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Putting your question out there for people like me to answer does not give you the right to bitch at me if you don't like what I have to say. And for God's sake, am I the only one who is sickened and disgusted by all the thirteen-year old sluts asking questions about sex? I think I'm going to have to give up those kind of questions, it's all just too painful. So many children in that generation are turning out RIDICULOUSLY IDIOTIC.
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my mom and dad separted and now i live with my mom and her boyfriend in missouri. my dad still lives in iowa and i want to go live with him but he doesn't have a permanent place to stay yet. and thats y my mom won't let me move with him. do u think that is fair?
Yes, it's fair. If your dad is homeless, then if you live with him, you become homeless. I know it may sound harsh, but if he can barely support himself, what makes you think he can support you, much less give you a comfortable lifestyle? Just wait. Besides, it probably really hurts your mom to hear you say things like that.
i have a dance this friday and i dont know wut to do w/ my hair. i have straight, thin, brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanks!
CURLING IRON! If you usually have straight hair, then luscious ringlets will make everyone adore you. People love it when you do something new and pretty to your hair.
Sometimes, I'd say about once a month, I'll wake up unable to move or speak, all I'll be able to control is my eyes. During this time I can't control my breathing either, my body is still in automatic mode. After about 10-30 secs of focusing on moving a single part of my body, I'll be able to move my entire body again. My mom who's a psych student says that I wake up during a certain stage of REM sleep; though I'd like another opinion. Has anyone been through this, or does anyone have any insight as to what this is?
Well, seeing a doctor about it won't hurt, if it really bothers you, you can look it up on Google or in the library and find out if there's been any other documented cases like your's.
all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life?
Well, he wants to protect you. And with good reason! You're a thirteen year old girl, and from the look of it, none too mature either. I know it feels like hell now, but trust me, you're not ready for it. Anyway, I know how it feels to be thirteen and never have a boyfriend, but it's completely normal. Anyway, in all likelihood when he moves out next year, you'll have nobody but yourself to blame if you don't get any dates. It's seriously not that bad though... if not having a boyfriend for all the two years that you've been interested in one has really ruined your life, you've got a pretty miserable life as it is. I suggest picking up a hobby, like scrapbooking, or rock climbing.
How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?
Four days is the average, for girls whose cycles are "regular". However, my cycle has NEVER been regular, and it can last from five to seven days for some girls. You'll love menopause, though. It loses ALL predictability then. So, in other words, a girl has her period for WAYYYYY TOOOOO LOOONGGG.
I like this boy and he is 17 and i am 13. i don't know if he likes me or not but i talk to him on the phone all the time. we could never tell my brother considering that he is my brothers best friend. if my brother ever found out he would kill me! the boy said if i wasn't my brother's sister he would probably go out with me and i am like so in luv with him. i knew him for a year and a half and him and my brother knew each other for 6 years. what should i do now?
Well, he's way too old for you. I know you FEEL like you're in love, but don't be silly, girl, you're only thirteen. Plus, consider your brother. If this is his best friend, then you'll cause a rift between two people who have been friends for six years. And when you break up with his best friend, you will FURTHER damage their friendship. (And trust me, you WILL break up.) If you want to look at it selfishly, you deserve someone who isn't trying to use you for sex, which is what he's probably going to try to force you into, citing your age difference. If you're not selfish, you might realize that your brother deserves to be treated better than what you're proposing to do.
Okay, well for my Life Management class, I have to work 10 hours of Community Service for free. I'm not sure what to do, I'm really interested in basketball. She told us that cleaning for a basketball team would be considered community service. I was going to ask the local WNBA/NBA arena if I could maybe clean the locker rooms or clean SOMETHING for them maybe 2 hours a day, but I don't know how to do that [ask them]. And they would probably reject that idea. Can you help me think of Community Service Jobs i could do that would interest me? I enjoy basketball, volleyball, and shopping. I also like music.
Thanks SO much in advance for any help!
