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If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.
Thanks!
Hey. My hair sort of does that too, so I always shower every morning before school. If you don't have time I suggest you pull it back or braid it or something because otherwise people will think you don't wash your hair! People with thicker hair typically don't have this problem. You could try switching shampoos but I doubt that would help much. If you don't have time to shower maybe you could spritz some water onto the top of your head and blow dry. ♥
I'm 16 and I'd like to try out for the school musical, but I'm really nervous. what should I do to have a good audition?
Pump yourself up and get excited. Reread any information that has been given to you prior to your audition. Warm up your voice if you are required to sing and stretch if you are required to dance so that you feel ready to do your best. Dress in comfortable clothes but clothes that will make you look somewaht like the character you are trying for. If you are given any lines before the audition, memorize and work on your delivery. If the audition is a cold read, just don't be nervous and be ready for anything! I'm sure you will do great! ♥
is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one
I'm not sure, you probably could but your parents wouldn't agree to that most likely! And ethically its too young. What you want now is not always want you want later on in life. If you feel ready to get married, then you can most definatly wait for that time to come. If you are worried about braking up, then for sure you are not ready to get married! Best of luck to you. ♥
i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e
Hey there. 5'1" is not Too short butI understand your concern. Unfortunatly there is not much you can do. If you drink coffee, that can stunt your growth so stay away from that, and also stretch and drink milk for strong bones :). You can wear those cute black sandals that have at least 1 inch if not 2 of heel. I have always thought they looked sooo adorable on girls but I'm too tall to wear them. We have opposite problems. Hehe. Also wear black tshirts to make you look slimmer and elongate your torso. Embrace your tininess... its cute! ♥
I am girl, and I would say that I have pretty wide hips but not that wide. I also have almost a flat butt. Whenever I go to buy pants, I always have a hard time finding ones that actually fit well. In the back, the belt loop line (whatever it is called ) always pops out from my back. I always need a belt to support that problem but then the back of the jean looks really weird. Should I go a size smaller or bigger? Should I get my pants tailored? Please help?! I will rate high!
Hmm if you go a size smaller, it could make your hips look even bigger. But if you go a size bigger, then they will make your butt look smaller. it looks like tailoring could be one of your only options other than finding a brand that makes jeans that fit you best. Try Lucky Brand Jeans. You can get them in a variety of sizes of length and pants size. Although length is not your problem, it seems these pants look good on and flatter many peoples bodies. Just a suggestion :) Hope all works out for you! ♥
first of all, my boyfriend and i have been together for two years, and about three months. i love him with all my heart, and i know he loves me as well. well, last month i was going through his sidekick and i went through his text messages. i wasnt looking for anything particular really, i just wanted to read my texts that i sent him. i came across a message from another female, and i guess he was trying to talk to her. i approached him right away about it. he told me that, yes, he hangs out with other girls, drinks with them, etc. im already aware of that, and thats perfectly fine with me. but then he told me that when he sees a cute female, that he does try to get her number for the challenge, and flirts with them. he said he's never done anything sexual with any other girl, he just likes to get to know other people. i let him know that bothers me and that if he still wants to be with me, he needs to stop approaching other females because thats unneccesary when he already has me. he said he'd stop. i really love my boyfriend, and i used to trust him, but after some of this stuff, its hard to trust him. im kind of stuck, and i dont know what to do because i find myself worrying about him cheating on me and things along that line. so.. i'd like to know, what would you do if you came across this situation. thanks. sorry about the length ;\
Hey! Actually, I have been in a situation similar to yours. And we both loved eachother as well. But ask yourself this- do you try to get other guys numbers if you think they are cute? Probably not. Most people in relationships would know that this is wrong. If your boy doesn't consider this "wrong" then he is probably not a loyal faithful person. However, I don't know him and cannot judge him because of this. But for most, people rarely change their ways. Think about whether or not you want to take that chance. I dont want you to get hurt like i did! ♥
okay so i always have the munchies and like i usally go straight ta the chips and chocolate! wut are some good but healthy snakcs i can chomp on till dinner time?
Hey! I know what you mean I'm always hungry but don't want junk! Try eating carrots, apples w/ peanutbutter, the healthy popcorn, rice crackers, chhese and crackers, or any kind of healthfood snack. You can go to Trader Joes or any other grocery store and ask for a healthfood section. They have lots of good food that is lowered in calories and junk for people who want to eat healthy. Most of the food still tastes good, too! ♥
ok well my mom just went away. she goes away every january andlast year she almost drowned twice!!! so i had this dream a month ago and i woke up crying because i thought she was dead, and it took me a while, and i really mean a while, to figure out it was a dream cause i thought it really happened. and i keep having these day dreams of her dying. idk whats wrong. please help me cause i don't want to be like going up to my mom saying "can i see a psychiotrist,i keep having day dreams of u dieing." so psychiotrist is out of the question. please help!!
sry bout the length!
