Hey everyone! The names Melissa and I'm just dying to help everyone out.
Sometimes i might be brutally honest but that's what people need!
If you need some help or have a question feel free to send me a message I would be more than happy to help!
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: Sales Associate
Age: 21
MSN: missy_meliss@live.com
Member Since: February 18, 2010
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will boys like me if i have big breast (link)
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Yes
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1. generally, are tattoos painful? on a scale of 1-10 how bad?
2. which one of the spots i named would be the LEAST painful?
3. if you have any tattoos please share your personal experience..
4. which one of the spots i named would be the MOST painful?
Im thinking of getting a tattoo on my hand, will it hurt really bad? (link)
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Do tattoos hurt?...yes. on a scale of 1-10 I would say a ten. But it all dependad on your pain tolerance. Generally the feet ribs hands hip bones and spine are said to be the most painful. Anything that is coming in direct contact with your bone is extremely painful.
I'm all for tattoos I think they can be extremely beautiful, but just remember...when you get one on your hand its one of the first things people will notice about you. Especially future employers
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Everybody probably knows Like a G6 by the Far East Movement. It's catchy song. I like the song but hate the video lol my friends love the song too and we even had it play at our school holiday dance lol
ANYWAYS whats a G6? I tried figuring out what a G6 was from the lyrics but I didnt get it. What's it? A G6 must be a slang for something right?
so . . .
Like a G6
... what does that mean?
thnx (link)
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A g6 is an airplane. If you listen to the whole song it mentions getting high like a g6...hence the airplane.
It is also a car, but i really doubht that she wants to get like a pontiac g6. Doesnt make sense
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My mom got me a hamster for Christmas. He's really cute and I'm happy because I wanted a new pet for a long time. The hamster is kind of big and is black and white colored with a pink nose. I was wondering if anybody had some sort of cute Christmas names I could name him since I got him today (Christmas)? I'm not coming up with anything, and my mom is like, "Name him Santa!" so...any other ideas? Thanx (link)
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Bells, Snowflake, Button (idk santa has buttons on his outfit?), Chocolate (like the cookie?). Ginger or Gingersnap.
ermmm...you could always go with Buddy like from the movie Elf :D Or scrooge or Grinch. Idk i sometimes like names like that cause there not so typical but there still really cute
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I know this sounds odd but i'm curious. (this is mostly for girls but guys can answer to if they want).
Would you feel comforable watching porn (or a sex scene in a movie) with your bf/husband? (link)
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Yes. Completely comfortable. I'm 20/f and my boyfriend and I have watched porn together. Its actually a huge turn on and something we both enjoy
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Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. So I was at this party last night and there was this guy that used to go to my school (he got expelled for getting busted with pot) so he goes to a school nearby (he's a junior, 17). So I barely even knew him until last night and a few factors, ahem, impaired my judgement and I went up to him and sat in his lap while he was playing cod. He taught me how to play and then we stared dancing. For awhile. And we hooked up, but just making out. He asks for my number and I give it to him. He texted me today. I don't know what to do. Im kind if interested in him but I know he's not what you'd call a "good kid". Okay I'm not exactly a good kid either but I've never been interested in a guy this bad (I try to avoid potheads) and I know I barely know him but there's something that's making soooo curious about him and I dunno why. (link)
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Its simple. Bad guys are so much more fun! There not whiny or clingy. Something about them is just so very attractive. If your interested in him then go for it! Don't let someones image or reputation keep you from getting to know them
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What do I want for my 21 st birthday (link)
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You want to get SMASHED.
Drink till u throw up, and then drink some more. You only turn 21 ONCE. So go out there, dress like a slut, get a bunch of free shots and have FUN
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Well i've been with my boyfriend for four years, and i'm one of those girls who no matter how many times i hear that porn is okay i can't get it through my head and it still hurts, well i had learned to accept it as long as he did it when we weren't going to have sex, but i recently found out he does it like after or before we have sex i asked him not to because it bothers me and i caught him again, and after a while he admitted he had a problem and was addicted and was going to seek help, so i stumbled upon porn filters and i mentioned it to him and he said he wouldn't mind but i don't know how porn works with guys, will this cause him to want to do others girls now that he can't wack it to just the thought of others? cause i always researched how to accept your guy looking at porn and they always said " you should be happy he's trying to control it not doing the real thing" hes always looked at porn so i don't know what problems it's going to cause if i apply this filter. What do you guys think (link)
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If you don't trust your boyfriend why are you with him?
