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Hi!My name is Melissa.I'm from G.I. New York.I love being able to help people and giving advice.I'm usually the person who people come to for advice and i'm always glad to be there for them.If you just wanna talk or if you want advice you can IM me.UnLuckyWishes3.I'm really into sports and love to play basketball.I play JV voleyball and Varsity track.

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14/f. I'm really starting to like this one guy, Brett. I don't really know him that well. He's a year older than me. We were in band together for a year in junior high and now were in band again together. He makes funny faces at me and playfully sticks his tongue out at me in band. Is this flirting or is he just being himself. He almost never actually talks to me and he's probably said about 10 words to me in the 3 years that I've known him. Is this flirting or is it just him being himself? He's never showed any particular interest in me but he kind of does this stuff with a couple different girls my age.

its pry a bit of both.He pry wants to if you'll do something back.You should go up and talk to him and just start by saying hey and more than likely he'll pry continue something to talka bout.Hope i helped and good luck with him!

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I had a boyfriend named Patrick and the whole time we were goin out, which was about 3 months, he would always ignore my friends because they are country. He would also holla at other girls. When i asked him one night who it was, he told me it was none of my buisness. So we broke up, and he told me he couldnt hang out with me and my hicks. But see, the thing is from Adamsville, Tennessee and i am from Henderson, Tennessee (about 20 mins away) but now he is always at the Finger Square Dance (about 5 mins away from Henderson) and now he is trying to get back with me. did he really love me and whats up with that?

From how your relationship sounded he was a really horrible boyfriend.People can change and maybe he did.I woudlr eally ask him whats on his mind adn why does he want you back.I mean if he wants you back he should at least tell you why.Hope i helped and good luck with that.

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Hey...I'm not sure how to say this but I will anyway...I want to start dating but I don't know If I can build up enough courage to ask my parents if I can have a boyfrined. They are the most protective people in the world sometimes the don't even let me go anywhere with my frineds. I do have a guy and we're frineds but they get suspicious of him...I do like him but they don't know that
Do you have any tips for me to ask them if I can ask him out?

It aould be appreciated

I'm really sorry if i didnt help that much but i have some ideas.Maybe when your all together start talking about all the things your going to be doing soon,like driving{if you dont drive yet}and getting full time jobs or something and dating.And slowly ask them what they think about you dating soon.Or even dating in groups.Or maybe go to which aprent you think will be the most understanding or the one who'd easier to persuade{sorry if that sounds rude}and talk to them about it.Hope i helped.

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Well this guy i like won't talk to me. He wont return my calls or anything. He liked me 3 days ago and now he wont talk to me. I dont know what i did to make him so upset. He is at his friends houses all weekend, would this effect him not talkin to me cause all his friends are older guys and im younger than him? What should i do on Monday at school, go up and be like whats up why arent you talkin to me, or just give him space and smile at him in the halls? PLEASE HELP!!!!!! I really miss talkin to him

i would give him some space for now,who knows what happened or didnt happen. If he's still doing that in a week, like next monday ask him about it because you gave him some space and respected that so there shouldnt be a reason why he's treating you liek that.Hope i helped and you two start talking again.

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Ok there are two really really great guys at my school who I hang out with everyday at lunch and We all walk to class together And they both like me. What They dont know is I like only one of them David! And I found out that Sean is going to ask me out! I mean Sean is a really nice guy but im just not into him and Me and David like eachother and I want to go out with him but how do I do that without hurting Seans feelings??
PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS

i would be straight out honest with him and tell him that you love having him as a friend and thats maybe why youdont see him as more then a friend.Sorry if i wasnt much help but hopefully i was.Godd luck with that.

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There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON!

you could tellh im on the last day of school if your really worried about,maybe even write him a letter letting him knwo how you feel and that you'd still like to stay in contact with him.Or find one of his friends or yours that you know won't say anything to anyone else and ask them to talk to him about who he likes.Bring a few random names into the conversation and bring up yours with it.Or have them ask him what would you do if these people liked you.That way if he likes you you know its good to tell him how you feel.Hope i helped, let me know how things go or if you have another question.GOOD LUCK!

