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alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun? (link)
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Making out is very fun. The first time can be scary. You just have to left it happen. Don't stand there like an idiot, move your mouth with his. After you do it the first couple times, you get used to it and it just comes natural when someone leans in for a kiss..it happens.
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Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I'd talk to your dad. If there's no chance of him wanting to dump this girl, then forget about this guy. I doubt you LOVE him, if you did..I think you'd do anything, weird or not, to be with him. You just have a big time crush on him. Have him talk to his mom as well. Maybe something can be arranged? Talk to your dad quick though, before the relationship between them gets serious.
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. Relationship needs work...he didn't/doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated on him though.... I'm pretty happy with him...but I think I'm starting to like one of my old crushes. I liked her before but I thought she was straight, so I just forgot about her and moved on...went out with my best friend.... We went to different high schools...and I found out that she likes me...for months she has... I hung out with her and I'm starting to get these feelings for her. She makes me happy too. Is this wrong? (link)
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Try to find out why your boyfriend doesn't trust you, there has to be a reason. Does he know you like girls too? This could be a reason to lose trust in someone.
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I have a question concerning a male friend of mine. Well he just had his birthday and me and my two best friends decided to sing a song about him infront of all his friends. He was really touched by the whole thing, and after the song ended he went up to us and gave my two girlfriends a hug, but then when he looked at me he wouldnt give me a hug and he looked really uncomfortable. Well I knew everyone was staring so I gave HIM a hug, otherwise people would have thought something was wrong.
I can't figure out why he had no problem hugging my other friends but wouldnt give me a hug. Then it occured to me that maybe he had feelings for me? Does anyone else have any ideas? (link)
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I'd definetly ask him about it. It sounds to me like he may have some sort of feelings for you. He could have felt upset towards you for some reason. If there's nothing you've done to make him mad/upset, then it sounds like a crush.
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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
hearts (link)
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If you were raped, then I would tell him. Say "We need to talk about a few things. It's not about us, so don't think that. It's about me. I sort of lied to you before. I was raped at the age of 13. I didn't tell you because I was embarressed. I didn't want anyone to know. I'm sorry if this makes you mad. I just couldn't stand the thought of you breaking up with me over rape. It wasn't out of my will at all. I love you and I hope this doesn't ruin our relationship." Wait about 2-4 weeks after telling him this to tell him that you want to have sex with him. He may feel pressured that he has to do better than the guy who raped you. He will need time to think about things. I doubt he breaks up with you over rape though. Good luck.
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me and my bf arent sexually active even tho i want to be cuz i was wiht my last bf. i did it cuz i thought i loved him. i didnt. i know i love my bf now. after such a long relationship i just wanta take it to a new level. i want to be with him in new ways. i wnat to share that wiht him. how do i tho. and... here's where it gets hard. were both grounded for a party we were at and he lives a 1/2 hour away. we r never alone. what can i do. (link)
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If either of you can drive, sneak around. Have him come around when no one's home. Let him know you want to have sex with him. Or you could both meet at a friend's house and do it there.
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What kind of jobs are there for someone under the age of 13? even lke just volenteer jobs?! What could i do to take up some of my time on the weekends? (link)
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Babysitting, definetly.
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What age do purbity starts for a boy. (link)
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Chances are, if you can't spell it you aren't going through it.
buuut, it starts at about age 12.
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I have my period and I need to work from 10-4. This isn't a problem in school because I can put pads in my backpack - no big deal. But at work I don't know what to do. If I put it in my purse that's no good, my purse gets left in an office that's not near the bathroom. any other ideas? thanks! (link)
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Keep it in your back pocket, or if you have a jacket you can keep near you..Put it in that pocket.
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alright yesterday i was at this park with a bunch of my friends and this kid that i started to like started flirting with me and i was freezing so he was like.. come down here we can cuddle and keep each other warm im like alright so i moved down and he put his jacket on me and was rubbing my tummy and stuff and then he started going up my shirt im like alright oh well nothing big really and then they had to leave and so did i so when we were walking up the path thing to get to the road he stopped me turned me around and started kissing me yeah sounds cute and shit i know i thought so too and then im friends with the kid that is living in his house now and was talking to him on the phone and stuff and then he was telling me how the kid was saying he didnt know if he liked me and that if he stuck with this other chick that was at a party we were at early he probably would've gotten more shit from her and then this morning i talked to that kid thats living with him again and he said that the other kid wouldnt wanna hang out with that other girl and stuff and would wanna hang out with me and i was like well .. then why did he say that last night hes like i dont know he was being stupid he doesnt wanna show his feelings or whatever and now i dont know what to believe.. please help .
x3 brooke
sorry soo long (link)
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Believe the kid. Not his friend. His friend wouldn't know his true feelings. Ask this kid you like what he thinks about you. It sounds to me like he could have been using you..and that isn't good.