There is absolutely nothing wring with porn, and if I ever Installed something on my boyfriends computer like that he would leave me in a heartbeat.
Even with his consent its still completely wrong. You act like he wouldn't be able to watch porn without it. There is always phones and DVDs?!
You need to get over the problem with porn, or your never going to be even remotely comfortable with yourself.
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is it sinful to kiss the opposite sex. (link)
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Firstly its not sinful to kiss the same sex. Second, its not sinful to kiss the opposite sex. Attraction is normal, and kissing is just a way to express that.
If you didn't kiss someone how could you consider them your partner? I'm not saying you should run around making out with every person you see, but if your dating someone e and you reach the point where your comfortable with them, then kissing is a perfectly healthy way to express that.
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okay so over the summer i had a "thing" with this guy. then it ended and one of his friends started talking to me about why it ended and blahblah. then he got my number from somewhere and started to text me more and more. i kinda just went along with it cause i like to text haha. i kind of regret it now because he texts me ALL THE TIME and won't leave me alone. like if i don't answer for 5 minutes he'll just keep texting me until i answer and its really annoying. i'm nice to him though and i do text him back most of the time. i want him to back off a little but i do work with him so i want to keep things cool. how can i do this without being mean? (link)
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Stop answering all the time. I know you like to text, but text someone else. If you still feel bad after ignoring him, text him like once every other day saying hi and then say sorry ive been so busy i just dont have time to talk all the time.
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Hey, I'm an 18 year old female. I've been dating my boy for about 5 months now. We were friends for about a year or so before we started dating. I always had something for the boy. When we first started dating it was like a dream (Like any other starting of a relationship). We were both so eager to see each other.. and just so in love. It never changed for me until recently.
He's been so.. distant. Not only that, but every time I bring up a problem, it's more of a problem that I did. He just doesn't get it. I know he has work and college and I respect that, but I try to see him as much as I can. Which is usually once or twice a week. And some days he'll make up excuses not to see me. I love the kid, I really do. He's amazing.. just.. not so much recently. He becomes cold, distant.. bitter. and everything seems to push back on me.
I'm a romantic, too. I love to give small gifts, whether they're notes or poetry.. or what ever. I just try so hard to show my feelings and portraying it. Every time I do this.. it becomes a joke. He claims it was just a stage of him being sweet and he's not clingy. I'm so desperate for getting the tenderness I need that I'm crushing over other guys. I'd never cheat. I don't know what I want anymore. All I know is I want to be happy. Yes, people say to use my heart and not my head.. but it's pretty hard when it's in this situation. If anyone, please anyone, can help me.. please try. I can't take this much longer. (link)
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Your obviously two different people. He isnt clingy. Doesnt need to see you all the time, and all the gifts your giving him are making him uncomfortable.
If you keep acting the way you are, he's either going to break up with you for being clingy, (not saying you are its just how guys see it), or your going to become so upset that hes not reciprocating that your going to end up breaking up with him.
I would just lay off if i were you. No more notes or poems. No texting or calling him all the time. You could totally just text him at night saying Goodnight for a few days, and see if he responds by texting u more often during the day.
If nothing changes, move on. Find someone whos more your type of person.
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hey i am a 16 yearold girl and i want to be a model so bad but my probelm is i weigh 125 and i am 5 4.5...am i too fat and short or do i need to lose weight (link)
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Honestly, your to short. Models are like 5'10 and up.
I dont think that your to fat though. 125 is perfectly healthy for your height.
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12/girl
I wanna earn some money so I could buy supplies 4 a guinea pig. So does anyone have ideas for a small neighborhood job that I could start w/ my mom? Maybe we could do something that has to do with cleaning houses, pet/baby sitting?
Anyone that has an idea & doesn't answer is being very lazy. I appreciate any answers that come.
Thank you. (link)
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Wow. Rude much?
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can you get pregnant if you swallow sperm? (link)
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Omfg, the only way you could possibly get pregnant from swallowing sperm is if you have a magical tunnel in your body that no one else in the world has that leads from your mouth straight to your freaking vagina.
Seriously, think about what you asked. How in the world could you get pregnant from swallowing sperm!? Its no where near your vagina, which is amazingly the place a baby comes from. Next time you have a question like this, try Google.
