i've been friends with the friends i'm with now for a long time.. we've always been close but now, they're all obsessed over like.. iunno being popular or w/e.. they act alot more .. iunno.. they flirt alot more and the diss ppl alot more.. and my guy friends always plan these outtings or w/e they always seem to forget about me and theres this one guy whos always the only person who remembers me.. wut shud i do? plz dunreply and diss me up.. ps. i'm a girl
try to talk to the people who your friends with and if they are still being a snob to you then dont worry about em and go find new friends, but whenever you talk to them tell em their not the people who you thought they were and that they have changed and that they need to stop being mean to people because thats not right and let them know that how ever mean they are to anyone will come back on them someday, maybe not to day, maybe not tomorrow but someday it will come back on them so if they dont wanna be friends with you and are treating you like their better then you then they are not worth being friends with and they were never a friend to you at all...i hope this advice helps you in some way. *feedback is greatly appreciated*-Nikki
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well theirs a girl that i was goin out with and we broke up because she needed to work on school work then she whent with a dude that she cared about and i sayed ok then we whent back out for like 2 weeks then she broke up with me then i liked a girl but i still loved her so i dident ask the girl out because i whanted to be with my ex but i dont think she has the same feelings for me any more so i tryed to ask her out but she e-mailed me asking why i like her and why shes so special and when i did she hasent been on to tell me so you might know her so if you where her what would you say (to anwser her question i told her that she made me feel special and different and that i care for her more than anything and that she is the greatest thing in the world to me ) well i hope you can help bye
Listen Dylan, i know its you who asked me this question but i cant go back out with you so much is going on right now i dont need anyone to interfear in it i dont want a boyfriend right now at all!...we can be friends but thats as far as it will go, we wont get back together again...i'm sry to tell you this but i dont think we will...so much is going on and i need to be alone...no1 and i mean no1 can help me with what i'm going through.*feedback is greatly appreciated*-Nikki
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ok, i like this guy. we'll call him joe. and i have a friend who likes joe. lets call her belinda. sure. and we both like him a lot. and belinda is like one of my best friends...and i like joe A LOT. and belinda has been gettin' pressure to ask him out. and she's now sayin' she might....if its ok with me. and i want her to be happy....but i don't want him to say yes. i don't know! what do you think would be best to do? or say? PLEASE HELP! this is like a serious SOS, ASAP thing. please! thx in advance.
if you and your friend are trying to go after the same guy it will mess up yalls friendship really bad...so just talk to eachother and see what would be the best thing to do considering the both of you like this guy...i hope i helped-Nikki
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help help help...we will rate u... we no someone who is thinking about killing/cuting/or running away! She is the type of person who would really go out and do it. but whenever we try to call her she hangs up and now she wont answer her phone and she isnt on AIM anymore...we dont know what to do or think...all we think about it what the worst sanerio is!!!
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if calling your friend doesnt work because she hangs up on you then go to her house and tell her parents you HAVE to talk to her and that its IMPORTANT...even tell her parents whats going on...thats what my friends did when they knew i was going to do something stupid and saw me cutting my arm and then i got help...not saying it helped me but it could help your friend..tell her yall are there for her and not to do something stupid because yall love her and dont want her to hurt herself in anyway...i say tell someone anyone who can talk to her about it...someone who loves and cares about her. I hope i helped -Nikki
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I've known renee since the 5th grade we became best friends in the 6th grade she never really got any guys because she just wasnt liked by guys and i was usually the one getting the guys now we go to different schools and were in the 8th now its the other way around but she brags in my face about it and rubs it in my face which i never did to her she thinks shes all that and pretty now our relationship is totally crushed and i wanna hit her what do i do?
