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Ive met this great man and we get along in all aspects, but from the start he has said hes not sure about a relationship because of his past. Hes been so hurt and has built this huge wall around him. I have made it clear from the beginning that i do want a relationship. Who doesnt want to be loved as long as its with the right person? He has just recently figured out that i have started having feelings for him and it scares him. Now im scared of how honest to be with him about it because i dont want to lose him from my life, hes also a great friend. On the other hand i wish there was something i could do to get him to see how great we would be in a relationship. Help me, ive been seriously hurt in the past as well and i dont like this feeling i have in my stomach. What should i do? I am 33 years old and hes 36 and we both have children from previous relationships.

hey that kinda sounds like me and my boyfriend but were only lovesick teenagers lol anyways i think that you should sit him down and just tell him that even though he may have been hurt in the past that it doesnt mean that all relationships he will have will be the same tell him that if he can just give a leeway then this relationship could be the best hes had. honesty is one of the wonderful things in relationships so ull know when to be honest and wen to comfort hope i helped but then again im just a lovesick teen...

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Hey. I'm in the 7th grade, and for my grade in math for the 3rd quarter, I know I got a 87.45% B+. Can that be rounded to an A?

nope cuz the 4 isnt higher then a 5 so sowwy but hey good grade though

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Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

cocoa butter or shea butter i think yay hope i helped!

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Is it normal to have a little bit of hair and many little and big bumps around the area of the nipple? The other day i thought it was an acne bump so i pinched it and some stuff came out, just a little though, but i think it was mainly blood, LOL. So someone please help me..or tell me what a normal nipple area should be like??! Thanks alot. xOxO--am

normal for the hairs and bumps but if somethings comin out like that then talk to ur mom or someone close to you

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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!

lol its normal hun dont worry about it some people get it early and others get it late. ur period will come soon!

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I have a simple question that I can't find the answer to. In the middle school I go to they have a P.E. class. In P.E. class we do jumping-jacks. What do jumping-jacks help you build? Your arms, legs, stomach, or something?

arms and legs! hope i helped

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does stretching help you grow taller?

nope it just makes u flexible

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Where can you get free counters that can tell you how many people were at your website today and how many total?

www.coolcounters.com hope i helped!

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if sperm touches your vagina,(& may have gone in a little..) is it possible to get pregnant?

it is but very unlikely

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Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??

depends on who ur talkin to some people might say that 40 is old some think that 50 is old. it just really depends on how people look at others hope i helped! :)

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hey im just wondering, if u cut is it like wrong.. is it that big of a deal.. if its not for attention it just helps you deal with yourself then does it matter? do you need help if you do cut?

yes people who cut do need help for any reason becuase they are physically hurting themselves to deal with something and its not right

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me and my bf have been going out for 5-ish weeks now and we're both pretty easy going people. But we haven't ever fought about anything and we spend SOOOO much time together. Is that bad?

no! everyone wants wat u have! that sounds like me and my bf we get along so well and never fight! ur in a good relationship

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If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?

very good sign! lol

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

get her cards or candy or flowers. and call just to say hi and be able to talk to her about anything. shell feel really special!

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My best guy friend (tom) has a girlfriend. His best guy (jake)friend likes me. I like my best guy friend (tom). Should I wait for tom to break up with his girlfriend or should I go ut with jake?
-Confused

hun dont wait around for a guy go and explore ur options! have fun!

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I'm really skinny, especially my arms. I wanna build muscle in them, especially in my wrists cuz my wrists are so small and they make my arms look akward. What are some good excercises to build muscle in my arms? Thanks!

push ups and crunches!

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wut does lylas mean and how do u make those hearts?

lylas=love ya like a sister! and u can make hearts by going to font symbol im not sure which key it is but its there!

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Hiya,
I was just wondering...what's the point of a hidden track on a CD? I know they're there and how to get at them and all that, but WHY are they there?
Thanks!!

just something cool to do i guess lol wow thanks for telling that there were hidden tracks! lol!

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Ok, I wrote in earlier about the guy that hates me and everything. Well now he said that he is going to ask out this really discuting guy for me tomorrow in 1st period and I know he will. What can I do because I dont want to go out with this guy but I know that he will ask him. Someone please help me and plz hurry

go to the guy first before he does and just tell him that some stupid guys gonna tell u that u like him and its all a lie but be nice about it hope i helped! - ray

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Across the street from me, an elderly couple sold their house and the people that bought it have two young boys, ages 4 and 7 I believe. They have asked me if I'd like to babysit for them and that's fine with me. I've babysat before but normally I'd do it free of charge. It's come the time where I'm getting older and I need to get money. I'll be driving in a year and my parents aren't going to be paying for my gas and car insurance. What would be a good amout of money to ask for? I don't want to be asking for too much. I'm 15/ female.

well i babysit too and i get about 8 bucks an hour but the minimum wage is 5 bucks an hour so i think u should decide between 5-8 bucks an hour! hope i helped! - ray

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