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Can you get pregnet from giving someone a blow job (link)
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No
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is the droid incredible..anyone have anything good/bad to say about it? (link)
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Absolutely love my phone. I've never had a problem with it. Handles just like a computer, and I must say I think its better than an iPhone. My speakers are much louder and clearer. And the camera is 5 Mega pixels. It takes great video and the internet speeds are good.
All in all I would say this phone is incredible :)
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when me and my boyfrien fool around sometimes it goes farther and he eats me out adn hes asked me to blow him but i refuse and tell him that i think it is gross, but the truth is i dont know how to give one, ive sucked on condoms before but nothing for real, can someone help me????? (link)
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Ehhh why would you suck on a condom? That can't have tasted good. Next time your boyfriend asks just tell him the truth. Say, I don't know how and I haven't because I don't want you to think I'm bad at it. I guarantee that he so t care that you never have before and that he would be MORE than willing to teach you.
If you try it once or twice and decide its something you don't like than that is fine to. But at least then you can honestly say that you gave it a shot and its just not something your interested in.
Just remember, do it because its something your curious to try, not because he wants you to.
Good lick and have fun ;)
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My parents were divorced at the age of two.
I am an only child. and my mommy has always been a single hardworking mom.
My mom began to work night shifts when i was 12 years old. At that age i was still what you could call innocent. i had no intention what so ever of doing anything "wrong". After i turned thirteen i began watching porn while my mother was gone. i started meeting waaaay older guys and since they had cars i would invite them to my house. that all began around december. at first it was just making out. and during the month of december and january it was with only one guy. in the middle of january i met another older guy and he too began coming to my house at night. around february i made the biggest mistake of my life. i lost my virginity.
loosing my virginity was the worst thing i have ever done. but i didnt know what to do. when ever i had sex it made me feel loved,needed,understood. and i never had that type of feeling since i was always alone. from february to may i had sex with more than 10 different guys all of which were older than 20. By june i had had sex numerous times. and the worst part is i would hardly ever use protection. No one ever knew about this because no one would ever believe me capable of doing such a thing.i am a straight "A" student and i look like an innocent bright and kind girl which i use to consider myself to be. in june i decided to move to mexico since i have family over here. soo i had the oppurtunity to have a fresh start. luckily my mom never caught me doing anything. but i feel terrible. my innocence was completely gone in less than 3 months. i did things far too horrible to even describe. you guys have no idea how bad i feel. i know most of you are thinking what a slut! and i know i deserve it. but i promise im not a bad person. i was simply a confused, lonely girl that didnt know the definition of love. Thank God i am now living in Mexico and am proud to say i have changed dramatically and am a whole new person.i have not had sex in 6 months! which is a major accomplishment. i thank god every day that i didnt get pregnant. but girls please be smart and learn from my mistakes. some of you might not be so lucky and end up with a huge responsibility that you have to deal with for the rest of your life.
Think Twice.. (link)
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This is not a question.
This website is for advice. Not for your blog.
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i need hellppp and i dont know what i do
i work at a place that i realllly enjoy and i love all my coworkers. i've been working here for about a month but last week i got offered a job at another place where this guy that i have always liked works. We have always been friends but never anything more, and i was really excited to work with him and see him alot more. But the job is really boring and pays alot less. its not about the money but for so many other reasons i want to stay at my first job but everytime i think im going to turn down the second, i see the guy and imagine how fun it would be working with him, i dont know what to do, should i stay at the job that i love? or quit and work with the guy who i have always had a crush on??? (link)
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Stay at the job you love.
You two are already friends, so its not like you cant talk to him outside of work.
Dont give up a good thing on the off chance that you might have fun with 1 person at this new job. Its just not realistic
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so all my freinds like hip hop and rap but i think its kinda stupid.i like metal better.i also look like a headbanger too like i have a mowhawk,slipknot jacket, and the whole nine yards, but im kinda startin to like those other stupid songs but i dont want to.i couldnt imagine dancing n stuff to that kinda music and i feel weird when they play it but i really am starting to like it so please give me any advice possible. (link)
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There is really nothing wrong with liking different kinds of music. Music isn't about what genre it is, its about how it makes you feel when you listen to it. So its not like your doing anything wrong by liking metal and r &B. You are just discovering new sounds
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