Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either
Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself...
you could talk to somebody about it. not even a professional, anyone. tell him that it hit you and ask him what he thinks is wrong. dont let things build up inside you that bother you. let everything out, you'll feel alot better. honestly, im like that too. everyone tells me im bipolar. i'd say just try to calm down and talk to somebody about it. good luck :/ ♥
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i want to get one of the music download things for my computer... but my dad is really iffy on it... how do i let him know it wont harm our computer, and that its not illegal... also what are some ones other than limewire... i tried that before and my dad was really mad aboutit... and are there any of them that cant get into the cookies? that was the only thing my mom was worried about.. so can u please just tell me some of the sites i can visit that cant interfere with all the personal information?!?! thanks so much!!
yahoo..it costs money but its good
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Okay, I know how to french kiss and all that jazz but well, this is gonna sound dumb but french kissing for a really long time is making out right? I mean, that's what people tell me and I guess that's right but can you please help! And maybe give me some tips for making-out... thanks so so much!
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nah not a really long time.. i mean it could like 5 seconds, or an hour. anything. but since its your first time it definitely wont be long at all..unless you both want it to be. anyways, when you go to kiss him, lean in an tilt your head the opposite way that he's leaning his. if hes not then jus tilt it to whatever side you want and kiss him. you could jus peck him on the lips first n then start "french" kissing him. it sounds kinda intimidating but dont worry about it at all. just kinda stick ur tongue in his mouth..move it around..circles.. whatever. you'll know what to do once you do it. jus kinda go with the flow..if you need --anything-- else drop another oone in the inbox ♥
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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?
work out, talk to someone, go running
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I go back to achool in just about 2 weeks!! I'm crying hystarically every night because I don't want to go!! My best firend is not coming to school with me anymore and I'm going into 7th grade so that means cliques have been made and I'm on the outside!! In 6th grade I did not make many new friends so I don't know how many Im going to make this year! I'm scared and depressed. How can I make the most out of my summer?!
LIVE IT UP TO THE FULLEST while its still here. go out and do whatever you want. meet more people. go shopping..swimming..the beach..amusment park..hang out with your best friend alot before school starts and try to stay close with her during school. hav a great rest of the summer ! ♥
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Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!
talk to 'west' about it.. if he feels the same way then you should tell 'drew and kristina' too. if not, then try to get over him. it will be hard but think about 'drew' more. take a break from 'drew' if you need time to yourself to think everything over. dont talk to 'west' online as much anymore. i really dont know what else to say unless talk to him about it and see how he feels. good luck with all of this hun ♥
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ok my boyfriend and i have been going out for 2 years and he thinks im going to leave him. everyone hes gotten close to has left him but i never will. i dont know how to make him see that i wont. i love him way to much and if i was going to leave him then i would have when he lied to me about something. but its also getting me nervous because i dont know if he wants to take a break or anything, and i dont want to ask because im afraid of his answer. what should i do? please help. i rate.
talk to him about it. explain to him how much you care about him and you want to be with him. ask him if he feels that way too. you have to tell him how you feel. its not fair to you. definitely talk to him about it ...good luck girl ♥
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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him?
talk to him about it, ask him to respect your decision. tell him you will, when your ready.
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ok, iam a prude and this might sound soo werid but i was wondering how to kiss [ like make-out ] and i have braces ... when i do makeout with a guy will it hurt his lips or tounge or anything because i have braces?
no it shouldnt hurt him. i had braces too and it never has. theres websites you could look at that tells you pretty much everything but once u do it you'll know & get the hang of it. good luck ♥
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OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!
that sucks..i dont know of any people who would take that as a compliment. thats definitely not something to be proud of. i think someone should let those girls know that, so thats where you could come in. or just let them be gross and get std's and deal with it because they brought it upon themselves. all you can really do is stay away from it. :/ good luck ♥
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my brother ethier never hangs out with me or or trys to make it as short as possible. and everytime i ask him if we can hang out more, he yells at me. how do i get my brother to hang out with me more often
well personally, i wouldnt like hangin out with my brother because hes younger then me. only a year but still. i dont know, i think it would be weird if he was around. i'd feel like my dad was watching me. maybe thats just me..but he might feel weird because your his BROTHER. its most likely not anything personal towards you. talk to him about it..respect his opinion, and try to hang out with him when its just you two.
