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Should I end it with him?
13/f
Ok,so me and my boyfriend Michael have been dating for 5 1/2 months.He really loves me,and I love him.But recently,we've been having tuff times.First,because he moved away to Texas,and I live in Illinois.Second,he keeps things from me.
He recently just told me his parents are rich.Then he just recently told me also that he doesn't live with his parents,so when I asked him did he live with his aunt and uncle,he took offense to that.So I stopped talking to him,because we would argue over him keeping secrets from me.So I haven't been talking to him.I want to tell him that I can't be with him right now,but when I go to do it,something tells me not to.Should I end it with him?Or should we just try and fix things?
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You are so young... I am not going to tell you that you dont know what love is because i know thats not true.. you love him but he was keeping secrets from you... you are a smart beautiful young girl and you deserve someone who is going to be truthful with you.. if i were you i would tell him that you need to talk try to work on things let him know how you feel and if he doesnt want to be open then leave him and go find someone who will treat you like the princess you are good luck
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Every relationship has there problems. The long distance would kind of bother me, exspecially when hes hiding something. My true advice to you, is try to make it work for say another month, but if he continues to hide things from you then let him go. Because if yall have been together 5 1/2 months then its at the point where he shouldnt keep anything from you. So try it for another month unless you feel like hes hiding something bigger then being rich or not living with his parents. All relationships fight but if your not happy with how hes doing you, then find someone else that is closer. i wish you best of luck.
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Well.. this is a challenge , you guys love eachother and no relationship is perfect , they are really tough... the distance shouldn't matter you still have text,cam,phone,msn,mail and everything plus you or him could go see eachother .. plus though, it is definatley NOT a good sign that he is keeping things from you... that is a really bad sign.. why would you want someone who keeps things from you while you are completlely loyal to him? and have to stress over it? girl... if he keeps things from you and takes offense to a stupid little comment... its not worth your time and your 13 trust me there are so many others out there that would really help you :D and they would ttreat you so much better :D , plus, you said you guys argue over HIM keeping secrets from YOU , like really? thats ridiculous.. he should smarten up and not argue he knows better then that , plus he is young and you are young and guys that age tend to be very immature , well.. if you didnt want to end it with him you woiuldnt be asking this right.. its up to you , you can stress or/and work it out with him or you can become stress free and forget about it all , something else tells you not to because that something else is bugging you and doesnt want you to let him go inside.. but do what really your heart tells you to do , you cant tell someone to do something... its your choice and its your life, just please be careful and not get hurt..
word of advice: when a guy keeps secrets from you... that is a very bad sign.
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