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Q: hi.. me and my cousin sister are 24 year old.my cousin sister's colur is black and she is very healthy. but she is very sexy. we are close and frank to each other. many time when i got chance i touch her ass, pussy, and now i want to fuck her but she is ready for oral sex not for fucking. how i convance her
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It is illegal to force her to have sex with you.
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Q: I would like to know after how much duration sperm dies and 2nd question is, if sperm has just passed through vagina and it is washed fully well with water then is there probability to become pregnant?
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If you had sex and then took a shower yes you still have the chance of getting pregnant.
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Q: My boyfriend loves me and cares about me a lot. The other day we were hanging out and he sat on my chest and pulled down his pants, sticking his dick in my face. He wanted a blowjob but I had previously told him I didn't want to do that. Ive given him a handjob before and hes fingered me, but I don't like doing stuff so ive told him to stop before but some how we keep ending up doing sexual things. Should I break up with him since he promised me he would never push me into something I didn't want to do? Or do I give him another chance? 15/female
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Hunny I want to tell you something. He raped you, just because it was not sexual intercourse you told him no and he did it anyways and that is not right at all. Never let a man or anyone force you into doing something you dont want to do. You are 15 and have your whole life ahead of you.
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Q: I like my best friend a lot. I have developed strong feelings for him over our friendship and I recently told him I had feelings for him. I told him too late though, he used to like me and he gave up on it because he thought I didn't like him in return, and now he likes another girl. I know they must be getting closer and closer, and I don't know if I should give up on trying, or do my best to get over him. Which is not an easy thing to do at all. But it hurts me a lot to see him with another girl. I don't know weather I should give up or not.
Any advice helps. Thank you in advance.
We are seniors in high school by the way.
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You could wait and see how things go with this other girl or you can go in and tell him that it hurts to see him with someone else and your hadn't said anything before because you were worried about messing up your friendship and you werent sure how he felt tell him that you thing about him all the time and this sounds so much better saying it in person.
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Q: i fantasize about my not recent ex boyfriend way too much. what does this mean? is it a bad thing? i love my current bf of 2 years but i just cant help but think about him..
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He could have been your first love. I still think about my first love sometimes and We havent been together in 5 years. You have to remember there is a reason you arent with your ex boyfriend.
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Q: I'm with this boy, we arent' dating or anything but we are a "thing" lately he hasn't been himself. I'm really good friends with his best friend and he's dropping hints like "trust me i know him, just keep your guard up" and when i ask him to explain all he says is "I can't really say much on this subject but just know i have your back" i'm not being told something important and apparently i'll find out "sooner rather than later"
i know there is something going on with this guy i have a "thing" with but i don't know what.....is my guy friend preparing me for a hearbreak?
i am 16 and a female
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It sounds like it and if your dont want to be hurt as bad I would confront him. It hurts less coming from you, Tell him you have heard some things and you have been actting different. I just want to know what is going on i deserve to no the truth
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Q: Hi everyone!
I have a couple of questions.
I have regular periods; never miss one. Well I start on the 14th of EVERY month. For some reason I didn't get a period at all in March, and I have started yet this April either. Yes, me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex, but the last time we had sex, I got my period two weeks later; and took pregnancy tests and everything-NEGATIVE.
So why is my period late? March I started working out at the YMCA, 4 days a week; and I've been stressed, but not to the max with school, work & family issues.
ONE MORE QUESTION:
Fiance' and I went on vacation to Gatlinburg; we had sex in the hottub, and he pulled out and nut got in the hot tub; I was sitting there naked, of course, and the cum was coming towards me; could I get pregnant that way, or does the steam and chemical kill it? I mean it didn't get inside me, I don't think; so I'm curious.
Thanks.
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Dp you have any other pregnancy symptoms? It takes awhile for a pregnancy test to be positive. You may of got your period before because it was to early. If you still dont get period for april I would take a test if it is negative i would speak with your doctor stress food your eat a lot of stuff can throw off your cycle.
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Q: I need a fast/painless way to commit suicide. I've already made up my mind so please don't tell me not to do it.
