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15 (almost 16)/female
This is embarrassing but I am almost 16 and still a virgin. I have made out like twice(but i find myself not to be the best kisser becuase i think about it way to much b.c im afraid ill mess up) . No fore play, sex or anything. Not because I dont want to but Im afraid to do it wrong or mess up. Also when it comes down to it Im nervous about my body, but thats not a big concern to me tho. And compared to 80% of my friends Im like the most unexperienced. Its not like i couldnt do all the stuff, but my fears are keeping me from them. Well my questions are..
How would I give a hand job or blow job that will pleasure him?
If i happen to discharge on a guys fingers when he fingers me..is that normal?
Any suggestions or good advice? I need it. :[ Im pretty pathetic to think about it. (link)
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at 16, you SHOULD be a virgin.
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But the guy i want to do it with is 10 years older than me what should i do (link)
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gross.
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female
14
so ive never really been in a proper relationship and i would really like to be with a guy
im a little fat but i think i am pretty
i cant really find a guy that likes me
i also wish to have sex very soon
everybody else seems to in my year except me
i really want to have sex to see what its like (link)
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you're FOURTEEN! you shouldnt be wishing to have sex anytime soon! and honestly, its pathetic that you want to have sex just cuz "everyone" in your grade has cuz pretty sure 75% are lying. at LEAST. so start high school with high values and a resistance to peer pressure or you'll end up being an alcoholic slut just like the rest of 'em.
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my cousin wants to know if having sex ok for a twelve year old, well she isn't doing it with a boy, just an object. Because her Vagina is hurting. She doesn't want anyone to know , so do you think it is bad? (link)
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haha i think 12 is too young to be masterbating. its weird that you're asking this question for your, ahem, "cousin"
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14/m whenever im somewhere and girls i do not know see me that are my age, they seem to be embarrassed and wont look me in the eye. I see them looking at me when im not looking at them and they wont face me. i went over to my friends house and she had two of her friends i had never met before. They were eating when i walked in and the two new girls looked really embarrassed and wouldnt look at me. then when they get to know me there not embarrassed anymore. does this happen to all people when they have never met before??? im not doing anything or looking at them strangely. (link)
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haha WELLLL, are you good looking? cuz thats how 14 year old girls react when they're in the presence of a cute guy =] the other possibility is that they're all just extremely shy and can't handle awkward eye contact
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Ok, me and this guy i was friends with started going out. At point we decided it would be better if we were friends. Now me and him are dating other people and I think I like him again. I don't know if I like him for him or for the fact that he's dating other people. I don't know what to do. Please help me out!!! (link)
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i dont think you truly like him. you're probably just jealous that hes with another girl and you're not used to it. focus on your guy and stop paying attention to him =]
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Alrightie , Heyy,
My bffl Megan is 12 and her bf is 14.They are so in love and going good and everything.BUT next year Megan's boyfriend Jason is going to high school and she's still in jr. high [grade 8] so they won't be in the same school , they were wonder any tips ?? the high school is like 5 min walk from the jr. high so any tips/comments/helpers =] thanks greatly apreciated !! mwah !
-Stephi (link)
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so okay, they "like" each other but they definitly don't love each other. shes flippin twelve! i don't really think they need tips here cuz it wont be much different then it was before. if hes a grade older, they obviously weren't in any of the same classes anyway. they can just talk on the phone and hang out after school
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I'm a girl by the way...Ok so im pretty sure that im ready to have sex for the first time. But im really afraid it will hurt, like a lot. I've been fingered once before and that hurt a lot too. So i'm afraid that i wont be able to enjoy it because it will hurt so much. i know it sounds stupid but please help.
thanks. (link)
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if it hurt when you were FINGERED, it will definitly hurt when you have sex. especially if you've only done it once. but i guess if he used three fingers or something the first time, then thats understandable. but yeah, it'll probably hurt you
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My name is Liz, I am 16 and I have a boyfriend named Dalton. I am in love with him so much and I'm positive he loves me too. I'm really serios I am full fledge in love with this guy. Last night we were at his house and he brought up the idea of sex. I didn't know what to say so I told him I wasn't ready. But now I think I am so should I go for it? I know I love him so please don't say that I am too young or its not worth it. (link)
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i'm not doubting you're love him but i do think you should go with your initial reaction. after a while, you THINK you're ready but originally you said you weren't. if you truly TRULY were, you would have said so right then and there.