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umm...why would u wanna swallow the cum when u giv head?? i think taht is just really sick. i don't think i can do it to my bf. and im not sure wat he wants me to do. i hav also heard that u can get hiv or usmthin from swallowing cum or can get a STD. is this true? and wats sooo great bout swallowing cum from a guy? i would rather just giv head and use a condom. that way i dotn hav to taste it or nething. wat would b best? o im 13/f (and not a slut. im a virgin and ive never gave head and ive been wit my bf for 3 years!!)

Yea you can get STD's from it.I'm not sure why anyone would want to swallow it, but whatever makes them happy i guess.You should pry use a condom.i know there's condoms that come in flavors so you mgiht wanna do that.Hope i helped.

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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them

Try to think who makes you the happiest and who do you think you would be lost without.List all the good adn bad things between them and that might help.Hope i helped and you figure out which one.

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Well my friends and I all decided to be "goth" for halloween this year, and well I'm not really sure what to buy for clothes (other than things that are black) and I'm not to sure what to do with the makeup either, got any ideas or website to give me some idea?

Thanks

Much Love,

Britt

[[BTW, I Rate 5 For EVERYONE!!!]]

i'm not really sure but maybe like a black tacktop with a black fishnet over it and i'm pretty sute Hot Topic would have kinda baggy black pants maybe.Make-up try to get black lip liner and lipstick,eyes you can you alot of different ideas with like maybe the "smokey-eyed" look or w/e.Hope i helped and have fun.

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so i like this guy, and he says he likes me too. however, he also said that he likes a couple other girls. He said that the only reason hes not asking me out, is because his friend really likes me and would be mad at him. but, i saw him at the mall last night, with this one girl (that i dont really like) and he was flirting with her. she has a boyfriend though. but he was doing it right in front of me! and he knows i like him too!

also, his friend that likes me has only known me for maybe 3 or 4 weeks...he hardly knows me, and i hardly know him.
i guess my question is, should i ask him out? i want to, but...i dont want things to get awkward and ruin what we already have.

what are the best ways to ask a guy out? ive never asked anyone out before...:(

If your worried about ruining what you have already maybe talk to him in person or on the phone and be like listen i was wondering if you wanna go out?Let him know that if you break up or decide not to go out that you dont want to hate each other or not talk after it.And let his friend know that you dont really know him and he shouldnt get mad over something like that.Hope i helped.

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Things have been going great with my boyfriend. But I can tell my best friend is jealous. I guess I dont blame her but still, I'd like to be able to talk to her about it without feeling guilty like I'm bragging. I've tried to talk to her about like our first kiss or stuff like that but she either gets all quiet or says bad things about him.. like he's a player or something like that (which he isnt, we both really like eachother but thats besides the point). I just really want to be able to share it with her and not feel bad about it. Should I still talk to her about it or just talk to my other friends? Thanx so much.. I rate high!

I would still talk to her but maybe not as often so she might be more into what your saying and let her know that you want to share this with her and you dont want to make her feel bad or brag.You just wanna share it with her because thats what friends do.So i would maybe try to talk with all your friends including her.Hope i helped.

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I am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend but I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. What do I do? I'm in a weird situatuion now. I haven't told him.
xo0x CoNfUsEd xo0x

If you think you're going to keephavign these feelings for him i would let him know but tell him that know matter what he thinks of all of that yo donyt want your friendship to change because that means alot to you.Or m,aybe try having one of your/his friends talk to him about who he likes and see if your name comes up if your worried about letting him know.Hope i helped.

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there is this one kid who i started liking, because we have alot in common, we listen to the same music, dress the same, and i assumed he liked me too because of the way he smiles at me, and plus we're going to a show together. well yesterday he told my best friend that he likes HER, which doesnt even make sense because she's not even his type. and she doesnt even like him back. i'm so confused cause i had no clue that he likes her. but my best friend still thinks theres hope that he could start liking me, but it just doesnt make sense. ps, he doesnt know that i like him, so should i tell him?

