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Well i am a girl 14 and i have a boyfriend. Hes serious and everything but i dont like kissing him. it kinda feels weird. but i was out with my friend, whos a lesbian, ane she started getting all touchy feely w/ me...and i kinda got worried..then she was all..do you really like kyle? (my bf's name) and i was like yes i do. and she got really close to me and said, are you sure? and i said uhh..and she kissed me. right there in her living room. i was like totally grossed out at first, then i decided, its better than kissing kyle, and so we started making out, it got hotter by the minuite first just kissing then she was eating me out. it was like heaven. but i dont know how to tell anyone. b/c they'll be all weird if i do tell them. but every night i go over to her house and she just like strips and then helps me and then we get it on. idk what to do!
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WOW. That one turned me on a bit... I'm pretty sure you're a lesbian, and that's perfectly fine. Break up with Kyle, and when you tell your friends just remember to leave the sex part out... let it come with time. Whatever feels good. And don't worry about your friends, do what makes YOU happy. If they get weirded out, fuck 'em. It's none of their buisness. I know it's hard, but if your friends don't support you their selfish.
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This oviously means your more attracted to girls don't worry you've just got to tell your boyfriend and if he doesn't take you seriously then he's not worth it find someone who understands I've got friends who are male who have kissed other males and females
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This isnt like cheating on your bf with another guy..so i wouldnt tell him anything about hooking up with the girl. Dont tell your friends, or anyone..i wouldnt..because its a big thing to come out if your bisexual. theres nothing wrong with being bi..but people your age would make fun of you..it would get around..your parentss would say its only a phase..so i agree with the person who said dont come out for the next couple of years. I think maybe you should break up with kyle because it sounded like you really enjoyed the girl. Dont fight your urges..
-hope i helped
-melissa-
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Hi,
Well, like a couple of other people have said, you could be bi-sexual. You don't have to tell anyone until you're ready. If I was you, I wouldn't tell anyone until you're at least 16 because (esp. if they are adults) they will just say, 'oh, it's just a phase' or, 'how do you know if you're so young?'. You might not like kissing Kyle because you just don't like him - that doesn't necessarily apply to all guys. And you might have liked kissing your friend because it's 'dangerous' (i.e. if you get caught) and unusual. The only thing that I think is clear is that you don't really like Kyle - whether it's because you're homosexual or because you just don't like him - it would probably be best, for everyone, if you broke up with him. You can't lead him on like you are, it's not fair, and it's not fair on you either because you're having to cheat on him to be with this girl and you're obviously not happy with Kyle. At least you'll feel a little less guilty if you're only with the girl. Maybe you could try going out with a couple of other guys (just short-term, fun relationships) or really looking at guys in the street and thinking, 'am I really attracted to him or am I just pretending to be to hide the fact that I'm gay?' to determine whether you are bi or homosexual.
Good luck!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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That is the coolest story. Ever! Anyway, make out with the lesbian. It sounds like you enjoy it. Hell with what your friends or family think. If ya like it,do it.
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i personaly think your bi-sexual. which is perfectly normal. now you could just not tell neone cause it seems yur reputation and social life would be hit hard. cause if you tell people might think you a lesbian (and it might be true that oyu a lesbian instead of bi) and a lot of guys will try to take adantage of you and stuff. so you shouldn't tell neone and if you like it, go have more sex wit yur friend.
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Well perhaps your not ready for a relationship with kyle? I read in MANY magazines about being confused about your sexuality.If your friends are good friends they will avoid the fact of you being bi. And as for Kyle you may not be ready, if so tell him that you are not ready for a serious relationship. If you want to talk more about this send me a message.KiNky4bLiNk182
hope i helped!
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