Hey, that's not that weird because I always have the oddest dreams about my mom too. Like she has an evil twin that wants to hurt me and that she turns into weird things or she becomes evil. It's just because you don't want her to die or leave and you need her in your life. Eventually your dreams will stop from coming back. This is called a reccurent dream and theres not much you can do to get rid of them. Of course you don't need a psychiatrist! You are perfectly normal, dreams don't reflect much about you so please don't worry hun! ♥
Well, I am 13 going on 14, and I would like to have a party. My parents are strict..and for the past years my party has been just a sleepover with 2-3 girls. Wth, I know. That is certainly NOT a party. So, my problem is..I have so many friends, and I'm tired of narrowing down to 2-3 for a sleepover. I'm thinking of inviting around 10 people, maximum, because my parents will probably be pissssed. Ahaha. So, does anyone have an idea of what we can do? I don't want to go bowling..or golfing, OR see a movie, really. I wanna have a cool party, a fun one. My birthday's January 9th, but my party's not until later. (2 weeks maybe) So, does anyone have an idea what to do..something OTHER than a sleepover? Thanks.
You could have a themed party and invite over both guys and girls. You could play music and dance and play twister (Good with guys ;] ). You could have a pool party [i know i know, its cold] so maybe a jacuzzi party? Thatd be fun! Maybe you girlies could just go do something Totally Fun! Like go to Disneyland or Laser Tag or something random and just have a blast. ♥
ok, my parents are divorced, i think all my friends talk about me and hate me, and i think my moms going to die!! whats wrong with me? sometimes i feel like cutting myself but i don't. i just think thats not how u solve things but i feel like doing it so mucch. my life is soooo screwed. canyou help??
Aw, thats awful! It sounds like you have been through a lot... and for some people, after all of that, cutting is an option. But it sounds like you are smarter than that. Don't get caught up in that mess unless you want to Add problems to your already problematic life. There are many other things you can do, and one of them you have already done. Take the step to admit your problems and fears and talk them out. Trust me it can help sooo much. I haven't been through some of the things you have but I still know what its like from different scenarios. Talking things out will really help, maybe you can even join a club- like a support group or something! If thats not an option you can always talk to me. Just leave one in my inbox and we can talk about Whatever. ♥ don't forget!
my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
Aw! That's soo cute. He must really love you. It's obvious!! That's why he wants everyone to know. Maybe this could be your one chance to just take a chance in the spotlight. If it really makes you that uncomfortable, you can tell your friends when he is around and he could do most of the talking. But it's not like they will be asking you 10000 questions. They will just want to find out some details and congratulate you! It's a very big deal to get married :). And you will have to tell them sooner or later. Maybe you could tell them individually on the phone :). Hope that helped a bit. ♥
Hi, as many of you may of seen me post frequently,I am Mark. I have dissociative idenity disorder or multiple personalities. At first I didn't believe it but It became much worse. I just read an article about it and I have 90% of the symptoms. Should I get help? I'm an average 15 year old kid, just like some of you guys are or have been or will be. You remember what it was like to be different from everyone...What should I do, I'm for once stuck in life with not knowing on what to do..please help me.
