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I honestly feel like my step brother has hooked up a hidden camera in my room. His friends will come over and they have this name that they call me, and i'm pretty sure it involves what I do in the privacy of my room. I have looked up how to detect a hidden camera but I don't even know where to begin looking. Like the internet says they can be hidden in tvs and vcrs but how the heck are you supposed to open a vcr or tv to find a camera? I want to confront my mom about it but she'll just think im crazy, and she'll ask me why I think theres a hidden camera in my room and I really dont want to explain the meaning behind their joke.. What do I do? How do I know if theres a camera in my room? I mean, the internet also says "look for any red or green dots" well my tv has a red light on it but it came like that and so does my dvd player, and dvr. Please someone help. I am at a loss and I just want to get to the end of this and find out if there really is a camera in my room. Oh and how long does it take to even hook up a hidden camera? (link)
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well... how else would they know your ''name called'' its either what the other said your brothers.. or what you said a camera.. or somehow they have a hole they peak in...what about your computer webcam.. people can hack on and see everything without you knowing.. also, try to find wires like they said before and if your not using anything TURN IT ALL OFF! everything.. look and take it apart.. both vcr and tv and computer.. but remember maybe its hidden somewhere ese? you never know.. maybe in your closet? or somehow in your bed? remeber they called you a name.. you should think of what angle and what place they could see you with the camera if they said that...
if it happens still again go talk to your mom... tell her because she NEEDS to know
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I dont know what to do. Im only 14 and ive been in a relationship with this boy for a year, on and off now, and he's been talking about us having a child. Ive been really thinking about this and I really feel like Im ready for something like this. I know its not exactly a walk in the park bringing up a child and that it isnt something i can just forget about if i get fed up of the responsibilities. I do want to have a child with him now but honestly im not sure if I should. I saw what you said to some girls question and just thought youd be able to help. Please reply, Im not sure who else to ask.
Thanks:) x (link)
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okay.. your SO SO SO young I agree with what she said.. your so young and you need to be 100% positive its a HUGE responsibility..
you will go farther in life and meet individuals that will help you and make you happy and then you will be in a better boat..
education you are only 14... how would you even get a job in the work field? itd be so hard for you...
what about the money? money comes from jobs which would be hard for you...
please rethinkthis...
its a hard situation.. plus only a year? yeah.. you its even too early to bring that up... you have to be certain and in a relationship for a while..
my advice please wait , its a hard life..
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i am 12 and i am terriffied of shots! i feel like i am going to die!!! will you help me get so i am not so terriffied of getting my tdap/tetnus, whooping cough shot? my appointment is soon!!!!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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oh , don't worry everything will be fine, look away and think of something you love and everything will be okay, they only last seconds!!! its fine! just look away and dont give contact to it and your fine
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Did your life turn out different from what you imagined as a kid? (link)
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I was a bratty child.. I feel bad for my parents putting up with me. No life did not turn out the way I thought it would... it turned out different.. the workload, the responsibilities,the stress, I looked toward a job and thats it - getting the job I wanted.. ,but life turns out completley different.. far from what I have expected.
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I really want to give this guy a blowjob but something is just telling me not to. What should I do? (link)
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Well.. dont do it... if its telling you or ''something'' is telling you not to.. then please don't do it and dont get hurt :( , so many people get hurt because they rush
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I'm 15 and male and i'm in highschool and i want to ask a girl out. i'm not he most 'polpular' of people but if i don't get a girlfriend soon i'm going to explode. please give me some tips. (link)
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1st : Your 15 , you got so much time to learn.
2nd : who cares if your not the most popular person? if the girl likes you she will like you for WHO YOU ARE , not for the label you put on
3rd : dont force to get a girlfriend.. like sex it will come naturally.. dont try to force a girl to go out...
4th : do you want to aska girl out? or do you want to just ask any girl out? there is a difference
5th : if you that badly want to ask any girl out.. well then dress nicely and approach someone who interests you , but be careful with who you pick
6th : if you dont get a girlfriend soon...why would you explode? its not the end of the world.. byt the itme your 20 you will have twice the amount of girlfriends...
7th : BE PATIENT!
8th : Be sincere and nice and kind.. girls LOVE chilvary.. open doors for girls , give them a smile, COMPLIMENT THEM :)
9th : dont rush against time... dont rush because it will only cause you DESTRUCTION!
-- just take some time and think of what you really want , be careful and good luck
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So there's this kid a year below me. He would stare if I walked by until he would have to walk backwards to keep looking. I never looked openly back, but he was so obvious about it that I could tell. Every time he saw me this happened. Without fail. In class, at an event, wherever. I know it was me he looked at 'cause a couple of times I accidentally made eye contact but was scared I didn't hold it for even a second.
