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my name is joey, im 14 years old. i like music,TV,hanging with friends,swimming,writing and going online. i live in salem, oregon. you can ask me any queston you want and i'll try to answer it the best i can. i want and hope that i can help you

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What are the bases?
i knoe base 1 is making out whats theres?

2nd base is above the chest
3rd base is pretty much everything except you know what
and home base is you know what

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so my sister annoys the heck outta me.she hasnt lived with me for like 7 years but here she is trying to mess me up.always on my case like she knos me.i love here and all but she needs to back off and let me live my life.what should i do.

ps:shes older than me by 6 years

i go through the same thing. and that's not just advicenator talk. my big sister always drives me crazy and i love her and all but somtimes i just wanna pull of her head and hit it with a gulf club. now i know you might get tierd of hearing this because i know i was but i think it's best to just ingnore her. if you ignore her she'll probably stop. or you could talk to here and say she's buging the heck out of you, but that might not work so if i were you i would just ignore her

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I am 15 year old male, gay, and attending High School. In the past year, I've come to terms with who I am and I've come out to 2 of my friends. My huge problem is that nobody my age comes out of the closet so I am going to be single for a while. I am despretely lonely and wanting someone to sweep me off my feet. I just feel so deprest and want to have a boyfriend like all the other straight couples have where you love each other and understand each other and comfort one another. My problem is that there is this guy that I like but he has no clue I exist. I think that he is gay. The signs are that he is in tennis, went to tennis camp and is trying out for the tennis team, is in drama class, his eyebrows look plucked, he looks well made up and his hair is curly and conditioned, he is fit, and all his friends are strangely attractive. I also see the way he looks at guys and can kinda tell. I really want to become friends with him so that I can be around him and be happy and possibly get him to come out to me and maybe even become my boyfriend but I don't know how to go up to him and become his friend. It's like I can't just walk up to him and say hey what's up because we don't know each other so I was thinking of bringing up tennis because I've started taking lessons and stuff and I'm going to try out for the team just so I can be there with him and possibly go to his camp and get closer to him. I just don't know how to become his friend or how to talk to him. What should I do?

he may be gay, but that could just be a stearotype. a lot of guys that seem gay really arn't. this situwation needs to be handeled delicalty, if you do this the wrong way you could be the laughing stock of the hole school. if i were you at first i would become his friend then ask him if he is gay and say your friend wanted to know.

hope i helped

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okay this is mainly a question for guys. girls if you want to put in your own input go for it. these are random questions ive always wanted answers for;

1. is it okay for a girl ask out a guy first
2. is it okay for a girl to ask out a guy for a informal/formal school dance
3. do guys find girls who burp un-attractive [and yes i burp but not like all the time]
4. do guys find people who are overweight or fat un-attractive in a way to go out. but can be friends with them. [im nto overweight just wondering]
5. what type of girl do guys really want to go out with.
6. is a smart girl a type a guy wouldnt go out with.
7. what age to guys usually loose their virginity compared to girls.

LOL THNX! THESE ARE SOME QUESTIONS IVE ALWAYS WONDERED..

1.TOTALLY, infact many guys like it when girls do that
2.again,TOTALLY, guys like that
3.that's very contraviresel,but i would'nt reccomend it.
4.again, vary contraviresel, but most guys wont mind after they get to know you.
5.at the begging, a girl with curves and who is sexy but those are just the hormones talking. most guys want someone kind and understanding and who they can get along with.
6.again, very contraversel, but there are alot of not shallow guys.
7.it usally depends, guys are weighting longer and longer these days.but i'd say around 16-20 or when ever your ready.

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my boyfriend says he would like to go to 2nd base..maybe even 3rd. the problem is..i know people have so many ideas of what the bases are that i don't know exactly what he means. could someone please clear this up for me? also, we have been going out for three and a half months..is it too early for me too go that far with him?

1rst base is kissing, 2nd base is above the chest, 3rd base is pretty much everything else, and i think you know what home base is.

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to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight?

walking is exculelty a good way to loose weight. but it will take longer to loose weight with walking so if you want fast resaults dont go with walking.

