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Not much to say about me...But here is a site for those of you that need some advice :) It is anonymous so don't be shy, if you have a problem, tell me about it! If you want to know more about me or who i am, check my xanga site!

My friend is rather cool fyi, heck, but he's definitely not as cool as me.

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i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol.

you got off extremly easy! if i would have said that...i would be well...in BIG trouble, 2 weeks is a blessing dont complain!

ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE

well, cheating on your bf, was not very smart, but your choice not mine, and if you like ricky better, then dump greg and do what your heart wants, but dont jsut dump greg cause he sucks in bed, that would make you seem like a slut which is not a very good thing

How do i delete my computers history?!

hmm somebody looking at porn eh? im jp, but go to tools, internet options, then clear history, you may also want to delete the cookies as well and the files..for those you just click "delete cookies" and "delete files" you may also want to delete the stuff you typed in you do that by going to tools, internet options, contetn, autocomplete, then clear forums, that deletes things you typed, and if you have virus scan stuff, just the question in my inbox, because i dont know what kind you have and what not,

rens friend

My friend and i have been best best friends since we were about 4 years old... same school, lives down the road, you know. then she left public school in 6th grade for private & i ended up going to the same private HS as her in 9th grade. since i knew only her there i just wound up hanging out w/ who she did (which were annoying, prissy, catty, gossipy, fake girls) and eventually she got tired of their crap, so she ditched them. but i still hung out w/ them so in the process she was ditching ME. so then i ditched them but not for her, i just needed to & i'm GLAD i did. but she STILL won't even talk to me. on the bus we used to sit & have nice long detailed talks and now she doesn't even ackowledge me at ALL accept when her "new" friends aren't on the bus. i never EVER said anything to get her upset or mad, and even if i did, she should give me the decencey to TALK to me about it FIRST since we're BFF, right?? i don't get it, and i already lost another BFF this year & losing her hurts a LOT. i don't understand why... i don't know what to do. should i forget about it and just leave it at "we grew apart, that happens" or talk to her (w/out pissing her off) and work it out... or something else? ahh PLEASE help, i miss my best friend! =(

don't give up on your friend. It might just be a misunderstanding. Like maybe she thought you said something about her but you didnt. Something like that. Just confront her about it. If she's your best friend then it will be worth it. Let me know if you need anymore advice :) Hope I helped!

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

What's an exercise move I can do to get rid of luv handles? They drive me crazy. And by any chance is this move pretty fast in reaction? How long do you think it would take to get rid of luv handles with this exercise move?

There are some really simple exercises you can do. Heres one that I always do:

Lay down like you are about to do crunches. Then roll over on your side in that position with your legs still bent but with your knees touching. (If your knees arent touching throughout the entire workout then it will not work.) Then act as if you were doing normal crunches. But not side to side, still up and down.

Let me know if thats sort of confusing. But it works great and should make an improvement. Im not sure how quickly it will work, it depends on how often you do it, and how many you do. I did every other day and it worked in about 2 weeks for me. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I know this has been asked 100 times before but I need some help. After school I am always hungry (I have lunch at 10:30). And of course I always reach for something unhealthy and not very filling. So my question is what is a low-calorie yet filling snack? I am not as active as I should be so I don't use many calories. So what is something that I could burn off easily?

I eat Nutrigraim bars all the time. They are soooo good (try blueberry). And they're really healthy and keep you satisfied for a long time. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

well the last month i have been thinking about cuttin because me and this kid nmed ryan*MY LOVE*
have been fighting. i told one of my friends and they told my school counsler. my school cons. called me down and we talked about everything.. now im seeing a theropist witch im happy about.
but the other day i cut R in my leg..and i cut 4 lines kinda small on my leg.

last night i was talking to ryan on the comptuer and he said he would die for me,he loved me,he hates kelly(his EX)
and today in his profile he put kelly-i love you.
i asked him what was up and he said i dont know.

but i have been down that rode plenty of times..when ever me and him fighting or ingoure eachother he puts that in his profile,to make me jeoulse.(he told me it was to make me jeoulse)
soo i dont no if he is lieing about the kelly thing or serouse because i wanna die i cant live my life with out him i love him so much.
but i dont no if he makes me cut,trys to get me jeoulse
should i be friends/love him?

but if i dont talk to him i see his name on my budydlist and i see him in school and dont say anything i wanna cut.what should i do?

Please do not cut. Nothing is ever so bad that you need to cause physical pain to yourself.

As far as fixing this situation you and Ryan need to sit down and have a one on one talk about everything that is going on in your life. Tell him that you need him more than life itself and that you want to be with him for as long as possible.

When you talked to him last night, did you respond to what he said? Or did you just sit there and say ok. Because if you told him that you felt the same then he has no right to be putting "I love Kelly" in his profile.

Overall I think you just need to talk everything over with him. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I have a dance this saturday. My stomach is pretty flat but i have big hips. It looks awkward because i have a small upper body, pretty much flat stomach, hardly any butt, and skinny legs.. so my hips just look weird, especially in my dress. I'd like to lose the fat around them by saturday. What are some quick ways/excercises to do that? Thanks so much!

There are some really simple exercises you can do. Heres one that I always do:

Lay down like you are about to do crunches. Then roll over on your side in that position with your legs still bent but with your knees touching. (If your knees arent touching throughout the entire workout then it will not work.) Then act as if you were doing normal crunches. But not side to side, still up and down.

