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Q: I put on my application that I was a stay at home mom, is that a good idea to put that on the application or not.

♥ NOOOO! thats waaaay badd..because then theyll think that all you know how to do is stay at home with your children...they'll also think that you have no skills because you're so used to staying at home..

x3-Janee'

Q: Ok I accedently ordered books from Scholastic (BIG MISTAKE!) and didn't pay for them because I didn't know it. Now they sent me a letter from a collection agency and they want me to pay! But I got on their web site and contacted them but they never responded and I couldn't renew my order! What can i do!?!?!? Please I WILL RATE EVERY 1 5's!!! SWEAR! 13/f

♥ Pay them maybe..
x3-Janee'

Q: me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!!

♥ YOU IDIOT!!!....mmkay let me explain this to you..YOU DONT GO OUT!!!..you dont have sex with people you dont go out with no matter how much he says he "loves" you..if he really loved you HE WOULD GO OUT WITH YOU BY NOW!!so uhm..wait till yall get back together to have sex..cuz theres 1 88% chance that if yall have sex while yall DONT go out he will like NEVER go out with you because you do all this shytt with him anyway..so he wont feel the need to..and if that is like seriously the reason he wont go back out with you..that sooo means that he is soooo using you!!!\

x3-Janee

Q: I read a lto of your anwsers and i thought u might kno/................. what is the curse of eve???????????????? a lto my friends were talking about it and i was to afraid to ask........ ill rate 5 no matter wat

♥ I'm jus gonna assume you mean the punishment for the girls because Eve ate the forbidden fruit..if you are our "curse"(punishment) is extreme pain during childbirth..and just incase you wanna know for the boys their"curse"(punishment) is always having to work very very very very hard to achieve ANYTHING that they want to..when it shouldnt be hard

x3-Janee

Q: My hair is so boring and I was wondering how can i make hair wavy without buying anything from the stores?? Anything i can do/use?? Rate 5's for first 6 people if it works.

♥ To make it like temporarily wavy wash your hair and braid it like in 15-20 single braids and take them out when your hair dries..it will be wavy..or if u have moouse in yor house that will most likely work depending on your hair type.
x3-Janee'

Q: My boyfriend & I were on the phone a few nights ago & everything was fine. Then I started talking about a dream I had where we broke up & he seemed to be interested in what happened. I was worried he was going to break up with me so I said "As for breaking up in the near future..." & I realized a few days later that putting 2 and 2 together, it sounds like *I* wanted to break up with him. A little bit after that he called me back & started saying how he talked to his dad & he wanted to slow things down. Then by the end of the night we had no more relationship. I know this is hard to explain but the next day we talked & I said I still had feelings for him & I didn't want him to think I wanted to break up. He told me neither did he but he did it because it got scared & now it sounds like a good idea to him. Needless to say, I want to get back together. I can't believe this has ended, it really affected me & I want things back to normal. What should I do? I've already tried talking it out with him & I admited that I still like him but it feels like he's not gonna bounce back. He wants to be best friends but I'm not sure if I can be JUST his friend...

♥ I think he still likes yooh jus play it off and hell come back to you..TRUST ME! its happened to me plenty of timez wit mah b/f and we jus got bak 2getha yesterday!

x3-Janee'

Q: ok i forget some part of my homework like EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it sucks so much! how can i remember all of my homework? i get punished all the time for it and it sucks because i loose half credit like every day in some subjects but im such a good student. please help!

♥ Write it down..that should help u laittle bit.

Q: i am 14 years old and i have a boyfriend. we have been going out for over 3 months now and we have hooked up many of times and he wants to go down my pants. i want him to aswell but i am scared, because i am not sure whether i should have hair down there or just to shave or get it waxed. please help me i am confussed!?

♥ It doesnt matter if you have hair... most guys like for hair to be down there but they dont have a problem w/ shaved so just incase he doesnt like hair...everyone likes hairless shave dont wax... it hurts like hell..the hair will grow bak fast if you shave it so shave it the night before he does it....I personally think all oral sex is gross.. lips werent meant to be down there....If i were u I would wait till I have been with him for atleast 5 months or 6 months( a half year) to have sex.....fingerin and kissing and jackin off is ok...
x3-Janee'

Q: ok so we are gonna be swimming in gym kind of soon and i wanna have a nice body to show off so i was wondering if anyone knows how i can get a six pack...and about how long it'll take? thanks! i rate~

♥ Well I have have a four pack(its not all sculpted and defined like a guy's but its there..like u caaan see it) and I did like 300 crunches a day every day for like 1 month & a half or 2 if u want a less defind six pack do about 500 crunches a day if you want a defined & sculpted 6 packdo about 700 cunches a day.... its not that hard to doo..just do 50 at a time then in between the 50 crunches take a 10-20 minute break..
x3-Janee

