ever had any leaks? Thanks a bunch!!

just wear both! tampax pearls are awesome, i am really picky and only use those. super ISN'T bad for you at all, but it's best to choose the tampon that's right for your period flow. super is for a heavy flow, and so on.

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I'm 15/m and pretty much an average guy in school. I haven't had alot of gf's yet but I do have one now. I really like her alot and I don't want to do anything that would make her break up with me. We have made it to 2nd base ( touching down below ) but I really want her to gime me a bj. If you were her would you get mad if I just came out and asked you to do it for me sometime when we're talking online at night ? Or should I just kinda encourage her to do it next time shes touching me. I really want her to do it for me but I want her to know I won't be mad if she says no.

well, in my first blowjob experience with my boyfriend, he told me flat out that he wanted one. i really liked him being direct, but some girls might find it disgusting that their boyfriend would ask them to do such an act. being really forward is something that turns me on, but it might repel your girlfriend. try bringing up stuff that you'd like to do, you should ask her what kind of fantasies she's had before, and if there's anything she's wanted to try. i was really open when i was asked that question, so i thought it was kind of fun. or you could just wait until she's touching you down there, and ask her if she wouldn't mind trying it. if she's like me, which i hope she is for your sake, i absolutely love giving them to my boyfriend now. i like to see how much pleasure he gets from it, but if your girl isn't as willing, tell her you'll wait for her to come around, but you really really would like her to. if you want anymore advice about this be sure to ask me! i love helping with sexual questions. :)

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Okay so I've got these horrible cramps. (hello -time of the month-) Is there any way to make them go away? I don't have any medicine to take. I can't go to the store. I tried putting a pillow on my stomach but the pain got worse. It feels like I'm going to puke. Is there anything I can do?

calcium is the ingredient they put in midol to help cramps. try drinking milk, or have a banana. anything with calcium in it is great. also try taking a hot bubble bath to help you relax, but of course since you'll be in a bath full of water you'll need to use a tampon.

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Does anyone know where to find the "old school" cheerleading Asics? I don't like the new gel ones.. I want the white with colored lined ones that are canvas or leather. I can't find them ANYWHERE I looked on Ebay but I got outbid on a pair. I need them desperately. If possible I would really like a website with them on there. I'll rate 5's for anything!

http://www.eastbay.com/catalog/productdetail.cfm?TID=8698-56100621490156210360581-LKS16342&module=shoes&action=brandSearch&supercat=shoes&model_nbr=41834&sku=3680101&id=54498&mvp=brand&sport=6

it doesn't say gel.

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Hey I need advice asap! 18 female. I am currently about 2-4 days late on my period. Also i usually start my period before my best friend and she is already started. So here is the deal. My boyfriend and i fooled around, with him inside me...but he didn't cum inside me and he was inside me for about 2 mins at themost. What are my chances of being pregnant . i am so worried and paranoid.
Please help

take a home pregnancy test, since you're already late for your period. if you've been stressed out recently, or you are underweight, then those factors can delay your period. just relax, even if that sounds difficult right now you really need to.

yes you could be pregnant, because pre-ejaculate ("pre-cum") is highly concentrated with sperm. if you're not on birth control and are not using a condom, you have a greater risk of pregnancy.

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months. We're really close and I trust him with my life. I think we're ready to take our relationship farther, on a physical scale. But whenever we talk about sex we're just kidding I guess. And he seems really timid to talk to me about it. He's not a virgin, so he's been in the "wanting to have sex" position before. But I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing by talking to him about it, or should I just leave it up to him or go for it in the heat of the moment?

by talking about it, it shows that you are ready to take on that commitment. before you have sex, you need to clarify things. what would you two do if you do get pregnant? would you go on birth control? if you were on birth control, would you still use a condom? there's also the fact that he's not a virgin, and it's always a good thing to be tested before a new partner. he shouldn't be offended if you want him to be tested for an STD, he should be glad that you want to be safe. you shouldn't just let it happen in the heat of the moment, no matter how long you've been dating! :) if you want anymore help, or have sex questions check out my column.

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15/f

okay my nipples are like really sore.

i already have c cup breasts but could they be growing again?

or is there something else it could be

your breasts could be growing again, and i'm in the same boat as you! 15/f/c cup. if your nipples are sore, you may be pre-menstrual, growing, or your bra could be the problem. if your bra is too loose or too tight, then they can irritate to your nipples. there isn't really anything to help it except take a pain-reliever, or if it's the bra, get fitted at the store for a bra.

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Okay i have got stetch marks all over my upper thighs, hips and bottom. i have been using palmers coco butter everyday since january and still have seen no change/improvement

so does it really work?

or is there anything else i could use to help fade them a little?

i know you cant get rid of them completely

try maderma. cocoa butter and all scar-fading remedies take a while, but maderma works a little bit faster.

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Last night i was sleeping and all of a sudden i felt this extreme pain in my calf..it subsided after a minute or so. My mom thinks this is a charlie horse. I wans't in any weird position or anything..and this happened the other night too..what could be the cause of it?

when you get a pain in your calf, try pointing your toes up. the usual reaction is that your muscles contract and make your toes point down, but if you stretch out the muscle that is hurting, it'll feel better :)

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SO I'm 13 and I weigh 176 lbs. It's really un healthy but my mom says I'll grow out of it. Yeah I guess Im growing but I drink like 4-20 oz bottles of water and I also drink some juice (not alot). When I go to bed at nights I feel extrememly bloated. Oh and sometimes I don't urine alot so I jus drink some cranberry juice or take the cranberry capsules. So I was thinking that I could take a dewitts...the water pill to make all my urine from all the water I drink flush away...does anyonw know if it's safe to take the water pills at my age?...and if not is there anything that will make me feel less bloated from the water I drink. Thanks alot...because I'm sure at least 5-10 lbs of my is from water!

water pills are called diuretics. don't take them without your doctor's consent or it can be a problem.

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do green tea pills work. what are a list of diet pills which help you burn fat?


i am a size 6 and i want to go down to a size 4 i already eat healthy and sorta exersize.

green tea pills make you loose your water weight by making you go to the bathroom more, which is almost the same thing as a diuretic. diet pills just curb your appetite, and both aren't long-term weight loss suggestions. just eat less calories than you burn off, and you'll loose weight. :)

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