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Okay i like this guy, or i think i like this guy, i don't know. okay, i have liked this guy for a couple of mmonths and everyone says he's ugly. till now i wasn't able to see he was ugly but a couple days ago i don't know what happened but i suddenly saw him. i know this sounds confusing but it's weird. i actually saw him not the guy that was stuck in my head (maybe because he had no hair gel in his hair). i don't know what to think. have fallen out of love with this guy?
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If all you care about is the way this guy looks, then you never even loved him in the first place. You can't love someone just 'cause you think they look good.
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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks. (link)
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It is only considered sexual harassment if it seriously bothers you! If it's just a joke and you think it's funny, then it's not.
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What do people think of a guy getting there ears pierced? IM not talking the lobe im talking the cartilage (link)
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I think it's really cool. I have no problem with it at all!
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Ok, so there's this guy, Charlie, and we're friends. We're not REALLY close, but I've known him for four years. We don't talk as much as we used to because our paths don't cross as often. I've liked him for a while, a year or so. Sometimes, when I'm really busy and I haven't talked to him for a while, I don't feel like I need him as much as I do most of the time. The thing is, whenever I look into his eyes the feeling is so powerful. I mean, his eyes are so deep. And our conversations flow well. It's never awkward or anything. He's also funny, we can make each other laugh and everything. The thing is, I don't know why the feeling is so much more powerful when I look into his eyes. It's weird. And I don't know how the feeling can fade a bit but come back so strong. I've never really felt like this. I almost feel like I only like him to like someone. But then again, it's not. I was just wondering, do you think I actually like him? Or am I only making myself like him? Oh yeah, we're the same age, and sophmores. (link)
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I know exactly how you feel, I like this guy and he's sooo deep, and his eyes are like woah, and I can tell him anything! :) But he has a girlfriend. Anyways..to your question...I think you DO like him, you can't make yourself like someone, it just happens, and you get this feeling when you're around them. :) Try to talk to Charlie more often.
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what are some really good stores to find name brand things that arent to expensive?? (link)
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The Crate is awesome! It has name brand clothing from a lot of different companies, but all in one store for inexpensive prices!
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I've been majorly depressed since May of last year. and I went through a lot of stuff during that time, including therapy. Two days before Christmas, my boyfriend (Kyle) broke up with me and made the whole depression thing worse, until I eventually got over that.
Well, after Kyle broke up with me, this other guy that has always been there for me through anything, being kind of like an older brother, confessed that he has feelings for me. Hes the sweetest anyone has ever been to me. I love him. But, a couple weeks ago Kyle asked me back out, and I couldn't go back out with him because he broke my heart, and our relationship wasnt that great to begin with. Anyways, since then I've been really really depressed, I got the the point where I was suicidal, and I almost killed myself. I told the other guy that I can't date him now, even though I really want to, because I think I should wait until I start to get happy again. I've been seeing my schools "crisis counselor", and I'm starting to feel better...slowly but surely. And now I'm scared to get my heart broken again. I dont know what to do, because I really want to date him. I know he would wait for me until I feel realyl ready to date him, and I want to date him now...I dont know what to do though, Im just confused. Any advice? (link)
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I think that if you want to date him, then you totally should. He could be a new source of happiness for you! :) And he seems to be a nice dude[from what you've said].
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Latley everything has been so messed up. About 2 and a half years ago i was diagnossed with Annorexia Nervosa - my boyfriend has recently found out, and same with his family. He told my best friendand she called me in tears. i know he`s only looking out for me but they just wont get off my back about eating and not b/p now. They think its so easy to just become better with a snap of my fingers. My best friend told me shes afriad to talk to me about it and my boyfriend yells at me about it like its suddenly going to "fix" me and change everything. I feel so alone in all of this. Ive tried explaining the details of it, why it`s caused, how its caused, the syptoms and everything but they just cant seem to understand better. how do i deal? (ps i know i need to "get help" and believe me ive tried but every time i try i choke up, run away and start crying) helllp!! (link)
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Well, yeah, you do need help. But your friends and your boyfriend seem pretty awesome! They're just there to look out for you and they obviously really care about you and your well-being. Start out slow, eat a little food at a time, and everyday make your meals bigger, until they're a healthy[and decent] size.
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i was going out with this guy john secretly (i broke up with him though) b/c my friend alexia said taht if i went out with him then she would turn everybody against me. i didn't think that was fair so i went out with him secretly. but she found out and so did the whole school. i denied it but john didn't. everyone beleved me. but then my friend set me up and alexia was on the line listening. now she is REALLY PISSED at me. she is hella mad and might drop me as a friend and turn the whole school against me. she even said she was thinkn about it. i dont know what to do b/c SHE WILL turn everyone against me. she's already done it to some people. i just really dont know what to do. im not blaming anyone but myself. Please what should i do??!! (link)
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Apparently, Alexia is NOT your friend. Forget about her, and you shouldn't have broken up with your guy just because some chick will get pissed at you, she's just jealous. Don't blame yourself on this! Just know who your true friends really are. And if everyone believes this Alexia loser, then they have a hek of a ride to get on. She's a low-life, sceming, prick. And you can tell her I said so, lol. If you really like John, then go back out with him. If YOU like him, then that's all that really even matters.
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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you? (link)
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He doesn't call you, he never wants to hang out anymore, he's all over another girl(or girls), and if he avoids you. Those are all I can think of right now.