The weird thing though? If I was up CLOSE to him, like standing by him and talking with a teacher, he completely didn't look in my direction at all, almost like he knew I was there but was ignoring me. That's how disinterested he was. He stares like a stalker at a distance, but ignores me up close, even flirts with girls in the area.
That kind of stuff.. What's it mean? I just saw him again for the first time in a few months and I admit it was a little strange that he still sought me out and stared (from a distance), but... Could it be he's just got a staring problem?
I've never spoken to him. He's kinda cute, I'm kinda not, so I don't wanna get my hopes up. Be honest please. :) I'm just asking here 'cause everywhere I look it says "Oh, guys look at gurls cuz they think u r priity." And I don't believe that's the case with me. (link)
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Okay.. it feels like he might stare at you from far away because he has the chance too and doesnt think you will be looking because its from the distance and he doesnt up close because he will notice you OR it can be what the other person said.. it could be hes definatley wants to show you he is interested and looks at you from a far so many times and hes obviously into you and upclose just like me or anyone else when your up close to someone you dont look at them you look away but form far away it is different , plus if you see him flirting with others ,but looks at you... he obviously wants you to be jealous or he wants you to notice him... he obviously has something for you... you should say hi to him or something what is the big deal? if he does he will answer back either way you will know if he wants to talk to you or not
good luck!!!
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Well, we were dating for about a month and broke up after like two day later . He was my everything, my bestfriend technecly . We had to break up because we didn't see eachother anymore . But latley I've been dreaming about him and I can't stop thinking about him . In my head its HIM HIM HIM , agh its not that I want to forget him because I don't I just want him to be a friend to me . A few weeks ago I manged to say to myself that I was going to distance myself but I just can't . Because without him I feel broken What should I do . ? (link)
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Well.. you sure liked/loved him... please in the future don't get attached to someone so quickly because it will hurt more and more.
You know... he doesnt talk to you because you and his relationship are over and he really just doesn't want anything to do with you , he wants the space away from you.
You need to go out and stop writing and questioning why you still have dreams about him.You need to go out and meet some new people.Bring your friends go out and have fun, forget him hes not worth your time and never was, there are so many guys out there.. it will really make it a lot easier for you and a lot better for you , dont hesitiate.
You were so attatched to him that now you are infected. You need to relook at yourself and ask yourself , do you want to live this way... do you want to suffer and question OR do you want to start a whole new page without anyone..
it takes time to heal.. and you will dont worry just be careful in the future...
like I said go and have fun forget the past your in the present
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i have had a sore throat for about a month..already took antibiotics and hasnt helped and seems to get worse...do i need my tonsils taken out? (link)
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Wow , im sorry to hear that.. all I can say is , take time and go to the doctor like the other person said. It is the only way out... the doctor can only help you , also , in the mean time you are waiting for a doctors appoitment if you go to the doctors, go see a pharmasists also see what they say , call the online health in your country, and it should help you.
Good luck
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ok, my mom has been totally addicted to facebook for about 2 or 3 years now. at first, she only went on a few times a day, but before i knew it, it became an addiction. she used to go on facebook on the computer, but ever since she got a blackberry, she goes on facebook on there. once my dad tried to tell her that she was becoming too addicted and that she was tearing apart the family relationship, she completely flipped and cried and screamed and cursed... so that was the last time anything was said about her addiction. it still really bothers me though. i cant talk to her about it cuz anytime i try to talk to her about someting i dont like, it ends up with either her pullingmy hair and screaming in my face and/or her cursing me out. so talking about it is out of he question. i need help on what to do. please. she doesnt do anything with me or my sister anymore. she just tells us to shut up and go away and make our own fun. and she always complains about how we are ungrateful brats cuz she gets us stuff all the time. honestly, i just want her love and company. she just doesnt get that. when i try to talk to her about it, she just calls me a whiny, overreacting b***h. hate it. i just hate it. please help me. thanks in advance. kisses! (link)
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Wow.. im so sorry to hear that... well try getting your dad to talk to her once more.. if the same reaction happens... go find professional help , take her to the phsycologist or the social help work, call people the social help line to see what they say... this will only become worse.. she says those things but she doesnt mean it... all I can say is get back on track and sooner or later you will get her love and company but you need to get her PROFESSIONAL help, she's obviously suffering and its your families job to pull her out of that , you need to do it fast before it gets even worse.