Talk to her...tell her how you feel...tell her that she doesnt have to brag about every little thing that happens to her in her life and that it hurts you when shes braging about stuff all the time...hope i helped-Nikki
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Hi i have this friend and she lied to me and it realy hurts well this is how it goes, i have this friend who will belive any thing i or my friends say anything so i was gonna tell her something just to see if she would believe me. Well it got out to a friend and i told her i wasn't gonna do it, so wat does she do, she goes off and tells her that she was gonna get hurt by me even though i told her i wouldn't. So we start talk'n and they say there is someone who likes this guy so i beg them to tell me but they wouldn't, so insted of tell'n me to stop they make up a lie to teach me a lesson amd to get me to shut up!!! Well one of my friends told me that she lied to me and i can't get over it. She was wat i would of called a true friend. So i asked her about it and she lies and said she didn't! Finally she tells me the truth and i so mad i cant even think! We were talk'n earlyr and we couldn't stop fight'n! She says i shouldn't be mad at her i should be mad at my other friend but she went along with it and still lied!!! wat should i do!!!
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you shouldnt have wanted to play a trick on her to see if she would belive it in the first place because there are some people who will belive anything but it doesnt mean you gotta take advantage of that...some people cant help but not to believe everything other people say. Tell her your sorry and that would help yall to be friends again and if sorry doesnt work then try harder to be her friend again no matter who hurt who. hope i helped-Nikki
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Okay i go out with this guy ... we have been together for a little less than a month but I have liked him since like september .. Well i dont know like since i got on break for school i just havent wanted to talk to him at all .. I mean he got me a really cute christmas present and hes sweet and everything but I'm not sure if we ya know like "click" ... I want to break up with him i think but tha last time i broke up with a guy we had been together for 5 months and i just felt i didnt like him n stuff but now hes happy with his new g/f and i regret it badly and i dont want to break up with my current b/f and regret it too ... what should I do? Please help -XoX-
if your not happy with this guy then tell him that you just wanna be friends for right now so you can think things over or something and if you break up with him and he finds someone else and you get jealous again...well theres really nothing you can do about that just try to figure out how much you care about this guy and take it from there. hope i helped-Nikki
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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him?
dont end things with him because of his jealous ex girlfriend...the next time she IM's you save the convo and let the guy you've been talking to read it....tell her to leave him alone if he doesnt like her and if he likes you tell her to back off because she had her chance and now you have a chance. i hope i helped!-Nikki
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i like this guy. and we are going out. but see he's the kinda guy who doesnt hold hands, kiss etc. like he wants to but i dont know if hes nervous or just is scared to. anyways ive made some moves but i dotn want to make all the moves. what do i do to make him do all that stuff. so hes not soo slow? ive even talked to him. and he keeps telling me he is going to do something. but he doesnt. im waiting and waiting. what do i do? and i dont want to dump the guy if you think i should.
your 13 and hes prob around the same age as you right?...well maybe hes never kissed a girl like by makeing the first move and maybe hes scared to or something...talk to him about it more and try to get it out of him why he doesnt make any moves...some guys make moves on girls and some dont the ones who make all the moves end up trying to get to far with it so i'd say just to talk to him and be careful ...hope i helped-Nikki
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oh. well i have a friend, and we both have gotten wicked close in the past two years. we hang out with each other and all our friends and its usually at her house. but all of a sudden i started talking to her brother a lot. he talks to me online and stuff and we make plans together. i dont want anything to go on between us because i know that if something goes wrong then i might lose her friendship, which is really tough to get anyway. me and her family [including her brother] have plans this week and he said he was going to show me how to play the guitar. what should i say to him? cuz i really do like him. thanks x0x0 * jp
talk to your friend about it, tell her you have feelings for her brother and ask her if it would be okay to date her brother if not then dont risk loseing your friendship over a guy. hope i helped! -Nikki
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my friend didn't get a single thing for christmas what should i do? i feel so bad! so should i get something?
if you have the money to get em something then do it....do something nice for em...buy a christmas card or something you know they will like...i'm sure they will be greatful for whatever you get them. What i did this year is my brothers friend was over here and we got em stuff and everything but it seemed to be like only 3 or 4 things so i gave my brothers friend something of mine befor i opened it...he thought it was really nice...i felt bad opening presents without my brothers friend haveing that much...well i hope i helped.-Nikki
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my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i?
