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I met this girl while playing a game. All I can say it's that she is the sexiest woman I know, and that would be a fact. I enjoy talking to her a lot, and even since the moment I 'met' her my life is not the same. Is it love? (link)
No it is not love. You have never met this woman. You may enjoy talking to her. But love is when you know someone, and trully care about them. You probab ly dont know the first thing about her. And for all yu know it may not even be a her.


My computer runs on wireless, something called Frontier and it's definitely faster than the dial up we used to have. Recently, though, it takes almost ten minutes to buffer a 24 minute video, sometimes even a two minute youtube vid, but my friend says her youtube tends to get slow too.
I watch most of my shows on hulu too. Is it the site or is it my Internet that's being slow? (link)
I have frontier and it takes 10 seconds to buffer a youtube video and 1.5 minutes for an hour video. Its not your internet, its your computer, you may have to many documents or need to defrag it.


i have chronic insomnia, the type where there's difficulty falling asleep, for years. do i ask my doctor if it's right for me or something? (link)
Of course you need to ask your doctor if it is right for you. You could pick out the wrong sleep medication and cause harm to yourself. Your doctor will know exactly what you need. I hope I helped.


Hes really not the sports type of guy, anything else.. ?? :/

A nd the situation with my daughters father is he is very disrespectful and rude, theres no more love we always fight.. Of course I will get along with him for our daughter but that would be all. (link)
oh ok. As long as you think its best for her.Talk about your day, ask him questions like his fav color or season. See if he likes what you do, simple stuff like that.


Okay so there's this guy I went to school with in middle school and I never saw him after 8th grade ever, in August on 2010 I SAW HIM and I was all goo-goo gagga over him , haha ! Butt.. I was pregnant, now I'm not and we are always texting and flirting .. But I'm still with my daughters father, and I plan on leaving him . (Thats besides the point) I've seen this guy twice and it seems as if we really like each other but when we see each other we don't have much to talk about, What can I do to fix this ? I get shy and I don't know what too sayyy . I really like him and I want to see if this will work out. Any Ideass? (link)
Think about your daughter here and what would be best for her before you kickstart another relationship. Now remember once you make a choice you have to live it. If you leave this man who is your faughter's father you might never get him back anbd your daughter wont often see her real dad.

Ill give you advice if you still want, make sure this is really wqhat you want. talk to him about sports, the superbowl is comin up read a little about ti and talk to him about it. GHuys love that stuff.


I have a really spoiled best friend and I really can't stand being around her anymore. Her parents have lots of money and my friend gets showered with money all the time. The last time my friend and I went to the mall her dad gave her $200 and said here honey have fun! I have an allowance and I actually have to work to get my money and my friend has never done any work in her life! She wears expensive clothes and has a container ten times the size of a shoebox chock full of makeup she never wears! She makes me so mad! She brags about it too!
Please help me!
Thank you :) (link)
SHow her the path to God. Teach her about his word and how ye of riches should share with thee of of poor.


I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. Two 1/2 months ago I cheated on him when he went away on a trip with his parents. I know I shouldn't have done it but it was with a guy I was interested in for a long time and I got those urges. Long story short, when I cheated on my boyfriend I went all the way with the other guy and we didn't use a condom or anything. My period missed and I took a pregnancy test that showed a big positive. It's been a couple of months since I cheated and I'm 100% sure I am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend I'm pregnant. He got all excited and thinks it's his baby. I guess I can't be for-sure it isn't his though because we've been having sex every since a month in the relationship though, you know?

I never told him I cheated. I don't want to ruin the relationship. I can't be for sure the baby isn't his or anything. Should I tell him? I just don't know what to do because I have feelings for him and I know he'd make a good father. I mean, if I tell him and he gets mad and leaves me but the baby turns out to be his then it's all complicated. It's such a sticky situation. Help? (link)
If it is someone elses baby, when you have it, he will find out and be devastated. IF your boyfriend is udnerstanding you will get through it. Tell him yourself. Dont let him find out after you went through labor.


Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay well the thing, I have this thing where I get really uncomfortable with people man handling me... Haha I'm around 5'5 and I wiegh a little over a hundred pounds (106?) so I'm not big and I'm not strong. See I wasnt exactly raped but oneof my ex boyfriends did force me to give him a hj and held ne down and fingered me against my will. He also hit me a few times.. Only my closest friends know about this. Its just made me really paranoid when a guy grabs me... I'm scared (irrationally,probably) that they'll do something to me even if it's one of my friends and were out in public.. My immediate response is I just shut down. I basically try to make myself as small as possible and shut my eyes and then it gets hard to breathe. I just don't know what to do. And I have one guy friend thar does this a lot and it really freaks me out, just the smallest thing like holding me back from getting shotgun... I don't wanna tell ppl what happened to me but they'll get suspicious of me being so uncomfortable with such a small thing... What's wrong with ne and what do I do?? (link)
Okay, you need to tell your parents about what happened. They wont look at you any differently Then your ex boyfriend youll never see him and youll have a sence of security. This wuill allow you to get a therapist. Good luck.


is it sinful to kiss the opposite sex. (link)
No, but it is sinful to kiss the same sex. Man and woman are made for each other. No it is nto sinful.


I like a girl that just transferred to my class. I think she likes me but im not sure. I want to go talk to her and find out if she might like me by the signs she gives me when I talk to her and for her to notice me. I just don't know what to say? (link)
Start some small talk. Say Hey, my name is _____. (fill in the blanks.) Or are you excited for the game. That test was ridiculous. Get flirty and talk to her like a normal person girls like that.


I'm going to go to highschool next year and i really want to make the highschool soccer team! I'm the fastest girl, on my current team. And I'm also one of the fastest girls in the league. I heard that in the highschool soccer tryouts, I will have to be able to run a mile in seven and a half minutes and then I will have to run another mile. But, I've always been bad at long distance running. I've started out with running a half mile around my neighborhood, but every time I run it(once or twice a week)it's extremely hard for me. I'm worried that I won't be able to run the 2 miles, once it's time for soccer tryouts. (link)
OK, keep running, you will get yused to it. ONce or twice isnt enough,. I run four miles a day. Run 3-4 times a week not more than 5 id say for beginner but it will start to work and your body will get in shaope. Bump it up a quarter of a mile a month. If your at half a mile. Next month run 0.75. Work your way to it. Youll get there in NO time.


I have sooo many whiteheads on my face. They are on my nose, my cheeks, and my forehead. How can I get them off without having to use a prescription or going to the drugstore or like that? ((I am 13)) (link)
Ok you need to get acne cream. You dont need a prescription. Have your parents take you too the stoer, or if your near one you can go by your self. I use Clean n Clear. But proactive works just as well.


I love to dress up with jhose and panties heels and cute dresses.I don't think I am gay.my girl friend does not object and I will not hide it from her I just feel inadequate and guilty why (link)
Your not gay, you have a fetish. Nothing wrong with that, everyone has a fetish. being gay is having attraction to men.


my boyfriend who is 18 has been trying to get into modeling for awhile now, well so far he has been scamed twice by people saying they are from modeling agentcies, and i dont want his hopes being crushed. i want to know how and where could we find an actually thing for modeling. i heard tyra banks has been looking for new models but i dont know how to contact her. im really desprate please help me and him thank you (link)
The power of google is amazing. Magzines, Tv shows, websites.


I am getting chalazin removal surgery soon at a local practice; not a hospital. I am only 16 and very nervous and have a huge fright knives and needles. I was told they give me local anesthetic, but upon request do you think they would give me nitrous? (link)
Listen, the worst thing they can do is say no, Just ask them. They can only say no there is a chace they will.


Im a girl but I dont want to be. I dfress like a guy act like a guy. I even play tackle football. I spit burp fart. And the whole bargain I recently got my period and I feelweird. I hatre being a girl. Wjhat do i do? (link)
just be calm


Hi, I'm a fifteen year old virgin and my vagina looks strange. All of my friends make fun of me... My vaginal lips stick out about an inch and their a peachy- purpleish color...... my mom says it's normal but my friends think i should get it checked out. my mom had one but she got surgery to make it normal. How come i have such a large one if i am a virgin? i rub my clit sometimes when i masterbate. if i stop doing that will it shrink and go back to normal? my boyfriend really wants to finger me, and i would let him if my vagina wasn't so retarded. should i tell him i have a large labia? should i tell him about my unconfidence. if so, please give me a great way to tell him..... he needs to know before going down there. i feel like that's the best thing or just letting it go but i honestly can't. it's been bothering me sooo much.. i just wanna get a pair of scissors and chop them off it looks like i have freaking testicles or somethingggg. it's really not fair. he's only done stuff with one other girl and he told me that her vagina smelled really bad and was disgusting. mine doesn't smell bad, it doesn't have a smell. BUT my labia is huge. how do i shrink it? how do i tell him? should i tell him? what do i do? Easy 5 points.. (link)
The best thing to do is just ignore it. He probably wont even notice. Most dont. Just keep it clean down there and change your underwear daily. DOnt tell him he wont notice. And if he does just tell him. Let him find out on hhis own chances are he wont notice.