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maybe you shud be a littLe more specific- peace
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My friend.. is on the edge of not being my friend anymore. She's driving me insane. All she ever talks about is how sucky her life is. She hates her parents, car, job, school. She hates everything and is CONSTANTLY complaining about how sucky her life is. She thinks at 18 she's had the hardest life ever. HA! If her life really sucked that bad, she would change it right? No, she just likes to nag. How can I tell my "friend" (in a NICE way) that if she doesnt stop B!tChing than Im going to have to start ditching?
be there for her, take her out and have a good time.. make her see the bright side on situations..help her out and do whatever you can, if she keeps being like that..tell her you cant handle her as a friend ..maybe she'll realize how her attitude is affecting everyone else, and stop. good luck ! ♥
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how are you supposed to respond to guys when they open up to you and tell you something personal... like that their dad has cancer, they are still in love with their ex, or their parents are getting divorced? i know how to comfort my friends that are girls, but guys, i dont know what to say... i'd really appreciate any ideas.
make sure theyre okay.. tell them if they ever need anything you'll be there..try to take their minds off of it n go out somewhere..say that if you wana talk about it we can but if you dont ill understand..pretty much anything so that they know your always guna be there but your not gonna force them to talk to you. good luck hunnieee ♥
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hey i am 13/f and i am here to talk about the thing with the guy, online, you said you were going through the same thing. i am just wondering what to do bc he is such a nice gut and i KNOW i can trusrt him. i love him soo much! he is always there for me and stuff. he is just, the perfect guy. im sure you know what i am talking about, right?
yeahh definitely!!! i jus hope ours arent the same. haha.. umm how old is he, wheres he from and how'd you 2 start talking?
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if you talk to a boy online and you never saw him and you love eachother and have soo much in common and stuff, is that considered have a boyfriend even though you have never saw him and stuff?? bc i really love this guy and he feels the sam way but he lives real far away. is this like a boyfriend? and if it is say i went out with him and then i have a boyfriend here, would that be cheating on my online boyfriend?
I RATE SOOOO HIGH!!!
please help me quick!!
signed,
young, curious and in love
im in the same situation.. and i question the same thing.. if you wanna talk about it drop one in my inbox. id like someone else to talk about this with. so if yu wanna.. im here ♥
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Okay, I know this might sound stupid, but in October, there's a Halloween Dance, and they encourage you to wear costumes. What are some good halloween costumes? I was thinking of being a pink lady, or dorothy, from the wizard of oz. Nothing to drastic, because I go to a catholic school. Thanks
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aw be a drag queen ♥
if not.. you could look on these websites. hope i helped & have fun =)
http://www.costumeideazone.com/
http://www.kidsturncentral.com/holidays/hcostumes.htm
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hes moving tomrw to nebraska and i live in new york. i dont know what to do because were not technically together we just hooked up a lot but never dated since he was moving. i cant stop crying and i dont want him to leave. he told me he wasnt gunna get a girlfriend cuz theres nobody hed rather be with then me. and this makes me feel horrible because im pretty and i could get a boyfriend easily and dont like being alone. What should i do? i cant just forget him because hes coming back for breaks and is gunna call me a whole lot. but i love this guy.
if you love him then definitely hold on to him. but if you get lonely and stuff, talk to him about still being together but hookin up with other people too.. just make sure you or him dont fall for anyone else. its a hard situation because either way you look at it, theres a chance things could fall apart. just make sure you talk everyday.. know what hes doing and let him know what your up to too. be honest and everything should work out. good luck girl i hope everything works out for you two ♥
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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?
BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer.
i'd definitely tell your friends..ask him what hes doing ..act cool about it so he doesnt suspect anything..n then tell your friends. that sucks :/ good luck ♥
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there is this one guy that i really like.i know that i love him too.when i am in love i can't sleep or eat and i can't even breathe right when i see him or think about him. i have know idea what to do. until my one friend had a little chat with him.. he said at first that he would never go out with me. but then later he said i am confused and i need to get my priorities straight. so is it best just to be his friend right now.. or should i try to get him ?
signed
crazy in love but very confused
its probably best for you to keep your distance from him. just be friends with him and hang out. act like you dont want him because that makes guys want you. he'll still be there so to stop him from hurting you, jus chill for awhile..think about other options and wait it out. if its meant to be, it'll happen
good luck ♥
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My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?
first off, dont let these people tell you who to date or who not to date. yeah, it can be dangerous..but if you trust that he is who he says he is, then i see no reason to stop talking to him. if you ever do meet him, make sure your not alone, have a cell phone with you and make sure its in a public place. hang out in public until you trust him. i have a question, how old is he? i know exactly where your coming from. but if you dont want him to be your first kiss, you dont have to. dont worry about hurting him. its COMPLETELY up to you. your gonna remember it forever, so dont make it a bad memory. if you have any more questions let me know. good luck and keep yourself safe. ♥
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