I'm 15/m and pretty much an average guy in school. I haven't had alot of gf's yet but I do have one now. I really like her alot and I don't want to do anything that would make her break up with me. We have made it to 2nd base ( touching down below ) but I really want her to gime me a bj. If you were her would you get mad if I just came out and asked you to do it for me sometime when we're talking online at night ? Or should I just kinda encourage her to do it next time shes touching me. I really want her to do it for me but I want her to know I won't be mad if she says no.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? cheddar answered Sunday March 12 2006, 8:21 pm: well, in my first blowjob experience with my boyfriend, he told me flat out that he wanted one. i really liked him being direct, but some girls might find it disgusting that their boyfriend would ask them to do such an act. being really forward is something that turns me on, but it might repel your girlfriend. try bringing up stuff that you'd like to do, you should ask her what kind of fantasies she's had before, and if there's anything she's wanted to try. i was really open when i was asked that question, so i thought it was kind of fun. or you could just wait until she's touching you down there, and ask her if she wouldn't mind trying it. if she's like me, which i hope she is for your sake, i absolutely love giving them to my boyfriend now. i like to see how much pleasure he gets from it, but if your girl isn't as willing, tell her you'll wait for her to come around, but you really really would like her to. if you want anymore advice about this be sure to ask me! i love helping with sexual questions. :) [ cheddar's advice column | Ask cheddar A Question ]
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