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Im in a new relationship.Before we started going out we were besttt friends. sO my bf told me he doesnt know about anything right now. Hes very confused. He wants things to work but he has to figure things out. I told him i would stick by him and he can figure out what he needs to. He really is sweet..he caress about me and doesnt want to hurt me. I told him I want it to work also and I am going to stick by him, give it a shot at least. He said things are going too fast..i guess the transistion from friends to more than friends..plus our friends are acting weird about us (i hate when PEOPLE ruin a relationship) He said maybe hes just feeling weird because this is all new to him..hes just so confused. I like him a lot and i dont know what to do to help him get his feelings straight? after he told he all this online, he called me which is a good sign. it shows he really does want it to work right? what are some things i can do to show him our relationship can be great. im aiming for nonphysical things ...activities..games..things to talk about because he wants to take it slow and i have no problem with that. please help me .5's for anyone who tries..thank you so much (link)
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I know this feeling. Talk to him. Tell him you know it can work, it's just too soon to tell. Only time will tell. Breaking up with you could end up being a huge mistake for him. Let him know that. He may end up regretting it and wanting you back when it's too late. Tell him you'll wait for his decision, but you can't wait forever.
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Hey, i have a girlfriend who i will be going out with for about 3 months on Xmas. I was wonderin if any of yall had any romantic ideas? not gift wise, but like something to do? im 17 shes 16. (link)
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I know I would like for my boyfriend to take me to dinner and a movie, and a shopping trip. Start off with the mall, then dinner at a nice restaurant (definetly pay), then to your house for a movie. A romantic movie, like The Notebook or something. Whether you like the movie or not, as long as she does. Buy her a rose, and a gift, and a card. Girls love this.
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Right now im going out with a guy, and he's really great and everything, and I liked him for like a month and we're finally going out,but there's this other guy that I liked even longer and I may even like him more. I think he likes me because he keeps texting me and when i was at the dance, dancing with the other guy he gave me a sad look, and he kept coming up to me to talk. Probably more than my own boyfriend did...both guys that i've liked finally started like me back and i don't know which one to choose..please help..
thanks (link)
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Talk to the other guy, ask him if he likes you. If he says yes, wait about a week or so and break up with your boyfriend. Chances are, the guy has always liked you..He just figured you'd always be there when he's ready for you to be his girlfriend. Now that you're with someone, he wants you. All guys do this. Good luck!
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I'm a girl and im 13 . okk well i've been hooking up with this guy and i kind of like him but im not sure if he likes me and i just wish that everything can be awesome even though i know that life isn't perfect and yeah . so i know that this isnt really a straight up question but what do you think i should do ?
xoxoxo
ps - im sorry if my question is weird or something (link)
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Eh, tough to say.. Try talking to him. Tell him you want more with him, to be in a relationship. Tell him you like him. maybe he feels the same about you.
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I wash my face daily, drink alot of water, and eat the right foods. My problem is, I have a VERY oily face (especially at my nose). The pores on my nose are extremely large and I have blackheads there. I try using products to get rid of it all, nothing seems to work. Any ideas on what I could do? I will rate. (link)
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My face gets oily often too. Use dove soap on a washcloth, wash your face, and dry off on a dry towel. Skip the rinsing step. Only do this every other day though, or your face may become too dry. It may not work right away, give it a couple days. I also use medicine. Go to the doctor and get a prescription mad for you that helps acne.
