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hes moving tomrw to nebraska and i live in new york. i dont know what to do because were not technically together we just hooked up a lot but never dated since he was moving. i cant stop crying and i dont want him to leave. he told me he wasnt gunna get a girlfriend cuz theres nobody hed rather be with then me. and this makes me feel horrible because im pretty and i could get a boyfriend easily and dont like being alone. What should i do? i cant just forget him because hes coming back for breaks and is gunna call me a whole lot. but i love this guy.
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Well if you really do love this guy then you can make it work, but it's not going to be easy...especially if you don't like being single or alone for long. But if you find that you want to be with someonelse...have the courtesy to call this guy and let him know!
Love ~Ash~
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if you love him then definitely hold on to him. but if you get lonely and stuff, talk to him about still being together but hookin up with other people too.. just make sure you or him dont fall for anyone else. its a hard situation because either way you look at it, theres a chance things could fall apart. just make sure you talk everyday.. know what hes doing and let him know what your up to too. be honest and everything should work out. good luck girl i hope everything works out for you two ♥
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definetly tell him how you feel. tell him exactly what you told us. that you could get a bf easily but youd rather not because you dont wanna be with anybody but him.keep in close contact with him and make sure you see him when he comes back to visit.and try not to cry. just think of when he comes back to visit and how happy you will be to see him.i know it seems like its never gunna work out but if you both want it to you CAN make it happen.just always remember that.
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You can't put your life on hold for him. If you two can keep the long distance relationship by using the computer/ and or phone, then by all means, do it. But don't put your life on hold for him. It's long distance and you don't know what he's doing. Technically all you know about what he's doing is what he tells you. So you should not reject the opportunities that may come available. You two are not married and you two are young. Don't worry. If you don't like to be alone, then explain your situation to him. I know that you may love this guy, but like I said, if you love him then this long term relationship will work . There shouldn't be too much to worry about. But remember what I said if an opportunity comes knocking. Technically, you only know what he wants you to know. If you feel a rift, then you have to decide what to do. We, advice columnists, can't tell you what to do. We only can lead you to your heart. So, question is where is your heart. And what do you think?
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I just moved from Pennsylvania to Texas, two weeks ago. I know exactly what your going through because I had to leave my best friend; Charles, of whom I was so close to dating behind. I miss him tons, and I told him I would wait for him, because, I believe I will & I think I can. But, I'm only 15 and I'm going to have a lot more relationships that I'm going to have to concker throughout my life. I know I promised him I would wait, but I don't know that, I mean I don't know what guys are like in Texas, I'm just so used to the stupid fags up in Pennsylvania. It's best if you & your boyfriend take a break, only because it's probably just what's best out of the situation, and do it before anything gets too serious. Waiting or keeping things from him can definitely put a dent in the relationship. If you ever need to talk, im me @ REMOVED, because I'd love to talk to someone who's going through the same thing I am.
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