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I think you should really talk to someone about what is wrong. Why do you want out of life? Yes it is hard. Love sucks, money sucks, etc. It takes you to make life worth wild. Work your hardest stay focused give a little and your life will be full again. I also want to tell you I used to be very depressed in the past. I had PTSD from something that had happened to me in my past and I finally gave in and spoke with a counselor, because I was close to where you are now seeing them a few times and taking some anti depressants I feel amazing now and I am glad I didnt make that awful decision. There are people who want to help please take advantage of their help.
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Q: 21/F: So me and my “boyfriend” have had a lot of ups and downs. We’ve been off and on for about 3 years. He has a drug problem and since the beginning of the year has actually been in recovery. While he was in rehab, he called me almost every night and we had hour long conversations of just happiness. He shared like every detail of his life with me and I felt so important because he trusted me enough to really tell me how he felt. But one day he told me that he couldn’t carry on a relationship with me or call me so often because he needed to work on himself but really wanted a relationship later on. Well, here we are a couple months later and I am going insane. It’s not that I don’t think he needs time or whatever. But I am beginning to doubt how he feels about me at all…He doesn’t EVER call me. Sometimes doesn’t even respond to my texts. He is supposed to come up this coming weekend and I am super nervous. I am excited because I really do love this guy with all of my heart but I’m scared he’s going to hurt me again. He said he can’t be rushed into a relationship and he would come up here and take me out when he was ready. So now I know that’s probably his plan. But I feel as if maybe he will never be able to give me what I want from a relationship. We are long distance and I want someone that I can talk to whenever I want to. I’m not talking like all hours of the day. But if I want to talk to him, I don’t want to be ignored. I feel like no matter how I tell him that I want a healthy happy relationship with him or how I wish he would talk to me more, nothing ever happens. This is new ground though because he is in recovery. I don’t know what’s going on in his life at all, he has all these new friends which seem like a great support system. But I wish I was more included :/ I really love this kid and if he does end up coming up here, do you guys have any advice on what I should say? I hate being this sad :/ I just honestly want a happy relationship soooo badly :[
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Honestly. If you can wait for him to deal with his drug problem that is great for you. I for see someone waiting for someone if they are fighting in the military or travel for work. How long had he done drugs? has he relapsed before? These are things you need to think of. Most people who go into rehab want someone to speak with unless they think that person is causing the trouble. I hope you find your happiness.
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Q: I live in a three bedroom house with four people. I know its not that bad and I know there are people who deal with worse, but you don't know my family. I have ABSOLUTELY NO PRIVACY! I'm fourteen and I share a tiny room with my nine year old sister. Just our beds take up about 85% of the room so yeah its mega small. I really want my own room 'cause I've shared all my life. My mom and my brother (who isn't home like 90% of the time) have the other two rooms. Now, I feel that with my being fourteen and the changer going on in and around me, I should have my own room. I have no real privacy. If I'm in the bathroom and my mom wants something out of there she will PICK THE LOCK! I mean really, she says that the only place we deserve privacy is the bathroom, so yeah way to contradict yourself mom. She also blames any argument I have with my sister on me. So yeah if she's taking my stuff its somehow my fault. She also laughs when my brother calls me fat and then says I should get a corset as if that'll make me feel
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I think you should talk to your mother about your feelings on how your brother treats you. She "blames" you for the arguments with your sister because you are the oldest. If she takes your items you are at that age talk it out with your sister and share what you can with her because she is just looking up to you. Now wanting your own room. Where would this room be. If you own a 3 bedroom home you have to be in the room with your sister. Your brother cant share a room with your sister because of the gender differences your mother is an adult and that is why she had her own room. It is just part of life hun. I am sorry this isn't the solution you are looking for but help your mother out and try and get along with your sister. As for your brother boys with be boys I grew up with two brothers and it sucked. They picked on me called me names we fought and argued. I was a single mother at one time it is hard but its always nice when your children help you out and doing things for others like your mother you always get rewarded some time in the future. five a little to get a little.