Volunteer at a nursing home, that's what I did. (Actually, at my school, I had to accumulate a minimum of 100 volunteer hours over four years) Old people are usually nice and almost always lonely, and it'll be a lot more meaningful than cleaning locker rooms. You might be the only person who visits these people, and they appreciate that more than you know.
Okay..there is this girl in my school who nobody really likes..we used to be really close but then we both changed..and shes a big lier..she asked me while I was away from the computer if we were friends..and how it seems like we arent because we dont hang out anymore..She said she had a gift for me because she was recently on vacation..but I dont know what to do because if I accept it then she will wanna hang out all the time and talk on the phone and that kind of stuff and I cant keep giving her excuses?!..What should I say whenever she tells me that stuff again? Please help me!!
Look. She likes you more than you like her. That is fine, and normal, and acceptable. But have the fucking balls to tell her that.
My friend who i really care about cuts his wrists. I went to his house and he did it right in front of me. I felt so sick. I asked him to spot and he just keeps saying he cant but he will try. But he keeps doing it. And i dont know what to say or do. He said that i cant tell anyone and if i tell his parents and they try to send him somewhere he will run away. I dont know what to do. Help!!!!!!!!!!!
He wants attention. He's manipulating you emotionally, and that is wrong. Tell him to cut that shit out, because if it wasn't about hurting YOU, you wouldn't be involved. If he persists, which is likely because he sounds like a dumbass, tell his parents. It's more important that people who care about him know than the stupid little shit-fit he'll throw your way, and if you care about him, you'll notify his parents immediately.
i stayed home today cuz im really sick..and like my face has gotten SOOOO dry from it like around my nose and under my chin and under my eyes..does neone know somthing that'll help? like hand lotion? but isn't that for ur hand..and i kinda need somthin that'll work fast cuz i got skool tomorrow well thanx
Exfoliate when you wash your face. And, really, "Vaseline Intensive Care for Hands" really works well on your face in tiny doses.
i have really small boobs *34A*and im 18 is there anyway i can make then bigger *not padded bra or fake* thx
HAHA.
Don't worry, I have the exact same "problem". The solution to this is : There is none. If you want bigger boobs, you can get morbidly obese, get implants or get pregnant. You're just not genetically predispositioned to have bigger breasts if you're already eighteen and an A. (Believe me, I was disappointed when I learned that, too.) But honestly, wonder bra's work WONDERS. They're comfortable, they make your boobs bigger, and best of all, you never have to worry about your nipples showing.
i want to pierce my cartilage but my parents would kill. my dad would never notice and my mom is such a blonde i could just tell her it was a magnet. ((i pierced my second hole and she still thinks its a magnet)) should i do it?? lol thanx
Well, it can get infected, and those things can hurt. Plus, well, the lobe of your ear is just a useless little blob of flesh. But cartilage isn't really meant to be pierced. I would wait until I was 18 to get it pierced, since they can be pretty high-maintenance.
well my hair is like a bit past my shoulders and its kinda frizzy or like idk it doesnt stay straight and isnt very smooth/silky... or like it will always dry out when I dont blowdry it or itll just kinda go different ways at the end even when I do. I dont know what to do about it if you could help that'd be great. thanks :-)
Ah, the frizz hair. It is a time that all wavy-haired maidens must face. Never fear.
The first thing to do is try a different shampoo/conditioner. I like Suave, but usually L'Oreal products work well too.
Next, get a paddle-brush that has the nubbies, not the bristles. That kind of brush tends to smooth your hair out a bit easier, (I should know, mine can get extremely unmanagable!), and it distributes the natural oils in your hair that make it shiny and smooth.
Third, start using infusium spray-in conditioner at every time you wash and condition your hair, it'll smooth you our even more.
If these don't bring you satisfaction, then go to the grocery store and buy a hot oil treatment kit. It's not as scary as it sounds, lol. Give yourself a spa day and do the hot oil treatment once a month.
omg , ok . hi , ok im 14yrs. old and i hav a frend whos 18 named mike . ok he's not in school nemoa and he graduated and he's goin to miami tomorow and invited me to go and a few othr ppl , but im so scared cuz what if i get caught skipping and if my parents find out . i dono what to do . it sounds so much fun tho . help!!!!!