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ok so i just got invited to my friends birthday party. its a pool party and then we are all going out to a formal dinner. anyway, this friend is popular. i however am not so popular. i am no ta loser either. its kind of hard to describe myself in terms of popularity cuz i can go from chillin with the "freakoids" to hangin with the popular girls. i will really hang out with whoever. i dont just stick with one group cuz i have many interests. some of which seem odd to alot of people causing me not to fit in as well as some. i want to be considered cool at this party. i dont want the girls to whisper things about me when my back is turned because they think i act wierd. i just want to know how to socialize and act around populars. what kind of makeup should i wear? what kind of clothes? should i act sweet or normal or mean? should i be loud or stay quiet? what kinds of things should i talk about? p.s. dont tell me 2 be myself and act how i usually do cux this is just for one nite. i need 2 make a good impression. (link)
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Oh wow okay.. well first of all WHO CARES if they are popular or a looser?! no one cares!!! its all part of your school... like the other person said ''in 5 years it wont matter'' no one will care! just literally be yourself and if those ''popular'' girls dont like who YOU actually are... well then thats THEIR problem not yours , dont worry about who they will talk to or what if they say something about you? they are dumb! Just go be yourself , so what if its for one night? you really want to change who YOU are for one night? why would you want to be someone different? you shouldn't be trying to be different for some ''popular'' people.. I think its great you hang out with different people that is unique and continue that , just dont care what people think....
makeup: wear something delicate like a gold,peach,light pink,ligh blue,silver , light lip gloss, some blush , eyeliner NOT TOO MUCH! , masacara = ALL WATERPROOF! hence, pool party
Clothes: dont wear anything seductive, wear a nice outfit that matches nothing gover the top , like a skirt or shorts and a tshirt or a spagetti strap with a sweater.
ACT: BE YOURSELF! dont act sweet,mean, act NORMAL!
Loud/QUIET: like I said.. neither be NORMAL!
Talk about: talk about what you NORMALLY talk about and dont talk about gossip and dont make rude comments , talk about how good the pool party is , how nice they look , get a smile on their faces
im pretty sure you will make a good impression just being yourself.
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Ok,so me and my boyfriend Michael have been dating for 5 1/2 months.He really loves me,and I love him.But recently,we've been having tuff times.First,because he moved away to Texas,and I live in Illinois.Second,he keeps things from me.
He recently just told me his parents are rich.Then he just recently told me also that he doesn't live with his parents,so when I asked him did he live with his aunt and uncle,he took offense to that.So I stopped talking to him,because we would argue over him keeping secrets from me.So I haven't been talking to him.I want to tell him that I can't be with him right now,but when I go to do it,something tells me not to.Should I end it with him?Or should we just try and fix things? (link)
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Well.. this is a challenge , you guys love eachother and no relationship is perfect , they are really tough... the distance shouldn't matter you still have text,cam,phone,msn,mail and everything plus you or him could go see eachother .. plus though, it is definatley NOT a good sign that he is keeping things from you... that is a really bad sign.. why would you want someone who keeps things from you while you are completlely loyal to him? and have to stress over it? girl... if he keeps things from you and takes offense to a stupid little comment... its not worth your time and your 13 trust me there are so many others out there that would really help you :D and they would ttreat you so much better :D , plus, you said you guys argue over HIM keeping secrets from YOU , like really? thats ridiculous.. he should smarten up and not argue he knows better then that , plus he is young and you are young and guys that age tend to be very immature , well.. if you didnt want to end it with him you woiuldnt be asking this right.. its up to you , you can stress or/and work it out with him or you can become stress free and forget about it all , something else tells you not to because that something else is bugging you and doesnt want you to let him go inside.. but do what really your heart tells you to do , you cant tell someone to do something... its your choice and its your life, just please be careful and not get hurt..
word of advice: when a guy keeps secrets from you... that is a very bad sign.
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How long does an interview at Carrabba's Italian Bar and Grill usaully last, and do they hire on the same as the interview? (link)
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Well I have no idea what restaurant that is to be honest.. it rings a bell though , but most restaurants that are like that depend... because the people who are interviewing might like you and ask you more questions to make sure , most of the time an interview like that takes 20-30 minutes... including your comments and so , and I don't know if they would hire on the same day usually though when I went for other ones , you have to wait for a call back and if you dont call you back in 2 weeks maybe they are booked.. but it might be different for you , maybe they will hire you because they really like you , depending on what kind of answers you give them in the interview you should not take long at all.
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Im an curious on whats the fastest and easiest way to lose weight? That doesnt cost alot. Thanks:] (link)
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Oh I have told so many people this...and it will work. So ... have you heard of zumba? trust me go buy the game or go to the local gym and go for and try a class... if you put effort in you can burn up to 1,000 calories in AN HOUR CLASS! its a lot of fun.. music and cardio and dancing to make you loose weight FAST! look at zumba testimonies! :) also, drink A LOT A LOT of water... and do not eat too much after 7-8 o'clock or 6? I can't remeber which one , but it works! Also, if you have time always walk everywhere don't take the car or bus , WALK! trust me this will work , but you will have to wait a month or less to see results.. it will help you and excersise :) and eat well cut out the packaged food if you eat it , or the junk food , but dont cut it all out because your body might be use to it and just tone it down :) and balance it out ,
good luck :)
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