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i don`t know
Something is wrong with me.. something always has been.. i`m thirteen and i have it fixed in my head that life planly sucks when i know and everyone else is telling me my life is good. i can`t stand whining and so i`m going to say i`m not. i always thought of myself as a sort of depressionist but i don`t need help. i don`t cry EVER.. but i want too. any advice.. please? xxOo
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Go get some meds Oo You probably have a chemical imbalance.
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hey hun thats how i was for a while... do you know anything that could be bothering you? it could be the littlest thing you wouldnt really think it would be... im me on xiloveyoux35 and i will try n help more...
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Wow, you sound like me now. :) Is there a reason why you think that life plainly sucks? Maybe it's because there's nothing interesting going on in it? It's okay to be depressed for a little while, but if it's all the time (which i'm going to assume it is fron your letter) it's not okay. You should go talk to someone, not a psychologist or any thing, but maybe a close friend of yours, you know, someone you can count on for everything. That's what i did at least. And the not crying thing, it's not a bad thing, but it might become too much. If everything in your life does become too much, then trust me, you will start to cry. Then afterwards, you will feel better. But in the mean time, you should talk to a friend, like i said before but you can also go get a journal. That way you can write out your problems and won't have to worry about anyone criticizing you. Then you can keep it, and look back on it some day. I do this and it helps me out with alot of stuff.
~ Perfect Pixie
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I used to never cry but then people started feeling sorry for me and then i CRIED.Listen to what the crowd says it might be true it might be a lie but still they said something GOOD and you should be proud of it.
Luv Breanna x
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I used to never cry. I found out that tears are good when my cousin died.. that just threw me down into tears. Just understand that tears are good weather they seem like it or not. Doesnt mean your a baby its just another way of helping yourself!! Maybe you could go to peer counsoling or go to your counsolar at school and see if there is a group for you to be in they should have that at all schools!! Hope everything is okey dokey!!-trixxie
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That sounds awful. I've never had that problem but maybe you should try focusing on Why you know your life is good. Do you love someone? Does your family love you? Do you have a nice home to run to and good surroundings? If you feel down, it could be just because of hormones but you said its always been this way. Maybe you should try talking to your parents about it. Or focus on what you think could be depressing you and try to convince yourself out of it. It's up to you.. get help or try to help yourself. Try to be happy, hun! If you need to talk, just drop one in my inbox. ♥
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