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years. early in our relationship he cheated on me with one of my friends (it was like a one-time thing) but we got past that and i know hes been faithful since then. well he just got back from vacation and the first thing he tells me is that he had hooked up with this girl he met at the beach. he was like sobbing and saying that he felt so bad about it but he had to tell me cuz he didnt want to keep anything from me, and that it didnt mean anything and that he hates himself for being so stupid, and how much he loves me, and please forgive him.
well i know your gonna say dump the jerk. and maybe i should. but then i think, maybe i should forgive him? i mean, at least he was honest about it. he didnt have to tell me and i never wouldve found out. and we have been going out for so long, im the only girlfriend hes ever had, so maybe its natural that he'd be curious about other girls, even though he really does love me? or am i just making excuses for him because i love him and dont want to lose him? but if i stay with him, is that sending the message that its okay to cheat on me? is he really just a cheater and always will be? or was it really just a mistake? i dont know what to do! (link)
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if he told you right away and was literally sobbing about it, i could almost gaurantee that he was telling the truth about how bad he felt about it. i think you're exactly right..he's curious about other girls even though he DOES love you. in my opinion, people have to be in love or damn near it to make a relationship last for over two years. the crying thing was key though..a guy could totally say all he wanted about how he felt just to make you think he's being sincere so you won't leave him but they can rarely force tears and make a whole big scene. i think he definitly seems like a good guy and although this is his second time, he was truthful, sorry, and neither of you want to break it off. its obviously up to you but with how he reacted to his naughty behavior says a lot about him. if it happens again, i'd ditch his flippin ass =]
oh and ps..don't forgive him right away or push the issue aside. keep it in full view for at LEAST a week so he knows how big of a deal it is. don't let him get the idea that if he does something wrong (especially cheating) that all he needs to do is cry and apologize and everything will be fine and dandy the next day =]
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For verizon wireless, i have free after 9:00 pm. but when does that end. at 12:00 am? or in the morning? or what? thanks. (link)
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clarifying that with your carrier is the only way to know for sure because every company is different. your plan is probably stated somewhere on the bill you get every month. if not, just call them or look online. i have sprint and my free nights are from 7pm-7am
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if a girl like never stops talking to me on msn and facebook sometimes until 1am or later does that means she realy likes likes me and wants to go out?
( i have already asked her out and she said she needs to think about it. but i can tell she has some strong feelings for me.)
what do i do? (link)
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my guess is that she doesn't want to be such an easy catch so she tries to act like she needs to "figure out her feelings". they're pretty obvious however and i would be willing to bet a lot that she really likes you. if anything, she at least LOVESSS the attention =]
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14/f. My bf is coming to visit me in august and he is also 14 and we were thinking about having sex. and we really want to and he's the kind of guy i could see myself spending the rest of my life with sense we've been dating for about 9 months. But i really dont wanna take the chance of getting pregnant. What should i do? i no we would use a condom. so dont tell me that. Am i too young? i dont think i am but some ppl do. HELP!! (link)
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first of all, i don't think you should have given that girl s one. she was exactly right, and she was just being straight forward which you should be old enough to appreciate even though you're only 14.
i will do the same also.
you're too young. don't do it. even if you've only had sex with one person you will totally get the reputation of a slut. and how would your parents react if you got pregnant?