Q: alright, my boyfriend and i broke up just this past summer. we were entering a new school and thought our relationship wouldn't work out... and apparently i wasn't the kind of girl he was looking for. still, he said he'd always love me. but anyway. school's started and i haven't really met anyone i'm interested in. then my ex- it feels like he's been purposely ignoring me lately. in the hallways, i see him, but he doesn't look at me. it takes him like 5 minutes to answer a question whenever i talk to him online, so i don't even bother anymore. and he hasn't responded to any of my emails. he always would. awhile ago he told me he was gonna ask out this one girl, but according to all my friends, he never did. now my other friend told me he's already going out with someone i don't know. someone new. i still like him, and i wanna let him know that, but i don't know how. he said he'd always love me no matter what, even if he got another girlfriend. i've been trying to talk to him but he just doesn't seem to care. please help me- should i let him know how i feel? or should i get over it? thanks to anyone who's willing to help.

♥ I think you should get over him..he's obviously not worth your time if he's ignorant towards you..

x3-Janee

Q: What message do you want to give in a guys birthday card when you think he likes you back and you like him? But heres the twist...youre not sure if he wants a girlfriend but he flirts with you andddd his friends say they think he likes you. Im giving him really goofy, funny presents....sooo what do I say in the card?
He knows Im getting him a present, Im 15/f and hes turning 16.

thanks so much!!!!

♥ Keep it simple side but still flirty like happy birthday cutie or sumthin like that..

x3-Janee'

Q: I have golden brown hair (dyed ) , green eyes and a fair complexion (with some pink tone in my cheeks).I wish some advice abour coloring my hair . I want a change but I don't know how to do it. I think that black it isn't quite good for me (my natural hair color is dark ash blonde )..What do you think about highlights ?Please , please , give me some advice .

♥ From your description I think you should get like reddish blondish high lights the color is basically red( not crayon red but like natural hair color red..but not bergundy like lindsay lohans hair used to be)its like a red with a hint of blonde tinting...or Blonde would be fine..

x3-Janee'

Q: ugh i have that flap on my arm (upper) what are some things i can do to get ride of it!?

♥ Lift weights for like 30 minutes a day for a week or two.
x3-Janee'

Q: theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important

♥ Its just a boyfriend I've went out with guys that my friends think are ugly before..and it didnt break me n my friends up.If your friend stops talking to you all becuz u go out with somebody that she thinks is ugly then she wasnt you friend in the first place

x3-Janee'

Q: if someone u know has diabeties and u accidently/purposly drink out of their cup that they drank out of, what could happen if anything?no smartass answers nd btw, this aint for me

♥ Diabetes isnt contagious you cath it on ur own by like eating too much sugary stuff..u have nuthin to worry about lol!
-HOPE I HELPED!
Janee'

Q: Ohkay, please no stupid answers. But one of my guy friends said that "there is nothing better than to hear a girl moan when ya finger her". does it come natural to moan or do you jus do it to make the guy happy?

♥ It comes naturally if you fake it that means he sux at fingerin lol:)

-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3 Janee

Q: i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc.

Well,
I think 1st Base....Making out 2nd Base...Hickeys 3rd base....Fingering Home is obviously haveing sex.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: Omg help me someone please.. i am in 8th grade and there are these 2 girls in 9th grade that hate me.. they hate me because last year i put prep by one of their picture in the year book.. but i put kewl by her picture also.. i didnt mean "prep" in a bad way at all.. i mean even i a prep.. this girls friend i was never really close wit but now she hates me cuz i did that to her friend.. the girl who i called "prep" was my friend before.. not really good friend but friend.. i have tryed sayin sorry and tellin them i didnt mean it in a bad way but they still hate me.. what should i do!?!?

signed,

hated*

Hunni,
dont apologize to them....its only 2 girls..now if it was the whole 9th grade then i would tell you to explain to them what you meant by it...but its only 2 girls...who cares..just leave it alone, it'll blow over eventually.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: Okay my ex-best friend and i are fighting, more like her fighting with me. Over the summer she started a fight with me and threatend me for no reason, so i was the mature one and i didnt say or do anythiong hurtful to her. then ifound out recently that she had been lieing t o me about dating my recently exboyfriend for 2 months. so she asked if it was okay that they went out i said it was. but ilater decieded that i didnt wanna be her friend because she isnt a good one to me. now she insults me non-stop, and has taken someof my friends away from me. and i still havent fought back. and i need someone to help me figure out a way to expose her, or something. She deserves worse than that to be honest. So does anyone have any ideas?

Hunn,
I know this sounds immature but...
Spread rumors about her steal her your ex b/f back,call her out, bring out the worst of her to the public, if shes a slut tell everyone...if shes not tell everyone she is..spread whatever you have bad about her,tell her b/f that she's cheating on him and make up other lies to get him to break up with her.. and one more thing.... SLAP THAT BITCH! shes nothing....shes gonna get whats coming to her....and a whoole lot more.
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'