Well, we were dating for about a month and broke up after like two day later . He was my everything, my bestfriend technecly . We had to break up because we didn't see eachother anymore . But latley I've been dreaming about him and I can't stop thinking about him . In my head its HIM HIM HIM , agh its not that I want to forget him because I don't I just want him to be a friend to me . A few weeks ago I manged to say to myself that I was going to distance myself but I just can't . Because without him I feel broken What should I do . ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lonesome12 answered Tuesday August 2 2011, 4:56 pm: Well.. you sure liked/loved him... please in the future don't get attached to someone so quickly because it will hurt more and more.
You know... he doesnt talk to you because you and his relationship are over and he really just doesn't want anything to do with you , he wants the space away from you.
You need to go out and stop writing and questioning why you still have dreams about him.You need to go out and meet some new people.Bring your friends go out and have fun, forget him hes not worth your time and never was, there are so many guys out there.. it will really make it a lot easier for you and a lot better for you , dont hesitiate.
You were so attatched to him that now you are infected. You need to relook at yourself and ask yourself , do you want to live this way... do you want to suffer and question OR do you want to start a whole new page without anyone..
it takes time to heal.. and you will dont worry just be careful in the future...
like I said go and have fun forget the past your in the present [ Lonesome12's advice column | Ask Lonesome12 A Question ]
Lovelife101 answered Tuesday August 2 2011, 12:15 am: Its hard to be friends with someone you feelings for, bottom line. And why doesnt he want to talk to you? because hes a jerk lol. But let me just tell you this, guys are way different than girls they go into relationships with way different expectations then girls. They dont fall as hard as we, exspecially not in a month anyways. Movies are movies remember that. Love and life is way different then whats pretrayed on the screen. He probably has already moved on to someone different, the honest truth and thats why he is not talking to you. Dont waste sleep over him, hes not so why should you? Dont tell yourself you cant distant yourself because you can. You just got to subtract any pieces of him that are still in life and throw them away. Its not the holding on to one person that makes you strong, but rather the letting go. And sometimes you have to lose the people you love the most, so they realize or you can realize just how important that person is to you. Your going to have so many more loves to come. Trust me, I know. It may seem like your life is over today, but just know that when tomorrow comes your one step closer to getting over him and moving on with your life :] [ Lovelife101's advice column | Ask Lovelife101 A Question ]
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