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boyfriend (ex)
Okay, Im so upset! My boyfriend broke up wit me like sept 5th or somethin like that and he hasnt talked to me about it..He was so immature he did it online. hes almost 18 and im freakin 15 years old! Ive called n left messages tellin him I need him to explain to me so its not left all open n shit n me wonderin bout everything. He doesnt wanna call or anything. My friends have even tried n talked to him. They have gotten thrugh him and told me everything n shit but its juss not suppose to be like this. He liked me A LOT n i liked him. I fell for him hard and I think he was my first love. Maybe I juss liked him ALOT but I dunno I never had these feelings for someone so bAD before. I dunno what to do. I have been in a depressed mood ever since and I cant move on and everyone says I should. someone please gimmie some advice on everything..I juss dont know what to do anymore..he broke muh heart
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tell him that u guys are practically still going out till he tells you why. bunches of luck!!!!!
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Well, for starters, maybe he realized that you're way too young for him. It seems he's doing you a huge favor : he knows that he's several years ahead of you in maturity and sexual experience, and he might not want to take advantage of you like that. You're only fifteen, so even if the feelings you had WERE love, you'll get over him by the next breakup or two. Date people your own age.
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i think you deserve a reasonable explanation from him on why he broke up with you, but its not all that easy. i dont think what he did was right, not at all, but you cant force him into talking to you and neither can anyone else. if he has told your friends why then he really isnt leaving it all open. when he told your friends he mor in likely knew they would go and tell you. just forget about him. you can find someone better. you are only 15, you have your whole life ahead of you.
Good Luck
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i think that you shouldnt try to talk to him if he doesnt want to. i kno that age aint nuthin but a number (as aaliyah said) but he may have just like you to get another person jelous. Instead of trying to figure it out and getting depressed, get over him. cold turkey. find a new crush- and it wont take you a day, but start looking. he obviously isnt the one for u.
XoxO Alissa-MArie
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I don't think it's 'open' at all; it seems pretty obvious that your relationship is a closed book. He doesn't want to date you anymore, and he's acting like a child about it.
No, I don't think he's handling it the right way. Yes, I think you deserve an explanation. But you and I can't make him do things he doesn't want to do.
The unfortunate news for you is that you've got to deal with getting over him, but the good news is that you're thankfully done dating someone who would treat you with so little respect. You deserve someone who will be open and honest, and also someone who is probably closer to your own age.
Good luck.
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Aww babe, I know exactly how you feel!! I went through the same thing! He did it over the internet and he wouldn't tell me why and he wouldn't return my phone calls and he would only talk to my friends. It was horrible. So, I know exactly how you feel. And I promise, everything will be fine, I know it may not seem like it right now or in a couple of days, but I promise if you try your best to move on and not think of the past, you'll be fine. And you have your friends to help you through this hard time. And if you need to talk about it, I'm here also, because I went through the samething. But, the wrong thing I did, was I waited around for him for along time and he would always say "oh yea we're gunna hook back up" And we would never hook back up and finally we got in a fight and he said he didn't want me so I finally sadly moved on after so long of waiting for him. And I found such a great guy. My friends hooked me up with him. And, I'm not saying to just go out and hook up with a guy to get things off your mind. But, try to go out and have fun and keep things off your mind that way, and maybe while you're out having fun you'll meet another great guy. But, just don't be picky when it comes to the guys, when you see a great guy, go for it. And just give that guy some time to grow up and straighten out and stuff, don't let him think you're waiting around for him because he'll take advantage of that. He'll soon realize what a great girl he is missing out on. I hope this helps and good luck hun with everything. Everything will be fine! Just stay positive! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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