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ok so my boyfriend of 3 months just brokeup with me. He said he needed a break and needed some time to hang with the boys because when we were going out he was very commited to me and hung out with me almost more than his friends. so after only a day of his "break" he asked me out and said he was too in love to do this. well he brokeup with me the next day and once agian just said he nneded a break. but he promised we would be togehter agian because " were meant to be" he says. so what i dont understand is if he loves me why hes putting us through this and what can i do to not think of him n help him get through his break faster? sorry its so long thanks!
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tell him to stop messing with your emotions and make up his mind. if he loves you he wouldn't screw with you like that. tell him that if he wants to hang out with the guys then he doesn't need to break up with you to do that. all he needs to do is say "hey i'm going out with the guys call you later" or something like that.
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go out w/ yer gurlfriends...have a gurl's movie night...go veg out on candy, chocolate, FOOD...lol...just hang w/ yer close gurlfriends
i hope this helps....
*~*~*~*Emmy*~*~*~*
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well, sounds like your a little too controlling missy! (sorry to say) you should let him hang out with the guys and have fun with the guys, and be away from you. dont make him choose between you or the guys. screw it! ive been with my bf ryan for 2 years now and at first i was like no hang with me.. now im like.. please take him away! haha - seriously, let him have a life other then you. so then he can have you, his love, and his boys in his life :) even hang with him and the guys a few times :)
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he is using you . he knows you are falling for him. you need to tell him that you are done with this shit! you are a woman and you have rights and feelings and he has hurt both of them and you are through. he is getting his way of knowing that you are willing to take him back! he is trying to see how many times he can get you to go back out with him after he dumps you and dumps you! so just leave him and dont go back it aint worth it!
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I wouldn't jump to any conclusions, but if the guy is this unsure, you probably should give up. Sometimes you need to question a guy's motives, and now is the time. Ask around, find out what he is up to, ask him, ask mutual friends.
Try and compromise with him. Tell him that you don't mind if he spends time with friends, because you'd like more time with yours too, but explain to him that you care about him if you do, and let him know you don't want to end it yet, unless it's what he really wants. If he continues this, tell him to let you know when he grows up. No one deserves a boyfriend who can't make up his mind.
Good luck, and let me know if there's anything I can do to help!
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