I think you should tell him how you feel.Be like listen i dont want this to change our friendship if you dont feel the say way and them let him know, or have of yours or his ask him about who he likes and bring your name up into the conversation.He could feel the same way you do, you'll never know unless you find out.Hope i helped and he likes ya.

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I love my boyfriend so so so much but he's kinda insensitive and he's always busy or wont give me a reason why he doesn't want to meet up or anything. He talks more to my friend (who's in all his classes) and his ex girlfriend (she doesn't live near but he texts her all the time.) I don't want to break up with him even though I know he doesn't love me but I can't keep on crying over him every night..what should I do?

I know you dont want to but maybe you need to break up with him because i dont knwo but if he is your first love then its always going to be hard or any guy you love.But if you now he doesnt feel the same then your wasting your time and having your feeling played with and thats not fair to you.Especially when there's pry like a million other guys who would treat you how you deserved to be treated.Hope i helped.

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its my friends birthday on sunday.. n im going to her party saturday to sunday.. i have no idea what to get her!! shes a punk girl who likes soccer.. so if u could give me ideas thatd b great!! i'll rate u!!

You might just want to give her money , thats always good to give if your not sure what to get someone.That way they can pick out something they really like adn its thanks to you.Hope i helped.

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Alright. Well, I'm not so good at the whole flirting thing. Here's the deal, I'm Angie, I'm 13 going on 14. And obviously a female...and I have a very, very, very, big crush on this guy named Troy. I told him I liked him and he said he liked me too, but he isn't sure if he likes me enough to be with me. And I'm fine with that, but I'd still like to flirt with him and what-not and maybe make him notice me a little more. Is there anything you can tell me that'll help me with flirting? Please help. And thanks.

I know when i flirt with my guy friends or guys i like, i usually like hug um when i first seem them and it usually starts right after that.or if you do something blonde or goofy or whatever and they tell you be like you still love me though, like flirty/joking around.Sorry i have to get off the comp. i'll be so hapy to help ya some more!

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Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks

i would not pierce it yourself i mean it could get seriously infected.You should go to the mall or to a shop to get it pierced i mean that way it shouldnt get infected and your actually using a right earing for it.Hope i helped and please dont do it yourself it would hurt really bad.

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hi. there are like 10 guys that want me right now... and its kool n all but if i break up w/ my bf or whatever.. next period someone asks me out and then after that someone else does like if they didnt no that the first person did. i like all of them! they are all soo hott lol but i mean i alwaysssss have a bf and never have a chance to b single and sometimes u just need to b single ya no. i dont want to hurt there feeling or have them not like me anymore.
what should i do?
lol thanx!

Just tell them straight out that you just need some time to yourself right now and that you'll let them knwo when your ready.Hope i helped.

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i am suppose to be getting a clarinet for christmas, but i dont know which brand to ask for. Does anybody have any good brands?? Also, you could help me out by giving me some really good music sites to order music books and stuff. Thanks so much!!

i know on ebay you can find all instruments really really cheap liek i bought a bradn new violin for 65$ which vary from 200-? dollars.You should really try looking there.hope i helped.

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I liked this guy named Rick and he hurt me alot like a few months ago And I got over it once school started Now im in school and Its been going great I have alot of friends and alot of fun being there and I met a guy Named Ben and hes really sweet and gives me the attention I want! Now Rick Imed me and said he still likes me and stuff And I told him about how he hurt me and stuff the thing is Old feelings came back But he goes to a different school and I made him Pissed by saying I had a b/f but I dont want to make him mad so I said I was lieing how do I tell him I do? with out him getting mad

Just be listen i dont want you to get made at me because i dont want to have to loose you as a friend because you mean alot to me.I didnt want you to get mad so i told you i was lying about having a boyfriend, i'm sorry and i just thoguht i'd be honest with you.And if he doest respect the fact you told then i'm not sure if he's being a real friend.Hope i helped and everything works out.

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