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i started growing "boobs" in 4th grade, so i thought i was gonna have freaken huge boobs by middle school, thats deff. not the case. haha i kinda still have the same size from 4th grade there just a bit bigger. A instead of AA. anyways, my cusins are all c's && boys pick on me alot because im flat. [im going to be in 9th grade soon] is their any way to till wheather or not im going to grow anymore without seeing a doctor? >:p you probably can't help me. eh (link)
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most of the growing is done in college anyways, so don't worry. you're definitly not done yet. and 9th grade is just a really immature age, you'll soon realize that as boys get older, they like little boobs more and more. 11th and 12th graders (minus the REALLY shallow guys), are pretty much into any kind of boobs. especially little ones. they won't sag with age =] you're fine hunny, and i was exactly like you. now i'm a senior and guys are still just as interested in mine as they are with the big boobs lol :-)
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I've been looking for ways to sexually please my boyfriend. I've tried handjobs and blowjobs, I just want something different to do. Any ideas? (link)
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lick, squeeze and dry hump. rub genitals together. if he can feel his penis on your vagina, he will get TOTALLY turned on
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My boyfriend & I are sexually active. I've been on the pill for 5 days now. We are going to use a condom, but if the condom were to fail, will the pill help prevent me getting pregnant since I haven't been on it very long?
Thanks. :) (link)
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i dont know where some of these people got their information. you need to be on the pill for a full month before it gets accurate and some types of pills takes three months.
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This summer my boyfriend and I want to go to the beach together. The lake is really disgusting, so don't suggest to go swimming in it. The beach does have a boardwalk and lots of paths to go roller blading, so we plan on doing that. There's a little cafe there, but that's about it.
Any ideas for stuff we could do together? Just the two of us? I wanted to lay in the sun and read together, but I don't want to just do that the whole time. (link)
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make a sandcastle and have a picnic! fun! =D
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16/f
I know a girl, and she can honestly lick her elbow. She`s shown me and other people how easily she can do it. I`ve always heard this is impossible, should she enter record books or is it somewhat common?
Haha, thanks for the advice! =) (link)
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wow. i have not heard of ANYONE who can do that. impressive
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okayy so me and my bf are now on a break during the summer. andd i really really like this guy named justin and ive liked him for atleast two years. well justin has a gf (justin and i are in 8th grade and his gf's in 10th) soo yeah a bunch of girls like him. but anywayss. we've been planning to hang out a lot this summer (even tho he has a gf) and ive given hand jobs before soo im pretty sure ill give him one but he wants to finger me. i think i want him to but im not sure if im too young (14). soo i was wondering what the normal age is to have a guy finger you?? andd i was also wondering if its possible that he would "pop my cherry" while fingering me. thanks soo much in advance (link)
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he has a girlfriend and you're assuming you're going to give him a handjob?! holy crap girl. what's your problem?
to answer your actual question though..14 is probably young to be fingered. the average age is like a year or two older but ya know what..thats just because people are sluts these days and have no standards so i think thats much too young. i don't think you should be doing stuff at all until you're well into high school. and i've always thought you should only do it if 1) you're old enough 2) it's an informed and mutual decision and 3) it's with a semi-serious to serious boyfriend. others may answer this much differently but if you lived in my city, you'd see the beginning of your bad reputation since you've already gone to second. you REALLY need to watch what you do, especially now and your first year in high school because thats when upperclassmen are really judging you and you dont want to throw away your reputation your first year there! okay i'm babbling; i suppose its possible to pop your cherry while getting fingered but usually the guy doesnt get far enough up. it could be already broke from tampons too.
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Ok well i want to try using a tampon but i don't want to waste my money on buying a pack in case i find out that tampons weren't meant for me and wasted my money on nothing.
90% O fmy friends use tampons so im thinking of asking them to bring one for me but..i dunno..kinda akward..
I posted this question up because we're going on a cruise tommorrow so it seems like a good time to get one since my friends are coming too
What's your advice on this? (link)
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uh, why can't you just tell your mom or dad to get you a box?
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