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how does birth control work? should the guy still have a condom on if your on birth control? and how much does birth control cost?
well..birth control is 99.9% effective when used properly for not getting pregnant. yes the guy should still use a condom. no matter what! everytime you have sex..he should use a condom. and the cost differs. for me it is 20 dollars for a co-pay..every insurance is going to be diffrent.
wat works better neutragena rapid acne spot treatment (the 8 hour one) or clearasil ?
thanks 4 da help =]
personally..i found that clearasil did.. but all skin types are diffrent. ask a dermatoligist. :)
I've been dating my boifriend for 5 months now and he just moved to tennesse a month ago. And i dont really like this whole long distance relationship thing....but i really love him alot....But i dont know whats going to happen when he starts school down there. (like who hes going to meet) so can you please give me advice on this? thanks
break it off. even though you really love him. love can last - wait till your older or when he is able to come down and visit you. stay really good friends and talk everyday and tell eachother everything but dont hold the committment of 'boyfriend, girlfriend' because there will be alot of temptions along the way if you do so. good luck :)
Ok, I'm a really bad procrastinator if I'm really not interested in doing something.
Tips to help? I know it's bad...how did you overcome it?
Thanks!
well personally.. i thought i was one as well. until i actually got diagnosed with adhd. the inattentative kind - like i cant focus or pay attention very well..and i am actually on medication to help with it..and it has worked. so maybe talk to your parents about going to see your doctor about that.
im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do
sounds like it was.. really, you should bring it up and say something to him about it :( im so sorry to hear that hun.
Does anyone know of any artists or songs that sound a bit like Missy Elliott?
I can't find anyone that's famous at the minute.
I don't mind if they're new or old school :D
um... okay? confussing
but like lil kim? uh - da-brat
Whenever my parents go out to "buy" me clothes, that's when the problem starts. They always buy me things like plaid skinny leg pants or big, oversized T-shirts, and that just isn't my style- I prefer jeans and a nice, form-fitting tee. Is there a way to tell then that I don't wear things that I used to wear as a little girl without hurting their feelings?
tell them that your growing up and you want to go next time they go out to go buy clothes! tell them that you want to start your own style and you still apprechate their opinion but you want to be yourself! :)
Hey everyone. Does anyone have Duran Duran's most recent album, titled 'Astronaut'? I like two of the tracks on it but thats not the same as buying the whole thing. I love their musical style but I'm still not sure. Do you think I should buy it? Is it any good?
i thought it was alright.. download some of it then buy it if you really like it :)
sorry this wil be long :S
about 11 weeks ago i had sex with my boy friend 2 weeks later i took a test and it said possative a couple of weeks later i went to the clinic and they took a test and it was negative and they said i probably had a early miscarrige because of the mild cramping i had, it didnt kinda add up to me, but i still never felt "normal" like i still felt there was something inside of me and i still have a cramping, then yesterday i went to the doctors and she said because of the test that she dont think i can be pregnant but she not going to take another test and that if i still have the cramping to go back next week which i think i will be doing, but i havent had a period i had light spotting when my period was due and if it was a month later it would of been last week i got my period but nothing, but now the last week i swear i have been getting fatter only like a lil tiny bit no one else would be able to notice, like it feels like im bloated like 24/7 i normally dont get bloated on my period and this seems really weird to me and i knwo it would be like just weird to stil be pregnant but is there a chance i could still be i dont have any money to get a test, but i think the thing is i was so upset when i found out i had a miscarrige that now im just wishing so much that i did have a baby i dunno, do u think im pregnant??
sounds like your just getting water weight. alot of women get this when they are on their period.. its very common. however, if you really dont feel well in the next few days call the doctor and demand to go in and talk to the doctor not his/her assistant.
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH
well.. he could have only gotten the std if she had it. and she could have gotten it if she had other sexual partners in the past. dont be afraid, just ask him about it..and mention about getting tested just in case.
i am working on saving up to buy a car by August. Can anyone give me good saving techniques? I work as a cashier but im afraid i won't really save the money ..
every week when you get your paycheck put a percentage of it away in savings.. or in the bank. then by the time august comes around you'll have a good amount of money to buy a car :)
I have a friend, David, and i like him more than a friend. Well, in design and technology, i asked my other friend Laura, why guys like me, and she said, ask a guy. So i asked David and he goes "Ummm...you wouldnt want to know...you will get embarrassed". But i kept asking him to tell me and he goes "No". Then he told one of my friends about what I asked him, and she said "Are you sure theyre looking at your face?" and David goes "Yeah, are you sure theyre looking at your face?" and he keeps using my friend as an excuse. But i know that there is something else. Is it possible that he likes me more than a friend?
wow..sounds like they dont like you for your face... they like you for your body or boobs! guys are pigs.
consider that before you consider him liking you more than a friend.
