i Asked a question earlier about me datin a 19yr old.....ok......19 i kno but everytime someone says someone who is older than 16 goin out wit a much younger person every one first thinks "RAPE!!!!!" but i kno if i said he would neva do anything to me everyone would tell me that i cant be to sure.....well thats bull because this guy really really really likes me and im sick of hearin that sex is the only thing on his mind.....sorry but you really got to stop thinkin that every olda guy is gonna rape someone..... thanx to those who gave me good advice........i appreciate it.....
>>now ill ask again..sould i listen to my friends?....or go wit wat my heart tells me to?
Berri answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:30 pm: Well if you're that gung-ho about the guy, go for it. It sounds like you don't really care what anyone else thinks, and you're gonna' stick with this guy anyway. I still suggest you seriously consider what your friends are telling you, though. Because you know the saying: Love is blind. People can get so caught up in love that they can't see what's really going on. I say that you still be careful, but whatever. It's your life. [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
NikNik answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:26 pm: hey..i say go with what your heart tells you...if your friends are gonna judge the 19 year old then their not being a good friend...i mean yeah your friends are prob just showing you that they care but...tell them you can take care of yourself and that thanks for their help but the 19 year old isnt like that and its true...just because most guys try to get in to girls pants most of em wouldnt date the girl first then leave her...if you care about this guy and he cares about you then dont let your friends try to run your life...go with what your heart tells you...I hope i helped you..and if you need anything else then you can ask me-Nikki [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
Beccers_boo answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:22 pm: well it is illegal to date someone kiss or anything if that person is overage (16) and you under. so yes if they kiss you or if you date him it IS rape. People arent jstu thinking that the yare knowing it. Rape isnt only sexuals intercourse. Think abotu that. good luck [ Beccers_boo's advice column | Ask Beccers_boo A Question ]
givingbackmonday answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:11 pm: well i dont know what your friends were saying to you. but theyre just looking out for you. you should listen to them and make sure they know that you care what they say, but when it comes down to it it's youre decision, so be careful. good luck! hope i helped [ givingbackmonday's advice column | Ask givingbackmonday A Question ]
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