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I Just don't know.
Ok, so there's this guy, Charlie, and we're friends. We're not REALLY close, but I've known him for four years. We don't talk as much as we used to because our paths don't cross as often. I've liked him for a while, a year or so. Sometimes, when I'm really busy and I haven't talked to him for a while, I don't feel like I need him as much as I do most of the time. The thing is, whenever I look into his eyes the feeling is so powerful. I mean, his eyes are so deep. And our conversations flow well. It's never awkward or anything. He's also funny, we can make each other laugh and everything. The thing is, I don't know why the feeling is so much more powerful when I look into his eyes. It's weird. And I don't know how the feeling can fade a bit but come back so strong. I've never really felt like this. I almost feel like I only like him to like someone. But then again, it's not. I was just wondering, do you think I actually like him? Or am I only making myself like him? Oh yeah, we're the same age, and sophmores.
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It sounds like you've got some chemistry going on. Then again, I know how you feel about the whole "like someone to have a crush" thing. I've done it myself- numerous times. I've decided I have a crush on a certain guy, then realize I really just wanted to be his friend.
If I were you, I'd try to stop agonizing over whether or not you're crushing on Charlie, and instead focus on more important things: like finding more time to talk to this guy- call him up, invite him to the movies with you and your friends, get his sn and im him, etc. Also- keep checking out other guys- there's lots of fish in the sea!
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I think you actually do like him. You can't make yourself like someone, it just happens. It looks like you have strong feelings for this guy though. I think you should try hanging out with him more often, maybe you'll begin to find other reasons why you like him. But it looks like you have a great connection with Charlie, don't let that go!
♥ Krissy
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I know exactly how you feel, I like this guy and he's sooo deep, and his eyes are like woah, and I can tell him anything! :) But he has a girlfriend. Anyways..to your question...I think you DO like him, you can't make yourself like someone, it just happens, and you get this feeling when you're around them. :) Try to talk to Charlie more often.
-Hope I helped!-
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