-Mark
It's really apparent what you need to do, Mark! Please talk to your parents so they can help you consult with a doctor. You need to get on medication so that you can live your life normally or at least to the best it can be! No one deserves to live life with a mental imblanace such as yours. Need more advice? Just ask!! ♥
Something is wrong with me.. something always has been.. i`m thirteen and i have it fixed in my head that life planly sucks when i know and everyone else is telling me my life is good. i can`t stand whining and so i`m going to say i`m not. i always thought of myself as a sort of depressionist but i don`t need help. i don`t cry EVER.. but i want too. any advice.. please? xxOo
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- Adding on :: i do have a boyfriend and i like him alot this is the longest relationship i have ever been in and he claims to love me which is always fun to fight with him about. My family loves me they don`t really like me my mother says i cause her to much stress so i don`t talk to my family much. My home is fine to come home to i hate going home to it though but not for anything illegal. I never talk to my parents about anything personal about me i always talk to my friends. i didn`t even tell my mom when i had my period or about my love life. My mood changes alot i`m not constantly depressed and if i am but don`t want to be i fake it. i piss people off when i`m in a mood because i just ignore them because i get spazzy and will yell or throw something such as my cellphone. I don`t know what is wrong with me but it`s annoying and difficult to describe. Any more advice? xxOo [ thnx ]
Hmm that sounds weird. Thanks for writing back, but I'm afraid I can't be of much help because honestly I'm not a professional in this field or a doctor of any kind... which I really think you should see. If your mom says that you cause her stress, well that is normal because most kids do. But try to open up to her and build a stronger relationship. My mom is the one person I can confide in most because unlike friends she will always be there. She really helps me out and I don't know what I would do without her. If this doesn't seem right, try your Dad? You didn't mention him so I don't know if you have one but if you do then maybe you could try that. If not tell your mom that you need to talk to someone or see a doctor. Maybe he can get you on some medicine to help balance your hormones so you won't have mood swings, which is not always uncommon. If you need more advice or want to talk... please don't hesitate. ♥
Hey yeah.....My best friend likes my boyfirend...and shes trying to brake us up and I dont know what to do...cause i love my boyfriend to death and I don't want to lose him....and my best friend I dont want to lose her either I don't know what to do please help...I rate high!!
-Amanda Marie
That's very immature, mean, and untrustworthy of your best friend. A true best friend wouldn't do that. As for the guy, try to trust him. If you don't think you can then you need to either talk to her and him, or choose. Most likely you'd prefer not to choose. So try to talk to her about it and tell her that you don't appreciate what she's doing and that you two are a couple and are going to remain that way but you want to remain her friend as well. Then talk to your boyfriend also and tell him what she is doing so is aware and won't give in to anything or believe any lies she might make up. ♥
ok, i have stretch marks on the the sides or my butt..is that normal n if so what can i do 2 fix it?
If you have gained or lost weight lately it is normal. Try some cocoa butter lotion :). It helps scars fade. If that doesn't work try some lotion that is specially made for pregnent ladies because they get stretch marks. ♥
hey im working on equations of perpindicular lines. i dont no what to do because i dont know what tehe reciprocal of 2.5 is? what is it? thanks
First make it an irregular fraction or mixed or whatever you call it. And then find the reciprocal of that. 2 1/2 would be 5/2 so the reciprocal would be 2/5. So the perpindicular would be -2/5! ♥
In my house, all I have is a small stand-up shower (no tub!). It sucks. So that makes it more difficult to shave my legs. I tried shaving out of the shower using the sink with a towel on the floor to catch loose water...but it takes forever! Does anybody have any ideas to make it quicker? Or anything I can do? Thanks
You can get shavers that don't require water... electric shavers. They have some for girls that you can buy at Target or other places most likely. Maybe you could place your foot on the wall, I've done that before in hotels and stuff. I'm sorry, I wish I could help more :(. ♥ good luck
i have a bf and icant tell him why i love him i mean its heard because i dont know what to say i mean i love him i sware i havent ever had this of a stong feelings for a guy as i do for him what should I do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Tell him just that!!! Tell him you love him soo much that you can't even put it into words. Just be totally honest. Most ppl who hear that would be very flattered and happy. :) Tell him you've never felt this way and you know this is real. There are other ways to show you care. Like making him a card, giving him a little present, staring into his eyes like you love him!!! If you aren't at that level in your relationship yet then do the same only take it down a notch so you don't overwhelm him. Just take your time! :) ♥
Something is wrong with me.. something always has been.. i`m thirteen and i have it fixed in my head that life planly sucks when i know and everyone else is telling me my life is good. i can`t stand whining and so i`m going to say i`m not. i always thought of myself as a sort of depressionist but i don`t need help. i don`t cry EVER.. but i want too. any advice.. please? xxOo
That sounds awful. I've never had that problem but maybe you should try focusing on Why you know your life is good. Do you love someone? Does your family love you? Do you have a nice home to run to and good surroundings? If you feel down, it could be just because of hormones but you said its always been this way. Maybe you should try talking to your parents about it. Or focus on what you think could be depressing you and try to convince yourself out of it. It's up to you.. get help or try to help yourself. Try to be happy, hun! If you need to talk, just drop one in my inbox. ♥
when making out... does the girls bottom lip go inbetween the guys lips? ive been told that but then how is the tounge involved?
It doesn't matter if its the boys Or girls lip. You don't even have to do that, every couple kisses differently. I've had different bfs and with my first one there was a lot of tongue involved but with my current bf we suck on eachothers bottom lips a lot and stuff like that. When you do kiss someone you will know but up until then, it is hard to explain or visualize. Sorry! ♥