Me and my bf have been going out 4 three months he just found out something bad about a family member and its been making him really angry. I understand how he feels but he takes all of his anger out on me! Last nite he was being such a jerk we almost broke up he tells me he loves me all the time but idk if its true. im only 14 but how can i talk to him without bringing up anything thats going to hurt him?
tell him like it is! 14 is still young..
so just tell him that you dont like how he takes out all his anger on you. your not there for that!
tell him that its not cool for him to be like that to you.. and if he needs to let out anger - he needs to talk to the source of the problem.
I always get sidetracked and daydream in class. like i dont pay attention [i still get A's and B's somehow]. sometimes i will space out when people talk to me and they get mad sometimes. My friend always says "pay attention" or "i think u have ADD" .. this is botherin me now that someone pointed it out to me. Is this ADD.. if it matters 13/f
yes, this sounds exactly like me! haha! i have adhd actually. say something to your parents and go to the doctor, they can put you on medication that will help you focus and pay attention more :) its worked out GREAT for me! :) good luck
Hey, well my current boyfriend is my first kiss and everything, and I'm nto really sure if im a great kisser or not. If someone could give me some tips on making out that would b awesome!!! I normally follow his lead but i think i wanna surprise him with something of my own for once lol :p
you cant be bad at kissing.. unless your like licking his forehead when your suppose to be kissing his lips. just pucker up and make it up while you go along!
My Bride's maids and I bought their dresses today. I fell in love with these dresses right when I saw them. I showed them to my father today and he said that he did not like them at all. I felt horrible once he told me because I like them so much. Now, I don't know whether to keep them or to get ones that my dad also likes. What do y'all think?
Personally, it is your wedding.. so he needs to realize that its your choice not his. Tell him nicely that it is your day and you really love the dresses. even try to combind the two you and he likes to get one. :) but, remember. its YOUR day. not his.
ok so my boyfriend of 3 months just brokeup with me. He said he needed a break and needed some time to hang with the boys because when we were going out he was very commited to me and hung out with me almost more than his friends. so after only a day of his "break" he asked me out and said he was too in love to do this. well he brokeup with me the next day and once agian just said he nneded a break. but he promised we would be togehter agian because " were meant to be" he says. so what i dont understand is if he loves me why hes putting us through this and what can i do to not think of him n help him get through his break faster? sorry its so long thanks!
well, sounds like your a little too controlling missy! (sorry to say) you should let him hang out with the guys and have fun with the guys, and be away from you. dont make him choose between you or the guys. screw it! ive been with my bf ryan for 2 years now and at first i was like no hang with me.. now im like.. please take him away! haha - seriously, let him have a life other then you. so then he can have you, his love, and his boys in his life :) even hang with him and the guys a few times :)
eight months ago i met this adorable guy, i mean he is perfect. he is like the type of guy where you can be his girlfriend and still tell him EVERYTHING. anyway we were together when i went up there for a couple days then i had to leave. well its been eight months since i have last seen him.. he told me last month that when i go up there to see him and my other friends he just wants to be friends. well im kind of over him but i still have these mixed feelings like, he makes me really happy! he is the best guy ever.. its like when im with him im myself and he doesnt care who i am ya know? but hes really hard to figure out.. how do i know when hes flirting and how should i flirt back? also, is there any advice you guys can give me on this?
eight months without seeing him? i bet he cheated on you.. or flirted with other girls.. if you hadnt seen him.
personally, go up as friends. flirt and do stuff all you want. just dont have any strings attached. if you dont get to see him alot just have him as a really good friend you like..and cuddle with adn flirt with. thats always fine!:)
Ive got 2 groups. One of them has the guy that I like ALOT. I want to hang out with that group, but I dont want to diss the other group. And if I tell that group that I want to hang out with that guy, she will think im crazy or something. I dont want to diss that group. How can I tell them I want to hang out with the other group without them feeling ditched?
Thanx so much.
~Ana~
dont ask the same question twice.
There's this girl that me n my friends can't stand that hang out with us her names Kaytee! Well she was sitting with us at lunch one day, and my friend Lisa came over and sat with me and then left, and Kaytee then said, I was shaking because she was around, there was a rumor that Lisa was a lesbian, but she's my best friend, and I know her more then anyone and she ISN'T! Kaytee is totally against gay people, and all the people of whom I hang out with are don't mind if someone's gay! She assumes from rumors that people are lesbian and homosexual, and then pretends that she's scared of them. Without being totally mean to Kaytee, but getting it across that some people that she thinks aren't gay. What can I tell her?
Tell Kaytee to get her facts straight.. its not being mean - its being truthful. before she assumes something about a person actually find out if its true. shes f'in retarded to act diffrent because of rumors. yes, some come out to be true.. but she shouldnt make a big deal about it. if shes homofobic then tell her not to sit near people she thinks are gay.