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On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece?

the boy wont care if your nipples show. and he'll probably like the bikini more so go with the bikini.

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i rate 5s!!!
i'm going to a hawaiian party soon & i don't know what i should wear. i don't want it to really stand out (don't tell me i shouldn't, i don't ok??) and i just want it to kind of blend into what all the other girls will be wearing. what do you think everyone else will wear? it's hawaiian casual. what should i wear? where could i buy it?? thanks sooo much!!!

i dont know that much about fashion but you could wear some flipflops, a hula skirt, some of those hula neclese things, and a brightly colored shirt

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im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do?

if your friends are really your friends. the'll except you for who you are, and not for how many times you've done it. and if they stop being your friends for such a ridulious reason then there not worth being friends with.

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how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *

sexually abusing someone is when someone you know like your relative touches your private parts or has sex with you with out your permission. bassically raping you

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so I was over my godmothers house today and her son *george* in 10th grade was with me, my little brother and his little sister. I started talkin to my little brother about hanging out with one of my ex boyfriends and *george* was like "are you messed up why are you thinking of goin back out with him you know that kids messed up in the head. Plenty of guys would love to go out with you so why would you pick this messed up kid. you must really be desperate if you wanna be with him!!..it's not like you LOVE him or anything" but the truth is i do really love him and I know it's definately a fact. I just wanna know why he went off on me so bad about me liking this kid. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do about my ex and why *george* flipped out so much??THANK YOU!
my ex is 14/m, im 13/f, and george is 15/m

he's probably just protecting you. or maby those two don't get along or somthing.

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How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it

I rate high

well, you might have a problem with your dad. but your mom will probably be exiceted. moms are just like that. but with your dad you might wanna take things slow. but he'll ecept it

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what is herpes??

herpes is when you get these soars on your private parts.

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i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!!

you really don't have to worry. middle school is never as hard as it seems. everyone is going what your going through. so they all know how you feel. and you'll most likly get a friend. pretty most everyone dos. just remember to be yourself. it well be okay

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okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat?

you probaly have water weight to loose now. just keep trying and im sure you'll loose the weight

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okay this isnt really a sex question.. but here it is. im 14/f and i dont have that big of a chest. At my camp, the guys are always making fun of me for it. My doctor recently said within the next two years i would be done growing.I dont want a small chest, but im afraid thats what im going to get. When i reach my peak with height, is the rest of my body gunna continue to develop? or am i stuck this way forever?

i'll rate high if i get good answers.

you have nothing to worry about,my sister too had this experinse. breast are really wierd.insted of growing short and frequlenty, they just kinda junp up on you. so dont worry, you'll get them sooner then you think

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what do you do when your parentswant to do something you dont want to do for example church?

well no matter what you do someone is gonna get mad. but if you want my opion you should do what you think is best. now i dont find anything wrong with church. but i dont think it's your parents choice to tell you what to do and where to go. but im just saying your parents may get mad and you may get grounded

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Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them everyday and says all this stuff, which mostly isn't true, then they all like ask me questions. I'm like arghh!! Like I'm totally sick of it and I need help because now he's all like, "no that ridiculus, I'm not gonna stop talking to them." And tonight all of my friends got into a fight. I just stopped crying. I'm tired of it. I've had like major breakdowns where i just have to sit or else I'll kill someone. It's horrible. What should I do? Please help.



*I rate 5's for good answers*

♥ Broken, Lost,and Confused but not giving up.

some men become assholes when they really like you or are jelous or somthing. or maby somthing is going on in his life. i have a feeling he'l get better

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Ok. I just had minor surgery on my left big toe. To be more specific, the surgeon ripped off half of my toenail and now it is wrapped up in a big toe turban. But the problem is, because the toe turban is so huge, it won't fit comfortably in a shoe! And I'll be having that toe turban on for a long time until my toenail grows back! And I'm going to school next week! What can I do? I really hate (and don't have any) sandals!

get bigger shoes

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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!

you cant stop people from being who they are. and you dont half to stoop to there level. the best way to get popular is to be yourself.

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