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I'm 5ft4 with dark blond hair I'm medium built and have blue eyes I'm very bubbly and am always up for a laugh I have loads of mates and a loving bf who I love alot I will answer any questions that you want answering as I'm like an agony aunt
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okay so i am and only child and im am the total opposite of spoiled! if ne thing im way over protected! my parents are really tight! and they wont let me do n e thing! im 14 and im goin out with this boy but i dont kno how to tell my parents.. i mean they kno that i like this boy and he likes me but how can i get them to let me go out with him? or like just atleast hang out with himout of school? i get good grades and im honest with them and they trust me and i deserve to b able to have more privalages! how can i just explain to them that everyone has a boyfriends when your my age and that most of them are allowed to go out on a date with them? (link)
You need to explain to them that you have to have some priorities of your own let them see it from your point of view


For all poetry writers. Can u help me? i'm a writer but i cant seem to get a poem out (yeah aka writer block)...i was wondering if u could help me by writing a poem for me plz?

i wanna tell my friend, that he can sometimes be fun and crazy and how he isnt always on the sweet and caring side and sometimes can be a complete idiot at some points, without saying that..I also want to get to the point that i may like him as well. Can you help me whip up a poem plz?- THX (link)
You’re sometimes fun and crazy
But you make me feel hazy
You’re not always sweet and caring
Help I just can’t bear it
Sometimes you act like a fool
Other times you are
Cool I guess what I am trying to say
I think about you everyday

Is this ok I write alot of poems love sophie


is there anyway you can dely your period but in a healthy way? cuz im goin on a trip next weekend and my period is planned to come around then! how can i cope with this? (link)
You just need to make sure your prepared for when it comes that way you don't need to worry


Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're really close and i love him soo much. We hold hands.. hug.. stuff like that but weve never kissed. Hes told me he wants to kiss me and ive told him i want to kiss him.. only we never do. Im waiting for him to make the move but he gets nervous really easily. Im starting to wonder if theres more to it than nerves. Let me know what you think... Should i just go ahead and kiss him even tho id feel weird? Thanks! (link)
It took me a while to kiss my boyfriend because he messed me about so many times I tried but he never would untill one day we were cudling in a field and we just kissed like that it just happened so the same goes for you just wait for the right moment you'll know when trust me


Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?

Signed, Troubled Child (link)
this happened to me once it took me a while but then I just remember that theres no point in moving back you've got to move foward put it behind you I know it's hard it took me almost a year but when you finally get over him it will be worth it


Ok there is this girl that i have been best friends with for about two years. we arn't as close anymore because of fights. but ever since i met her i like, loved her. i cant get her out of my head. although im young (13) i know this isn't immature love. everyone seems to think im crazy because no matter how many times she breaks me, i still love her. i have been with her before, but... im not over it. i miss her so much. but the thing is, now, whenever im somewhere and she comes along. i wish she never came and just went home. but yet, i still feel the same way about her. and im not sure what i want completly. at the time, the thing is that i dont know how to get her out of my head. im starting to really lose consentration. im doing worse in school and im always sad. if anyone can please help me. i know its hard since i cant really ask a direct question... but try. i really miss her.. (link)
Ok the best way to show your feelings is to right them down I find that it helps when you write a poem about how you feel it makes you feel so much better getting it out in the open


Well i am a girl 14 and i have a boyfriend. Hes serious and everything but i dont like kissing him. it kinda feels weird. but i was out with my friend, whos a lesbian, ane she started getting all touchy feely w/ me...and i kinda got worried..then she was all..do you really like kyle? (my bf's name) and i was like yes i do. and she got really close to me and said, are you sure? and i said uhh..and she kissed me. right there in her living room. i was like totally grossed out at first, then i decided, its better than kissing kyle, and so we started making out, it got hotter by the minuite first just kissing then she was eating me out. it was like heaven. but i dont know how to tell anyone. b/c they'll be all weird if i do tell them. but every night i go over to her house and she just like strips and then helps me and then we get it on. idk what to do! (link)
This oviously means your more attracted to girls don't worry you've just got to tell your boyfriend and if he doesn't take you seriously then he's not worth it find someone who understands I've got friends who are male who have kissed other males and females