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I'm so upset my friends Shay, Dani, and Briana told my crush I liked him and said I stalked him and stuff. But I don't and before they said that he was so sweet to me. I'm already not talking to my friends and I think I was in love with this kid. Last time I talked to him he told me to go suck a dick. I'm so upset. What should I do I can't get over him? (link)
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Obviously your "friends" aren't really your true friends. Keep ignoring them. Tell your crush that you know what your friends did and that everything they said was a lie, and that you apologize on their behalf, because they're probably to low to do it themselves. And if he doesn't believe you, then he's not worth any of your sweet time!
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okay well theres this guy i flirt with alot. Everyone thinks we shuold go out, but i dont know if i like him. He told my friend that "he wasnt flirting, he was just not refusing" and he told my other friend "he'd only date me if i gave him a BJ" i dont know if hes kidding but thats nasty..I dont know if he likes me! And also we are both single and eh said he would be my valentine, and he is buying me a presant! help? (link)
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This guy is a total perv with major hormones! I wouldn't date him, and I don't think he likes you. :( Sorry, but he's a loser anyhow. He's probably BSing about the Valentine's Day thing. But in case he does get you something, buy him something inexpensive, like a hat or something.
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I don't know who I need to talk to about this. I'm just looking for someone to try and help me make sense of my situation. See, I've always dreamed of being famous. Being an actress or singer and making millions. Being as popular as Britney Spears was and all that. But, the problem is I like in a small town and inside, I know that it is so unlikely I am going to ever have the chance to be famous. I;m in local plays and musicals, but I get small roles. I don't have a good singing voice either. But, every day I dream and think about this. Does everybody want to be famous ? Or do you think i should pursue this dream, that i think about this a lot for a reason? help! (link)
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"If you can dream it, you can acheive it."
I think you should totally go for it! Maybe call an angency or visit their website and find out how to get into all of that! And then just do it! BeLiEvE iN yOuRsElF! :)
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I have a BF(boy friend)and he said he was goin' 2 call me but he never did is that any sign of he wants 2 break up with me?or doesn't want to call me no more? i rate very high.
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If this is the first time he has done this, then he probably just forgot about it. But if he always does this, you should probably dump him. Cause that's a really bad sign. You should ask him why he didn't call you!
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okay..well there is this boy in my class named "Collin" and collin and me are best friends..and we tell eachother everything..and well he tells me that he likes some else..but he cant tell me right now..and he and me always flirt..and all my friends think i like him and he likes me..the problem is i dont think i like him..i used too..but i just cant figure out my feelings at the moment..i mean..should i try to tell him that i might have feelings for him..or dont tell him at all..and does it seem from this thing..that he likes me?! i need help! thanks! xo (link)
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I do not think you should tell him ya like him just yet. And yes I think he definitely likes you.
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I've been best friends with a girl named Kaitlin for over 11 years now and we're both 16 (I'm a girl too btw). Lately she's been so consumed with her social status that she doesn't even talk to me or even look at me anymore because I'm not "cool enough". We both play on the volleyball team and she really isn't a very good player, but she gets really jealous because I always play all the time and I got moved up to varsity this year while she didn't. I get the feeling that she talks behind my back because now the whole volleyball team hates me and I'm naturally a very quiet person so I don't know why they'd have any reason to dislike me. I don't have very many other friends. It's really hard for me to talk to other people, and I don't want to be friends with Kaitlin anymore. What do I do? And should I try to get revenge? (she also purposely ditches me at dances and stole my bf just to get me angry...) (link)
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Apparently this girl really is no "friend" at all. Maybe you two should sit down and talk this whole thing over. And maybe you should try to make new, nice friends. But don't stay friends with this girl, she's just trouble.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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Kissing and/or making out is easy. Just pucker your lips(far away from your teeth) right before you lean in, and just do it! But, never be pressured into anything you don't want to do.
"A kiss blown is a kiss wasted, the only real kiss, is a kiss tasted!"
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hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up? (link)
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When you go to the dermotologist they look at your face and maybe feel it and will take pictures, and then they will give you prescriptions, and you go like every month so they can keep up with how your face is doing, so they know if you need different prescriptions. I must say, I went on Accutane(only for really bad cases), and it DOES REALLY WORK! But everything you go on takes about five months to actually clear your entire face.
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Okay well i guess this isn't a diet, but all I eat pretty much is like junk food and im kinda overweight..i think anyways..so i want to try and stop eating that and eat healthy. The thing is, since thats like all thats in my house is things that are bad for you its hard and thats what i crave all the time-sugar or something so its really hard to stick with it..what should i do to keep with the healthy food and stuff and not eat sugary things or junk food?? (link)
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Everytime you want some junk-food, look at how many calories are in it. Or think of a model, and what their body looks like. And it would totally help to not buy junk-food at all. Before you go shopping, make a list of healthy foods and stick with it!!
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My best friend in 5th-8th grade, Charles promised me that he would go to our Freshmen dance no matter what! And now that it's ninth grade, it's in like 2 months. My friend Amanda asked me this morning on the bus who I was going to the dance with and I said Charles and then she goes and asks him 1st period if he'll go with her!! HE said he'll dance with her! That makes me so mad. Me & Charles haave talked about it, and he said if it gets that big of a deal he's not going to go anyways. Should I take him? even though he might dance with Amanda? - thanks alot (link)
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Well it doesn't seem like Amanda is a very good friend. Charles didn't say he was going to take Amanda, all he said was that he was going to dance with her. Don't make to much of an issue over it, cause then he won't go at all.
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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!! (link)
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If you're scared then you definitely shouldn't do it. Don't be pressured to do something you don't want to. And think about it..he's had sex three times, and you're a virgin why did his other sexual relationships end? And it probably is going to hurt.
"When climbing the ladder of success, don't let the boys look up your dress. They will say you're cute and say you're fine but in 9 months they'll say its not mine."
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