Ive got 2 groups. One of them has the guy that I like ALOT. I want to hang out with that group, but I dont want to diss the other group. And if I tell that group that I want to hang out with that guy, she will think im crazy or something. I dont want to diss that group. How can I tell them I want to hang out with the other group without them feeling ditched?
Thanx so much.
karenR answered Sunday May 15 2005, 1:49 am: It's only natural for girls to start hanging out with their boyfriends when they get one. They usually break off from all groups and just hang out alone most of the time.
I do think it would be nice if you explained it to your other friends so they know you are still their friends. I also think it is a good idea to set aside time to spend with them so you keep your relationships good. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
teshelper answered Saturday May 14 2005, 11:06 pm: Tell the group with the girl that you really need to hang out with anthor group for a little while and not to feel ditched that you'll come back later and just see what they will say K!! Well thats it!!
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Saturday May 14 2005, 10:36 pm: kinda confussing so heres my thought on it
group 1 - with guy you like
group 2 - other group your talking about.
so, if you really wanna hang with group 1 because of the guy you like then dont let group 2 stop you. tell them that you like that guy and you really want to hang out with them adn get to know him and his friends for the simple reason you like him. if they are your true friends then they shouldnt care. dont ditch group 2 to hang with group 1 though. try to even out your time with both of them - one day have lunch with group 1 then the next day have lunch with group 2. talk to everyone and try to be friends with everyone.. as well as score the guy :) g'luck! [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
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