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Do guys like larger inner labias?
Hi, I'm a fifteen year old virgin and my vagina looks strange. All of my friends make fun of me... My vaginal lips stick out about an inch and their a peachy- purpleish color...... my mom says it's normal but my friends think i should get it checked out. my mom had one but she got surgery to make it normal. How come i have such a large one if i am a virgin? i rub my clit sometimes when i masterbate. if i stop doing that will it shrink and go back to normal? my boyfriend really wants to finger me, and i would let him if my vagina wasn't so retarded. should i tell him i have a large labia? should i tell him about my unconfidence. if so, please give me a great way to tell him..... he needs to know before going down there. i feel like that's the best thing or just letting it go but i honestly can't. it's been bothering me sooo much.. i just wanna get a pair of scissors and chop them off it looks like i have freaking testicles or somethingggg. it's really not fair. he's only done stuff with one other girl and he told me that her vagina smelled really bad and was disgusting. mine doesn't smell bad, it doesn't have a smell. BUT my labia is huge. how do i shrink it? how do i tell him? should i tell him? what do i do? Easy 5 points..
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The best thing to do is just ignore it. He probably wont even notice. Most dont. Just keep it clean down there and change your underwear daily. DOnt tell him he wont notice. And if he does just tell him. Let him find out on hhis own chances are he wont notice.
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First you calm down and then relax. It's one of those things about your body that you can't change. It's normal for it to be a little longer and normal for it to be shorter.
You shouldn't be upset about it and your friends are wrong. The coloration and size is fine. If any guy thought it disgusting or didn't want to be with you over it than he's nuts. Also, stimulation of your genitals has nothing to do with size of labia so relax if you're doing that.
Just relax and know it's normal and learn to love your body no matter how it looks. Most guys would be happy to even be invited to see this area and engage in activity you mentioned and wouldn't care about size. As a matter of fact they might be scared of what you think of their private parts so it goes both ways.
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Funny you asked this question.
Not too long ago I asked one almost exactly like this.
I know how you feel, how you described your labia pretty much described mine to a Tee.
And you know what..? I got up the nerve and had sex for the first time last week. And the guy didn't say anything about it.
I sent him pictures too, and it scared me to death but I figured if he wasn't going to take me as I was he didn't deserve me.
So, you should feel the same way too.
I also took it upon myself to look up some pictures..and they all looked completely different from each other. So he shouldn't compare you to his exgirlfriend.
Hope I helped. (:
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