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I've been best friends with a girl named Kaitlin for over 11 years now and we're both 16 (I'm a girl too btw). Lately she's been so consumed with her social status that she doesn't even talk to me or even look at me anymore because I'm not "cool enough". We both play on the volleyball team and she really isn't a very good player, but she gets really jealous because I always play all the time and I got moved up to varsity this year while she didn't. I get the feeling that she talks behind my back because now the whole volleyball team hates me and I'm naturally a very quiet person so I don't know why they'd have any reason to dislike me. I don't have very many other friends. It's really hard for me to talk to other people, and I don't want to be friends with Kaitlin anymore. What do I do? And should I try to get revenge? (she also purposely ditches me at dances and stole my bf just to get me angry...)
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Apparently this girl really is no "friend" at all. Maybe you two should sit down and talk this whole thing over. And maybe you should try to make new, nice friends. But don't stay friends with this girl, she's just trouble.
-Hope I helped!-
<*>bUtTeRfLiEs<*>
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ok wow she doesn't sound like a very nice friend. you obviously can't be friends with her anymore, but if you tell her that its just going to make her madder at you and start lots of rumors. you can't get revenge thats not the right thing to do, but if you don't do the right thing then sure get revenge get lots of revenge. you should try and talk to new people even if you are shy just try. thats my moto "just try" or "take a chance" hope i helped
*airhead*
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You live a sad life, its all cuz of your friend. NO LONGER, SHAKIE IS HERE TO HELP. Truthfully think about this, Her social status in which shes so consumed, may seem big right now, but think...when she leaves school and gets a job, on your resume you cant put, i was popular back in 10th grade. WHO CARES IF YOU WERE POPULAR. Social status gets you nowhere outside of shcool anyone stupid enough to get caught up in that fad is dumb. Now leave your friend, she stopped being your friend a while ago if she managed to do all this to you, try and meet new people, in class just casually say hi to someone, dont say anything conversation wise, unless something like, i dunno, itll pop up if you have to say something. If you say hi to someone gradually overtime they will say hi back and how are you, and from there a conversation will form and later a friendship. Anyways, dont worry bout revnge just dont be her friend, its revenge enough when she laeves school and finds out popularity is a non issue in real life. Something you have already been well aquainted with according to your story.
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hey! i know how you feel i recently got ditched by my friend too lol...i just don't talk to her anymore and pray that i will find new friends that are nice and won't talk about me behind my back, so far it has came true
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Revenge is not the answer. Either talk to her about it or make friends with new people.
Best of Luck!
heddo
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i know revenge is supposed to be sweet, but she will get hers, dont worry! if other people dont like you it's probably because she's telling lies on you. she is just jealous of you. try to be a little bit more social (even though i know it's hard), and you'll make better friends. but whatever you do, don't let her know she's getting to you, it'll just make her happy!
Hope i helped!
<3Kayla
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