if you and your ex are takeing a break then i dont see why it would be a problem for you to kiss another guy, because yall are takeing a break from eachother and that means that your free...your single and you can kiss another guy do what your heart tells you...if you think that it wouldnt be a big deal then go for it...if i were you and i were takeing a break from my boyfriend and kissed another guy it wouldnt matter because its not considered cheating if yall are not together, i hope my advice helps-Nikki
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug?
tell him you want a hug from him...if he likes you then there shouldnt be any problems in getting a hug from him...or just go up to him and give him a hug. i hope i helped-Nikki
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My boyfriend and I are over. He broke up with me and I thought I was okay and didn't still feel for him but I do. He broke up with me because we weren't right for each other but I still love him. I need him more than anything and I can't get over him, don't tell me just to forget it and move on because I can't.
if you love this guy it will take you a while to get over him..and you may date other guys and stuff like that but no matter what you will more then likely still love him...hope i helped -Nikki
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
your mom is just conserned with you and she doesnt want you to do anything you will regret...your moms just looking out for you...and most kids do stuff behind their parents backs anyways but about that i dont know if i should tell you to or not because your only 13 and just do what you think you should do...i mean if i were you i would wate a looooooog time befor i did anything like that i mean kissing's ok but stuff like that at your age isnt...just make sure you dont have sex with this guy untill you KNOW for sure hes the one. I hope i helped-Nikki
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i Asked a question earlier about me datin a 19yr old.....ok......19 i kno but everytime someone says someone who is older than 16 goin out wit a much younger person every one first thinks "RAPE!!!!!" but i kno if i said he would neva do anything to me everyone would tell me that i cant be to sure.....well thats bull because this guy really really really likes me and im sick of hearin that sex is the only thing on his mind.....sorry but you really got to stop thinkin that every olda guy is gonna rape someone..... thanx to those who gave me good advice........i appreciate it.....
>>now ill ask again..sould i listen to my friends?....or go wit wat my heart tells me to?
hey..i say go with what your heart tells you...if your friends are gonna judge the 19 year old then their not being a good friend...i mean yeah your friends are prob just showing you that they care but...tell them you can take care of yourself and that thanks for their help but the 19 year old isnt like that and its true...just because most guys try to get in to girls pants most of em wouldnt date the girl first then leave her...if you care about this guy and he cares about you then dont let your friends try to run your life...go with what your heart tells you...I hope i helped you..and if you need anything else then you can ask me-Nikki
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I'm just curious, you dont have to tell me if you dont want to. But how did you become homeless and how did you get yourself out of that situation?
ok...i became homeless because we lost our house when i was 10...and moved in with my dads mom...and she kept on kicking us out with nowhere to go and my dad is med. retired and it took social surcurity 4 years to finally send my dad the money they owed him...and we had no where to go nothing to eat or anything...we were in motels for a while...and your wondering how we paid for them...well we had to sell everything we owned...and we got out of being homeless when my dad finally got the money that he was wateing for May of 2004 and we got a house and we had to buy beds and everything...we had to start out new because we didnt have anything at all...does that answer what you were asking?...if not then IM me on Koolchick20022006@yahoo.com or my aim name is sweetroxygurl046 or my msn name which is ns2bsmart@hotmail.com or just send me another question....oh yeah and we got through it all...i stuck with my family through all of it and in the end we got everything we've ever needed...
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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
if you go for him...then it will mess up your friendship with your friend...a guy is not worth loseing your best friend over...because there a plenty of guys out there so find someone else....i hope i helped -Nikki
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if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.
I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
everyone looks at porn...even i know what your talking about...and i'm a girl...it doesnt take smart person to figure it out...its normal...just because you look at porn doesnt mean that your slipping away from the lord. your mind wonders and your a guy...its only human! I hope i helped-Nikki
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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..
Its your body and your fingernails so i say go for it...if you wanna wear black nail polish i think its sexy me being a girl but i think guys who wear black anyways are sexy...but i think you should...dont worry about if people think its weird or gay because its not them its you...you are your own person so do what cha want!...I hope i helped -Nikki
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