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Hi- my name is taylor and i'm a 14-year- old girl.. my problem is that i'm VERRY shy and its bringing me down. Yeah i have friends and best friends, but not that many. I'm shy to everyone except my really good friends who i hang out with outside school. But in my classes, i don't have any of my really good friends in them except for like one or 2 classes. I hang out with these people that i really want to become friends with but i don't talk to them, just like hang out with them you know? If they tell me something, i just laugh for a sec or say a simple "i know". I hate this and they probalby think i'm boring. Its like i have a really good opportunity to become their friend, but i just can't beat this shyness. I guess i'm afraid that they won't like me for who i am and not want to hang out with me at all- and that i might be weird or annoying.. I used to have a lot of friends that were sort-of popular but then all of a sudden we weren't friends anymore. Now i hang out with some people that used to be my best friends but i can't seem to talk to them at all! And the other people i hang out with are sort-of popular too.. so my question is, how do i beat my shyness and become outgoing so that i can become friends with these people and anyone else in the future? How can i be fun and have people like me- how can i possibly get over this?-- i'm really not looking for a be your self, cause that won't get me anywhere i swear.. any techniques you have?
thanks so much!!- i'm desperate! i wanna be happy
5's to ppl who answer!! (link)
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First of all, if they find you annoying, boring, etc. then they aren't worth being friends with. Just talk to them. Let loose. Everyone has their shy stages, you have to overcome it. It's kind of like a fear, once you start talking to one friend..You'll open up to all of them. Just try and pretend that the person you're talking to is a really good friend of yours, like a bestfriend. Maybe that'll help you open up to them and talk more. Good luck.
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Well I'm going to try to make this quick and make sense.
--I like this guy named "Ladd"
--&& at church, my friend "Matt" asked "Ladd" if he liked me.
--&& "Ladd" said "Yes, does she like me?"
--&& "Matt" said "YEAH SHE DOES!, ASK HER OUT!"
--&& "Ladd" said okay.
--But then, "Ladd" && my best friend "Ann" went out, but she didn't like him, But that's a different story.
--"Ladd" texted "Ann" and told her about how "Matt" told him I liked him and such.
--She doesn't know I like him...
--So now I'm not sure he knows what to do, because he's probably getting the idea from my best friend that I don't like him because I havn't told her.
--&& one of his best friends left me a message saying "He seems to like you, he talks about you all the time"
--So yes, what do I do...or say?!
"Ladd" is on a church trip with the youth until tonight I think. So then what are some good questions, or topics to talk about, since now we both know we both like eachother?
Thanks so much.
5's for everyone with thoughts.
x0.ME. (link)
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I'd definetly tell Ann that you like Ladd. Tell Ladd you like him too, just come out and say "I just want you to know that I really like you." Maybe that will get him to ask you out.
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okayy theres this guy. cody. well ive liked cody since this summer. well he's more or less kind of dragged me along since august. sayin he likes me and then not doing anything about it. so 2 weeks ago he asked me out .. i was so happy! it wasn't even funny. and then 5 days later he dumped me sayin he liked someone else. me and him talked last night and we straightened it all out. he said he doesnt like the other girl anymore, she has a boyfriend. and he says he wouldn't have dumped me if he knew ..
i know thats probably not the best way for him to do things .. making me a second choice. if she's not available he'd have stayed with me. but anyways .. i want MORE than anything just to be back with him .. but he said he didnt like anyone .. but when we dated, not even 3 weeks ago 'he loved me'. i wanna talk to him about it .. but what if he gets mad, or just gets annoyed. i dont want to bother him .. i just want to be with him .. should i just let it go?? helpp .. (link)
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. I dated this guy for 5 months. We broke up about 4 times in between the 5 months for about a 5 day break. The break never lasted, we obviously liked eachother beyond beliefs to actually end it for good. Tell him you like him and want to be with him. Say "You'll never know if we'll work out or not if you don't give it another chance. You didn't give me a long enough time to prove to you that we could work because you broke up with me too soon." Remind him of how he said he loved you before. Love doesn't go away in a day. It takes time. Talk to him about it, definetly.
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okay so i like guys, ALOT, iv gone out with tons and love everything 'bout em. i could never actually LIKE a girl (that creeps me out) but i like girls bodies, like i like think'n about "doing" things with girls. wats up with that. (link)
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Your hormones could be racing..It happens around 14 or 15 years old. If not, then you could be bisexual. That doesn't necessarily mean you LIKE girls, just you wanna do stuff with them.
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13/f... okay, this girl and i used to be like really close, we would do everything together. Now, i realized why almost half of our grade hates her, shes just not a nice person. She talks about her own friends behind there back and has done some nasty things to me. But i just cant get her away from me. Alot of my friends are still friends with her. I've tried ignoring her, but it just doesnt work! What do i do to get away from her? (link)
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If she has a messenger on the computer, block her screen name. When she tries talking to you in the halls at school, look away or just walk away. When she tries talking to you, ignore her. If she calls you, don't answer the phone.
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