Let me know if thats sort of confusing. But it works great and should make an improvement. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i have braces and theres a sore spot on my gums but it hurts...my dentist says its bcuz of my braces and to keep brushing it hard so i can get it clean..but it hurts! what can i do to get the redness and swelling down?

-Cierra

They have certain creams and stuff that you use for just that problem. I have braces as well and when I first got them I had cuts and sores all in my mouth. But there are many things you can do to help. Just go to Walmart or Target and look down the orthepidic section for different creams and stuff. You just apply is on the sore spot in your mouth and the swelling goes down a lot. (My bottom lip looked like i got sucker punched and it swelled like a balloon, but creams make it back to the normal size. works like a charm.)

Im order to keep your braces from cutting your mouth again ask your dentist/orthadontist for wax. He will explain everything to do.

Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ok... i just got a new camera phone. it is mtorola and i was wondering....does it cost me for every picture i take?????

Nope. It only costs money if you send the picture to someone. The pictures just take up memory in your phone. But they don't cost anything. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I've been thinking alot about my career that i want to pursue, and I happen to love the french language. I was thinking about some jobs i could have by speaking different languages, but i'm just not sure. Does anybody know of any jobs i could possibly have by doing what i love? Thanks!

Janine

There are many things that you could do. Such as being a translator. Or simple jobs like being a flight attendent, or you could even teach the French language :P Things like that, where you could translate for people. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop?

Just tell them that thats your girlfriend and you will kick the shit out of them if they do it again :) And talk to your gf too...let her know that you dont enjoy seeing that and if there is anything she can do to prevent it then do it. But when talking to the guy dont be like really mean, just be strong and let them know that you hate seeing that crap.

Hope I helped

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i have naturally curly hair, and i want to straiten it. i have a revlon flat iron and it works ok, but it makes my hair look dry, and burned...i use silk therapy, but it still looks dry. do you know any straitner under 50 dollars that will straiten my hair, but not burn it? thank you so much!

I dont know if the one you have now is ceramic, but anything ceramic is great. I use conair. Ive never had a problem with it. If you want your hair more healthy try using that new Pantene Pro-V with Amino Acids. It works fabulously! Hope i helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i need a web site of a place with really really cool dress cay=use im picky so can anyone help?

it cant be shipped so it needs to be a store 2!

Well, I dont know the exact site, but here are some great stores that you could check out and just google them and Im sure you could find their site.

Group USA
Deb
5~7~9

Hope that I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

I have show choir auditions in about a week and I didn't make it last year because I wasn't very excited or emotional when we danced and when I did my solo. Are there any tips to help me become more lively when singing and dancing, without making a complete fool of myself? Also what are some good upbeat songs to sing? Thanks!

Hi there. Im in show choir and I know exactly what you mean. As far as the tryout goes, just smile. The judges really notice when you do no matter what your feet are doing. Just be very confident in what you're doing and you will do great. But of course you have to practice a lot! I asume that they will teach you a song and dance that you have to learn in a day or so. If you don't already, just get together with your friends, or anyone and practice the dance over and over. Thats what I did. It helps a lot because if you dont know a certain move or part of the dance then they can always help you.

As far as picking a song, definately pick a show tune. Perhaps something from Hairspray, Wicked, Thouroghly Moddern Millie, etc etc etc. And just have fun with it. if you just believe in yourself and what you are doing and show your passion for singing, then you will do great. Hope I helped!!! :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

There's a boy I like and we're pretty good friends. He's given me some hints and I want to do the same, to maybe urge him nonchalantely to ask me out. I really don't know how to do this or how to flirt that well. Can anyone help? Maybe you have some things I can do that might hint him on but not be TOO obvious?

Flirting isn't that hard. Just be touchy feelings and smile a lot. Just joke around with him and just find little ways to touch him. Like if he insults you (in a flirty way) just laugh and give him a little push. Or when you see him poke him as a hello. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i am a christian,but i relate much more to the catholic ways. Is it sacriligious to be from a different form of christianity before becoming catholic, and is there a procedure to take before u can be one?

Not at all. You can be any religion you want and anyone who tells you different is wrong. If you relate to the Catholic ways more so than your religion now, then you probably should be a Catholic unless you don't want to be. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

i had a b'f i loved him and he broke up with me because my friend said he was flirting with another girl and i am heartbroken i tald my freind its not her fault but she feels guitly now he told me he was soryy and that he just got mad and never meant to break up with me should i give him another chance??

Yes you should give him another chance. It seems that it was all a misunderstanding and everything should be fine. Don't worry. Hope I helped.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

does anyone know where i can get one of those rings that symbolize that you are saving yourself until you are married- i forget what they are called- jessica simpson used to have one, they are silver bands..thanks!

They're called promise rings. Parents usually give them to their kids. But you can get them at random stores and you usually wear them on left ring finger.

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

ok, this is weird, i know, but i am going out with this guy who i really like and we just started going out like 3 days ago and i only see him in the halls because he's a grade younger than me. should I hug him first or let HIM hug me... or wave to him.. ugh, i just don't want to embarress myself.. please help!
~morgan

You should hug him first. Why wait for him? Since he's younger he's probably nervous about hugging you and what your reaction will be. So just take a stand and give him a hug. Hope I helped :)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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