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When having anal sex can a girl cum thru her anus
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I agree with falsewords no you can't
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Q: So, in a middle of a test. I was very stressed. I cant answer about 8 number. So, I asked him "Can I open the book". At first, he answered it with a joke. But suddenly, he shouted "Be quite!" angrily. I was very afraid. What should I do? Is that my fault? I met him about 3 times a week. Actually, he is a funny and kind teacher. I was very shocked because of that incident. Please help me, thank you.
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I think you just ask the teacher. I think you are taking it to seriously.
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Q: What do I do if my feionce whom I love so so much beats and strangels me :(
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This man does not love you if he beats and strangles you. He is an abuser. Who is trying to control you. It doesnt take long for this man to slip up and strangle you to hard to the point that he has commited murder you need to contact your family and friends. A police officer and have them present while you remove your things from the home. You need to get away from him before it is to late.
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Q: I have been with my bf for 3 years. When I met him he was very depressed & not mentally all there so i guided him through the hard times he had & he turned out amazing. Now its been 3 years and a couple of months ago he started to slap & rip my hair when he gets mad! I said I am not going to accept this & left then helped him seek help about his problem. When I began to see improvements in his behaviour I stupidly forgave him & come running back. Now he close fist hits me & I have had enough. Each time I try to walk out the door he gets more mental coz he knos I am the one who helps him. But I dont understand why I have to get a fist to the face when I havent done anything wrong. Should I stay & help him through this like I have been or forget him & move on?? I love him & I kno he has potential to improve its just the waiting & anything can happen from here on end. HELP PLEASE :(
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You cant stay in this situation no matter how much you love him. Sometimes it is better to just let them go. Now before you tell him you are moving out you need family or friends and a police officer there while you move your possessions out of the home. For your safety you need to let him know that you can walk out and what he is doing to you is wrong. If he harms you again you need to contact the police. He has been getting worse, slapping and pulling hair to beating you whats next murder? Please open your eyes hun. You need to get out of this situation and fast.
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Q: my name is Rachel and i am 22 years old and i will be 23 on Wends-day which is less than a week a way and she says it happened a week before I turned 4 and she also said that had said that he wanted my sisters to and that there was nothing she could do to maker him stop and I don't think that my mom would lie to me about something as horrible at this but what is making me doubtful is that my dad's side of the family has told me for years that she is lying and I should believe what she says. I also don't know weather or not to believe them because my mom says that they are just trying to take up for my dad even though he has been dead ever since I was 12 years old so I can't even go and confront my dad with what is being said about him and even if it was true he probably would deny it to take the blame off his self if he was alive to ask. I do remember bits and pieces but I don't remember the sexual abuse what I remember is my dad slapping my mom and my granny telling my dad to hit her some more and I also remember the police coming to my aunt's house while I was on my dad's lap the cops handcuffing and putting him in a police car and me in a different police car. I've been having nightmare's about the terrible event and I don't know if these are flashbacks or not. my mom said that she took me and my sister's to doctor Col lip which was my pediatrician should
I go to him and ask would it still be on file or would my file be closed since I go to a family doctor now? I also had to have court ordered visitation rights with my dad every other weekend.
my my mom also said he only spent a night in jail and only got 10 years probation wouldn't he have gotten more time than this and I don't think the police would have allowed him to live in the house right behind me if this really happened. If I would go to the police and ask would they still have it on record after almost 19 years?
I can't ask any of my dad's side of the family because they won't talk to me anymore because I still talk to my mom and my mom and my step dads all i have now because my granny died 2 years ago and when she was alive she had severe Alzheimer's and wouldn't remember. what should I do and who should I go to? sorry this is so long but i had to explain everything so that you would be able to answer my question and my mom also said I couldn't talk until I was 4 years old but my dad was in the Vietnam war and my mom said that he wasn't right in the mind plus he had PTSD from the war and being sexually abused when he was a child at least that's what my mom says. If he was molested by his dad why would he want to do it to hes almost 4 year old little girl? please tell me what to do to find out what happened and what's the truth?
