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ok..heres my thing you guys...
*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do
DONT! if the only reason u dont wanna do is because u dont wanna be called a whore, rather than u dont wanna do it cuz U dont want to; then u wouldnt be doing it for the right reasons if u did. If u did i believe ud be doing it for him not u! i hope u make the right choice!
My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date?
tell him to go fuck a tree... if all he can think about is sex buy him a porno! if he cant focus on u long enough to have a straight convo bfore bringin up sex then...u know what to do! hope it goes well
I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?
DONT HAVE SEX U WILL DEGRADE URSELF AND YES ITS HAPPENED TO MANY PEOPLE I KNOW U WILL GET CALLED A SLUT EVERY GIRL FRIEND THAT U HAD WILL BE TALKING ABOUT U BEHIND UR BACK AND U WONT KNOW WHO UR REAL FRIENDS R AND EVERY GUY WILL THINK HE CAN GET WITH U!! be safe not sorry... hope u make the right choice.
I'm a girl, and 13 years old, and I just want 2 kno, is it wrong 2 like your brother's best friend??? Becuz...I do. My friends say it's fine, but the thing is, there's no way he likes me back, he's 3 years older than me, and there's no way I can ever tell him, cuz he'll just be freaked out. I didn't mean 2 fall 4 him. It was beyond my control. What am I gonna do??? I really like this guy, but he doesn't like me back. My bud, Christy, she knows him really well, and used 2 be his girlfriend, and she says there might be something there, but I think she's just saying that to make me feel better. Is she lying??? Or has he dropped a hint 2 her that he likes me back??? Me and him just recently became really good friends, but he's still my brother's best friend. So is it wrong??? Pleez somebody help. I need answers. Should I tell him?? Or wait until I'm over this??? I don't kno if I can take it n e more. It makes me really sad knowing that he doesn't like me. If I ever told him, he'd probly just freek out and never talk 2 me again. Or at least, that's what I'm afraid of. Pleez somebody help. It's tearing me up inside! Thanx SO MUCH!!
i dont think its wrong that hes ur bros freind there r no boundries there, i dunno the age thing is a little different but i cant tell u whethere u should tell him or not. but dont consider him off limits cuz hes ur bros friend!
Hey guys I was just wondering if anyone is from Mooresville, NC I'm moving there from New Hampshire and would like to know how it is. Thanks!
I live in asheville, NC i like it here ok ive never heard of mooresville, IM me sometime i hope ur move is fun!
ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks
Break ur shell!! Be someone crazy and great! Go up suprise them guys r really not too bright girls will notice the change but boys will just be like woah that girl is soo coool start going to games after school football, soccer u know join clubs. Dont bring ne of ur old friends if u feel they drag u down! i mean this may sound uber shallow but just try to have more fun typically wen a person is having fun theyre the best person theyve ever been! talk to boys dont just ask them out become freinds then move it up a notch! believe me babe ive been there and i had to change somethings before they got better! if u dont like something change it! + ur going to highschool soon correct like in a year? U just wait things r soo much better at the highschool u have classes with upperclassmen and ull beable to make new freinds and there will be hottt boys in ur classes! Hope ur life is great! hope ive helped! things will get better! :)
okie well i go to this camp n im 13 the oldest kid there n there is a camp consler who is 18 he is going off to colledge n befor camp ended i always talked to him n we got to no each other relly well n well he is soo awesome at camp he use to pick me up n like beat up on me not like rele mean he would just put me on the ground n sit on me n stuff like that n i rele like him n yea thats kinda a big age gap i tell himi love him like luv ya kinda stuff but is it grosse that i like him??? or is it oki
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I think its perfectly ok that u like him. I think u also like the fact (subcontiously)(cant spell) that he is a safety boy. meaning u know nothing could ever happen becuase of the age gap and the fact that he is going to college, so therefore ure comfortable with him ur going to be starting high school this year? if so there will be pleanty of guys there for u to like so dont stress that u have feelings for ur councler. its cool:)
is there good way i can lose some weight.. im not fat at all but i got some pudge in the middl of my stoamach... please help me
situps do lots of situps~! to get rid of the pudge on ur tum. and do six inches, flutters, and leg lifts to work the lower abdomen (cant spell) and ur legs will look great along with ur tummy and butt! :)
(Female: 13 yrs old)I personally think the only way I can possibly get a flat stomach is to do crunchies and stuff. I kind of want a 6 pack or something but idk.. it will look weird on girls! Do you think I will look weird if I get a 6 pack?
No, girls look very good toned! im sure u will look good and it will look great in a little bikini! as long as ur comfortable with urself u will look great!
ok theres this guy that i think that likes me alot... i think hez really sweet and id go out with him sept... my friends all think hes really ugly and theyd probally think if i went out with him that im just desperate!! n im not!! well my best friends in his class and told him that i thought he wuz really ugly and then my other friend that wuz in the same class i wuz walking home with her one day and she said that i tured him gay!! lol. i kno i didnt. lol. hez not gay but i dk wut to do leave him alone be his friend wut? i dk!! n im not gunna just go out with him u kno wut i mean!! lol. peace out!!
What grade r ur freinds, cuz they seem pretty immature! if u like the kid go for it screw what they hafta say theyre not the ones going out with him. and if they bother u constantly about his looks then tell them to get a life or find their own boyfreinds to rag on.
u kno double chins... well is there an exersize so u wont get em or like theres less on ur chin?
yes there is actually. if u tighten up ur facial muscles like the ones that r connected to the front of ur collar bone that pull ur lips down to a sad face and make those two lines stick out down ur neck, if u do those over and over it will indeed exersize your chin.
ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do??????