Look, don't skip school. You OBVIOUSLY need it.
Okay, Im so upset! My boyfriend broke up wit me like sept 5th or somethin like that and he hasnt talked to me about it..He was so immature he did it online. hes almost 18 and im freakin 15 years old! Ive called n left messages tellin him I need him to explain to me so its not left all open n shit n me wonderin bout everything. He doesnt wanna call or anything. My friends have even tried n talked to him. They have gotten thrugh him and told me everything n shit but its juss not suppose to be like this. He liked me A LOT n i liked him. I fell for him hard and I think he was my first love. Maybe I juss liked him ALOT but I dunno I never had these feelings for someone so bAD before. I dunno what to do. I have been in a depressed mood ever since and I cant move on and everyone says I should. someone please gimmie some advice on everything..I juss dont know what to do anymore..he broke muh heart
Well, for starters, maybe he realized that you're way too young for him. It seems he's doing you a huge favor : he knows that he's several years ahead of you in maturity and sexual experience, and he might not want to take advantage of you like that. You're only fifteen, so even if the feelings you had WERE love, you'll get over him by the next breakup or two. Date people your own age.
Well, ive been a cutter for about..1/2 a year now. And i cut on my wrist..(i was pissed) and i went out without my wrist band on, and i think my mom saw! what if she sends me away to a mental hospital!?
Please help!
|-.Lost Soul.-|
Well, cutting IS pretty stupid, and you obviously NEED help. I don't see why she shouldn't send you to a mental hospital, especially since she's only got your best interest at heart, even if you're too dumb to realize that.
Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.
Lord, what a horrible situation. I can't believe you would succumb to peer pressure like that. Look, you're obviously not old enough or mature enough to be dating, much less have a b/f.
Hey, I have a question about my hair. My hair is naturally wavy, but not curly. When I try to blow-dry it straight, it never comes out right, and one side of my head is wavy, and the other is straight. Sometimes I straighten my hair, but I don't really have a ton of time in the morning to do that. Do you have any suggestions of what I should do with it (Possibly even something I could do at night and sleep with it, or something I could do in the morning but it won't take too much time)
Hey, I have the same problem. Wavy hair is sexy! If it's already long, good for you! If not, well, grow it out past shoulder-length. Get yourself some layered bangs to frame your face, and start using infusium spray-in conditioner after you wash your hair with your normal shampoo and conditioner. If you want, you might try to dye it a couple shades darker, or try a few shades lighter.
well these mean fat chicks at my skool started rumors that im anorexic (which im NOT) bcuz im 5'5 and i weigh 98 and sadly ppl believed them and now there like "o theres the anorexic girl" and other crap like that. :( what should i do
GOD I hate mean fat chicks. Here's what you do.
Next time one of them bothers you, take out a king size candy bar. Take a huge bite, then say, "Oh, there's the fatass. Hey, isn't it true that you cried at the end of Free Willy because somebody your size finally made it to freedom?" If anyone bothers you about it again, you can start talking about how there's a law against elephants in schools.
16-F There is this boy Jon and last year I really liked him but I never really talked to him. Anyways this year were always talking and were pretty close. We've hung out twice in the past month bc we're both busy. We've made out and he's gone up my shirt. He says he likes me like that and says hes not using me but I dunno something in my head is saying he's using me. When ever I hang out or talk to him he says stuff about fingering me. Whenever I move his hands or say no he tells me how pretty I am or how much he likes me and says how close we've gotten. We're not going out but I think we're headed there. So my question is do u think he's using me and if not do you think I need to lighten up and do stuff with him or forget him and move on. thanx
Um... wait, let me get this straight. He's gone up your shirt while you made out (GASPHORROR) and he talks about pleasuring you... ... and he thinks you're pretty....
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Tell you what. If you're that insistent that he doesn't bring you any sexual pleasure while not recieving any for himself, tell him your vagina is laced with glass. If that doesn't deter him, call him a "motherfucking fuckfaced fuckwad" and ask him nicely to never breathe in your presence again.