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When you are a young child and are sexually abusesd for years and years sometimes you end up being an abuser as well thinking its right or ok even though you know its not. I dont agree with it trust me i think every sexual offender should be locked up or worse. From when you have wrote on here I agree with your mother. Yes flash backs can happen you also have (now before i write i am not a licensed therapist) but I was diagnosed with PTSd and a theripist can help you cope with this even if you dont remember you can still have PTSD those flash backs tell you what happened and someday you may have a night mare of everything that happened i think you should speak with a theripist before you start seeking answers
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Q: I don't understand. I was talking to 2 of my Indian friends today, and they said that they and their parents are against it. But I don't understand how they're okay with having interracial friendships, but interracial marriage crosses the line, because of the different cultures. If people of different cultures can get along, what's stopping them from getting into a relationship, if they're attracted to each other? How can you be a true friend to someone else if you look down upon someone from their culture? That's just racism.
I asked what if the guy was PERFECT in every single way, even grew up in India with indian culture, but didn't have Indian ancestry, and it was still a no. That just seems stupid to me. Even if the guy didn't have Indian culture that doesn't mean you two can't fall in love, and make things work. Heck, just because a guy is Indian doesn't even mean you'll necessarily work together. If the love was true, and not just based on looks, they'd be able to overcome cultural differences they face. They can't be THAT different from each other, in terms of life style and views, otherwise why would they want to get married?
One of my friends said something about the two families needing to get along, and to "stick to her race" cause of fear of backlash from society, from dating out. But I don't understand why two families from different cultures can't get along just the same (Indian families aren't the only ones that are big and very family-focused, among other things. I relate to my Indian friends, because I come from an African family, so I get the whole "being a foreigner" thing, "ethnic food" and am more understanding of their other issues, but I feel like they feel like I don't understand at all), or why you should care about society thinks, if you're in a relationship that makes you happy.
One of my friends even admitted to having a crush on a Korean, but why should she, if she only thinks it's fit to be with another Indian? And it's like they get offended by Indians in interracial relationships, and Indians who have some "white" ancestry in general. Personally, I'm black, and I'm attracted to all races of guys.. I mean an attractive person is an attractive person. And of course, having common interests, in a way. Being from different cultures doesn't necessarily mean you have different interests, I have friend around the world and can talk to them like anyone around where I live. people aren't THAT different from one another, especially when there's similar interests
It bothers me that people let race get in the way for no reason. I love my friends "of the same African culture" just the same as my friends "of different cultures". I tend to have more shared interests with people of different cultures, actually, so I wouldn't be surprised if I end up in an interracial relationship in the future. It just bothers me that people try to bash them, when none of it even matters, cause we're all humans, we're technically not even different races.
I don't get the concern over the children, too, cause I've grown up in 3 different cultures (in 3 different continents!), and I'm just fine, so I don't see why that should negatively impact a child. I want to teach my children to see themselves as humans, not by "races", and acknowledge the cultures they're being brought up in. there's no need to worry about if they're "black" or "white" or "asian", or etc. those terms are obsolete. I mean I acknowledge that people look different but my parents never taught me to really care much about race, so it's just shocking to me how divided our world is over nothing.
I just want to somehow show this to my friends cause it's something I feel strongly about, but idk how. I mean I'm not saying that they MUST date someone who's not indian, but I want to get them to realize that it's not wrong if they felt an attraction to someone not indian, and wanted to date, or possibly marry them. I've heard about some people getting disowned for marrying out and I think that is just ridiculous. The child was only worth who they married? And even if the person was great in every way, race alone makes them inadequate? What kind of love is that?
but I mean idk, at the same time I don't understand arranged marriages (I get parents suggesting that two people should try dating, but I don't get why people should be forced together, even if they hate each other, cause I've heard of such a thing occuring. I wouldn't want a love story like that, if their relationship ever even develops into that special kind of love) so I guess I have a lot to learn about Indian culture (geez, but even India has MANY different cultures. next time I see them I'll ask if it would be okay to marry another indian with a diff culture..)