I bet ure not being a jerk... see when i was fourteen and the boys were too i thought they were funny, i still like immature humor but that is just me... what kind of things do u say that make u feel like your a jerk? that would help because perhaps u just feel like a jerk, you could just be beeing too hard on urself.. im me sometime if you would like to discuss this further!
Hi im a 16 yr old girl and im really shy n innocent as in not evn ever kissed a guy before so i have a hard time having a b/f cuz i dump them right away n lose interest very fast...But then i started talking to this kid down the street named Zack...and hes really cute and adorable n i can make him laugh n all...n he would always come over to me or turn around n ignore his girlfriend to talk to me...Even one time his girlfriend was leaving for a week and one her last day before leaving he came ovr n talked to me and didnt even say bye to his girlfriend...I really like him now and before school let out my friend asked him if he liked me n hes said " i do have some feelings for her but idk" and i dont know wut that means...does he like me or not? he also said " shes the kinda girl that it would be hard to be more than friends with " n my friend told him it was worth a shot n he said " yeah maybe it is" and when ever i call him we talk for like an hour n a half...n i wanna know if im getting my hopes up or if he really likes me cuz im mortified of rejection...and it would be so easy if we went out..he lives within walking distance...sometimes me n my friends go to his window in the middle of the night n wake him up n talk to him...And when i think about it..i wouldnt be be so shy around him...i wanna kiss him!!! but i dont want to get hurt n confront him about it cuz then id feel dumb...so should i take a chance on this kid??
Just kiss him that will tell him how u really feel and then hell know that ur serious; and uve never kissed neone before... so just lean in close while ure talking to him and keep talking till u get up to his face and look into his eyes while ure talking and make sure hes looking at nothing but ur eyes and then, shut urs and kiss him! I bet u that will work, hope it turns out great for yah!
so basically i lost about 45 pounds since april and ive worked really hard and stuff so i am proud of myself because i am FINALLY comfortable with myself and my body..... but ive always had a ton of guy friends and now that im in the 125 lbs catagory (im 5'8 btw) a lot of my girl friends have been making me borrow their clothes cuz nothing i have fits anymore and im waiting to go back to school shopping, so my friends are letting me borrow their clothes... Well about a week ago my friends decide to make me actually dress up.. so they have me wear all their little abercrombie stuff and i kinda knew i looked like a slut but i was sorta happy because atleast i looked like a pretty slut... We ended up meeting with all our guy friends and they were shocked because i hadn't seen them since late may. They were just like oh my god you look hott... and really i am not used to that kind of attention... like im always the person to crack the jokes or do the crazy stunts but not the one all the guys are like heyyyy... Everyones been telling me I should keep this look up and i do feel good in the clothes just the response isn't exactly what i want...
I think you should just make sure ure happy with urself! But yes im sure ur loving the attention ure gettting! I think that you should still pull all of the "stunts" and "crack the jokes" so what if ur "hotter" now, the guys will love u even more if u can be hott and funny at the same time! + a girls best look is usually tight blue jeans and a white tee-shirt! so i mean u can be simple but yet "hott." But good luck to yah! and great job on losing the wieght!
Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea
Have a great party, there can be alcohol but just make sure u invite a great group of people! a party is all based on the people who come. Make sure theres music set of one room in the whole house that u can put all the breakables in and if u have a backyard id be good to go chill out there, make sure there is music and a few snacky type foods and drinks, again if u have alcohol maybe u could make mixdrinks! check out this great sight! it has lots of shooters and coffees and mixed drinks.. http://ruready2party.com/ hope ur party is good!!
For one of my classes at school i have to take home a fake baby doll that cries and stuff! It is totally embarassing!!! Have any tips?
dont be gay lindsey!
Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..
Ok so you say not many people know you at this school, then dont be the old you. New school New You! Have the same personality, but try not to be soo shy. Talk to a lot of people. Go to club meetings that you may be interested in. Photography club, Art club, Foreign Language club... you get the picture that way you will have stuff to put on your resume' for college along with a group of potential friends. Also go to sporting events after school friday night football games, soccer games, and so on, or better yet tryout for a sport. Another good after school organization is YoungLife, you may or may not have that at your school but probably it is at most. Those are some ways hope they're helpful!! Good-Luck
Ive liked this kid for almost a year now and I like him a lot but he likes another girl. He told me he liked me and he wont go out with her because hes been thinking about me but there always together and it bugs me. I cry a lot cuz i really like him. What should I do?
Set your standards for him, if he knows you like him and he "likes you" then tell him to either act or your walking. Let him know how serious this is to you. And then see how great he really is by his response, if hes a good guy he'll do the right thing.
hi, im only 15 but im very interested in my weight! i recently started gaining weight but there has been no change in my diet. I was 105 but now for some reason my weight has gone up to 116. My mom just thinks im crazy and pushes me away but please don't do the same i really want to get back to my old weight and i want to do it a healthy way, so if anybody can help please tell me how to loose the extra pounds im only 5 foot 2 and i think i would be healthier with a smaller size. if you could just give me an example of what i should eat or something i should do everyday i would really appreaciate it.
thanks!
I think that your weight is fine. Usually when girls grow they do gain weight and believe the boys are not going to mind they like girls with curves and i have a friend that is five two and she wieghs 120 and she is not fat or anything so im assuming that you're not either. But if you feel that you look bad you could try doing muscle toneing excersizes and gain muscle mass and not necessarily loose weight but u wont be fat at all you would be toned. Eating healthy should be part of a normal daily diet for everyone though it is not for most. So basically Eat healthy and get excersize (even if its just a walk around the park)and what ever you weigh is your bodies normal, good, healthy wieght. So don't stress.
this is a stupid question but what is a material girl?
A material girl is a girl that is obesessed with things! She cares more about brands and where she buys her stuff rather than the more important things in life. Another word for materialism is kinda superficial(cant spell.) A material girl cares about whats on the surface.