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choosing between a job i love or boy i like
i need hellppp and i dont know what i do
i work at a place that i realllly enjoy and i love all my coworkers. i've been working here for about a month but last week i got offered a job at another place where this guy that i have always liked works. We have always been friends but never anything more, and i was really excited to work with him and see him alot more. But the job is really boring and pays alot less. its not about the money but for so many other reasons i want to stay at my first job but everytime i think im going to turn down the second, i see the guy and imagine how fun it would be working with him, i dont know what to do, should i stay at the job that i love? or quit and work with the guy who i have always had a crush on???
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Stay at the job you love.
You two are already friends, so its not like you cant talk to him outside of work.
Dont give up a good thing on the off chance that you might have fun with 1 person at this new job. Its just not realistic
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You should stay at your current job and make time to spend with this guy you like. For so many reasons workign with him could turn out terribly. One if you date you need space away from each other and that could be work. Two what if you two were to break up it could be akward. Three yours making more money and you love your job it is not easy to find a job you like.
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You have already stated that the second job position is boring and indicated through that assertion that you wouldn't have a good time of things.
It's a total unknown. Furthermore, you would only be doing it for a guy who may not have the same interest in you as you do in him.
STICK to the job you have and making better wages there. That part is a no-brainer. If you like the guy see him at school and find another way at starting a relationship. That's the best way to do things sensibly.
If you took the other job you likely won't do well at it and will have lost better wages over a guy. You may find that you don't like working with him either or if you had a relationship that went bust difficult to work in the same environment.
Most employers don't want employees married or in relationships working in the same place for that reason. I say keep your work and anything with this crush separate and pursue it outside of your working environment.
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If it's going to happen with this boy, it can happen without you working together.
If it isn't going to happen, it wont happen if you work together or not. And think of how miserable you'll be if it doesn't and you are stuck in a lower-paying job, with a boy you can't have.
What you should do is call up the guy you have a crush on and ask him out. Your problem isn't about were you work - it's about waiting around on something to maybe happen, instead of doing something about it. Changing jobs is just not the smart something to do about it.
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