I don't get the whole "preserving Indian culture" thing either. I tried telling my 2 friends that they're more than Indian now since they've spent most of their formative years in America, but it's like they dont want to acknowledge that they've been influenced by the life here, when whether they like it or not, they have been. I don't see why it's wrong for cultures to mix, for cultures to change. culture should be individual, whatever make you happy you know. and parents should support whatever makes their kid happy and healthy
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I understand what you mean and it would stop a lot of the racism in todays society although you have those families who were raised by there parents and grandparents and how they were raised. They just dont like change they would feel their families would be ashamed of change and alot of families will disown their children for stepping out. Even Amish if you go start dressing deferentially or doing things different they will disown you and then they dont have family and that can be scary
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Q: I want to die as there is no reason for my life on this earth..My life is shit..im a loser.n i feel its better to die than to care about some shit..idc about who feels bad coz idk who really will feel..all i know is i want to kill myself n is there any way by which i can die painlessly? please help me
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I am sorry but know one on here can tell you how to harm your self. We can give you advice on how to help the situation. I used to be very depressed I cried all the time I would run to the shower and scream and cut my self. I am now married I have to beautiful children. Im happy for the most part. I still have depressed feelings but I know how to control them. I 100 percent believe in counseling if you are willing to go and give it a try a lot of people including my husband says they dont want to talk to someone they dont know about their life. Talking to someone you dont know can give you a different out look on how things are going in your life. Different ideas on how to better yourself. You may be considered clinically depressed in which they would suggest to consider counseling full time and start anti depressants. Another way to help your self is to make your self more comfortable with your body and image if you like how you look you are more confident. I hope i could help you.
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Q: I suffer from very severe depression, im on sertraline 50mg I want to die but i am too scared to act upon it, i love my boyfriend who is going into the army and im scared i might do something while im not with him, can anyone give me advice?
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Your medicine is not working hun. If it was you wouldn't be having suicidal thoughs. Stay strong your boyfriends needs you and your support just remember being there to write letters to and him to think about you is going to keep you together. Talk to your doctor and counsling can help you.
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Q: I live in Pakistan in a joint family . I have basically no education as in our society we are forced to marry young . I'm only 22 and have 2 kids . A three year old and a five month year old . I l can't live like this any longer . I'm not allowed to decide anything about my life or my kids lives for example what
I want them to wear . I live with a verbally abusive man and my parents will not support me for a divorce . I'm ready to leave my children but I can't earn as I have no education . If suicide is not a good option then what can u do . There are no places in Pakistan for someone like me.
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You could look into running away to the US or some where away from your society. I know thats hard to do but if you commit suicide who is going to protect your children who is going to make sure they are fed and clothed. There are people in your same situation find them get together and make a plan
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Q: Please,no abuse please this is really serious.
When I was about 10, my cousin james was very "horny" if you like, and he'd always try to get me to have ''sex'' with him. I didn't want to at all, but I was too scared not too. He didn't really have sex with me, he just touched me in the wrong places.
Then, when I was 12. My brother and I were really close, so we'd sometimes sleep on the same sofa and stuff (no sexual activity at first) but then one night, I fell asleep with my mouth open and he started ''kissing'' me. I just let him. I got him off me and ran upstairs. Then, I was sitting with trousers on and my legs slightly apart and he started ''feeling me up''. I also just let him, and ran upstairs after again. Now he always tries to put his hands up my top or down my trousers and I'm too scared to tell anybody.
I think I'm a bad person, seriously I need help, what do I do?
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You are not a bad person. I was raped once before and the second time it happen I just let him because I was afraid to say no. You need to talk to someone about this. You should go to a counsler, police, your parents any adult so they can help you. If you dont adress the situation it will continue.
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My name is Ashley. I am 22 years old. Ill be celebrating my 3rd 21st birthday June :) . I had my first child at 15. I got married at 18 and had another child shortly after. They have two different fathers. I am currently going threw a divorce. I moves states after we seperated ( ugly seperation) but I had no family in that state. I left everything except my beautiful babies and our clothes. I found a job up north and things are going good. I am dating. I have been in abusive situations. I am going to college for psychology and sociaology. Im here to listen help and give you advice ive been in alot of different situations and can relate to a lot.
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