Im 17 and i know ill be losing my virginity this summer. But apart of me still thinks HE is too good for me. And that im not that beautiful and skinny enough to have sex. Has anyone ever felt this way? How should i get over these feelings? (link)
Don't worry not being thin and pretty doesn't stop you from having sex boys like more curves I know my boyf loves me and i'm curvy and i'm no where near pretty look you can be any size or look anyway nobody can tell you your any different your unique


now guys be totally honest.. if a girl was decent looking.. not ugly but not that pretty but had a real good personality would you be ineterested in her and go out with her? if she was sooo hot but ditsy and fake would you go out with her? would you make an effort to get to know an ok decent looking girl? thanks.. and ill rate 5's! (link)
You should just pick girls who you think are hot if you like this girl then date her don't worry what your friends say girls like lads who aren't shallow so your in the right just be yourself


theres this girl i dont just have a crush on ive nown her since well (for americans kindergarten)
(for uk reception) and i love her with all my heart she has a bf but i lov her so much i dont know what to do she gave me my first kiss and she has always been there for me but she met this guy i dont know what to do ive nearly told her i love her but chickened out help me please

ill rate huge

despratley needing help
sam (link)
Look you have to get her on her own and explain everything to her you can't keep eating yourself up about it do you think that she's gonna find out if you don't tell her if she feels the same then your in there if she doesn't move on I know it's hard to but i've done it loads of times trust me you got to tell her love Sophie xxxx


my 11 year old sister got her period, and she doesnt want her stuff in the bathroom or anywhere, because of my dad and brother. (link)
just tell your sister that it's normal to be embarrased when you've started your period and it's normal to be nervous of keeping your stuff near boys but you will have to evenually


Okay, everyone thinks that I made up having a boyfriend. I mean why would my friends think that. It seems so much like I made him up because he was a great guy, and I was too embarassed of friends and family to introduce him to any of them. And he wasn't cute, so I was to embarassed to take any pictures with him, and now the relationship is over b/c he is 18 and I guess he wasn't such a great guy b/c he was cheating on me. But he went to a different school, then he moved to a different state. All my friends think he's made up because if I'm on AOL he isn't, but if he's on then I'm not. How can I get them to understand that my x was made up? (link)
First of all ignore what people say you know it's true why listen to the're crap tell them that they don't know about your life so stop calling you a liar cause you know your telling the truth and if they don't listen say look I'm not gonna waste my time on telling you bunch of losers


This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!! (link)
ok sometimes friends are like that it doesn't necisseraly mean they don't like you but maybe the've moved on cause when you get older everybody goes their seperate was it just means that everyone is growing up we all change eventually so theres no need to worry ok it's normally try asking them places


Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!! (link)
I totally understand what you saying the same thing happened to me and I'm still not over what happened but oviously my ex is to busy trying to make me jelious all you need to do is talk to him explain how you feel face to face so you can tell him every detail tell him you really like him and ask him if he would consider going back out with you this might make him think he might say yes but thats up to him really hope I helped love sophie


okay...well thier is this guy i that i really like. alot of people like him too! should i go for it or just forget about it? (link)
Ok if you really like this guy give it ago you never know he could say yes but if not just ask him if you can be friends it's better than nothing


Okay.. I'm in love with my best friend whom i've known since kindergarten..but my best friend is also in love with him and she doesnt know i love him too. and he's been giving me these signals..but i have no idea wut to do..i dont wanna tell my friend b/c she'll get all mad at me and stuff..but i dont wanna ruin my relationshop w/ the guy..wut should i do? (link)
ok wot u need 2 do is find out if your best mate likes you and then you tell your other mate everything and say if your my friend would you stick by me if I went out with this lad and tell her who it is and explain that you won't do just go out with him if she doesn't want you to but would you still be happy if you did




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