Background: I met my boyfriend online, 2 years ago, and he moved from Florida to Missouri for me after a year of dating. We were really serious, and into each other. My parents disagreed with me dating him because we are different nationalities, and different religions. My parents aren't religious at all but they disliked the idea of me going against my culture. In June of 2010, I moved out of my house and in with my boyfriend.

Lately, I just haven't been happy with him. I realized how messy he is, how aggressive he is, how constantly unhappy he is, and it's the complete opposite of everything I am. I am always neat, meak, and optimistic. I'm not sure if I'm unhappy with him because I've been really stressed with school and work, or if I am interested in someone else, or because he is messy and psycho at times.

The extent to his crazyness is when he chokes on a piece of food, he will flip it off, flip the plate, curse at it, "teach it a lesson" & "punishment."

I just need an overview of someone else's thoughts. (link)
In my opinion he acts as if a meer child. I would leave him, he sounds like he is psychologically confused. Maybe even bi-polar. This rage may go out on you. If your unhappy just leave.


I'm 28, female

Ok, so this is a partially love/partially friendship topic so sorry for the long back-story thank you for your time!

My ex-boyfriend (my first love/sex/kiss) and I dated for 5 formative years until we finally fizzled out and decided we needed to date around since at 22 and 23 we felt like an old couple. We honestly stopped being in love but neither of us hurt the other one or cheated or anything-it just died and we're still very close.

We get along extremely well, we can tell each other anything and I often confide in him and seek out his advice-even on relationships! I've always expected that we would remain friends for our entire lives and my current boyfriend of 4 years accepts him and enjoys his company.

Everything was great until he met his now fiance. It's not that she sucks or anything- in fact, since he's been with her, I've only managed to see her once even though my ex and I keep some of the same circle of friends in our hometown, so I haven't had the chance to form an opinion of her. Since they started dating, he has distanced himself greatly and I rarely get to see him in person anymore.

I've received a "save the date" thing for their wedding and I really want to go-it looks fun and I wouldn't dream of missing one of my best friend's weddings! It would break my heart to miss it!

Unfortunately though, I've heard through a mutual friend of ours that the fiance hates me and they've fought a great deal over inviting me-she didn't want me to be there, but apparently he won.

This has been very hurtful for me. Ive never said anything bad about her and I don't really think meeting her one time calls for it. Actually, I think she must be a very cool, smart, and kind person if he would choose to share his life with her. I still very much want to remain friends with my ex and I desperately want his wife-to-be to accept me and the weird (it must be difficult to understand) platonic relationship I have with her fiance, and also, I really want to become her friend too!

I know that if she just spent more time with the two of us she would sense the true nature of our relationship and her mind would be put at ease. I know I can win her over if I just get the chance! However, obviously the reason I barely see him is because she's not cool with it so we don't really have a chance.

It sucks. I seriously care about him SO much-not romantically or sexually but definitely on a deep level.
He is my oldest close friend (10 years) and he means more to me than I could possibly express.

So, the real question:

Should I go to their wedding when I now know that she doesn't want me to be there?

Is it wrong for me to pretend as though I don't know this and press for the chance to spend time with her beforehand in order to win her over?

What can I do to reduce the awkwardness if I go to the event?
Bring my boyfriend?
Sit at the back?
Try to look crappy at the wedding?

Thank you guys!

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The best thing to do would be just relax and be yourself. You should probably bring your boyfriend. So the bride doest get ideas your moving in on the Groom. Just be your self and act natural. Everything will go fine.


Well I'm 17 and I'm a junior in h.s. there's this guy that I like and I think he. Likes me because he is always starring at me and sometimes tryies to bump into me when he can go a diffrent way and he some times tries to play pranks on me are these signs that he likes me or is he just weird?.....thanks to all who answer (link)
He is surely interested in you. Hes flirting and trying to get your attention. Try to give him signs you like him and see how he reacts Stare into his eyes for a second longer than usual. WHen you walk past him lightly brush up against his arm. Or my favorite drop your books near him. See if he comes over and helps you clean em up. I hope I helped.




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