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Hey, my name's Kathleen, you can call me kata or kat. I set up this advice column because I think giving advice is a great way to help out people with their problems, and it's also a way to help myself with struggles as a grow more and more into the real world. So just know that if you have any problems, concerns, questions, or struggles, ask me and i'll be sure to help you out. I'll answer your questions as best and as quick as i possibly can!
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hey , well this guy has told alot of people he liked me but was scared & he was afraid that he got on my nerves too much that thats why he hasnt already asked me 2 be his girl friend what should i do ? plz help if u can thx 4 tryin !
you and him should deff get together.. if he likes you, and you like him.. i really don`t see and problem to be his girlfriend? so i say go for it.. but do it old fashion style.. let him ask you out, that way you won`t seem too desperate either.. lol
good luck
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i only got 4 hours of sleep last night and im really tired...but some how i cant fall asleep. what can i do to make myself fall asleep? thanks
well.. eventually you will fall asleep.. but here are some tips:
1) Don`t go online 40 mins prior to when you`re gunna sleep
2) Relax when your going to sleep, get everything out of your mind first
3) Watch TV before you go to sleep
4) Read a book
5) Drink warm milk
nitey-nite, sleep tight! and good luck:
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I would like to know from you guys; what is a fast sure fire way of making some quick cash. And please no-one say get a job because i am trying i just need money now and fast.. All help appreciated and rewarded.
Thanks
anthony
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well.. if you have a lot of junk you could possibly have a garage sale or something? really selling stuff in general is, i guess.. the best way to make some quick cash.. babysit some neighnoors kids.. start mowing lawns.. it`s easy to find ways to make money!!
hope this helps!
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Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!
THE SEVENTEENTH SUMMER-- my all time favorite book, it`s definately a "you gotta read" book.. i love that book, i just finished it maybe a week or so ago, i like to read a lot too!!
hope this helps!
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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul
i think you should talk 2 someone more experienced, like your mom or something.. this is a serious problem that should be handled professionally.
hope this helps!
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okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it
just tell her that you aren`t ready for sex, or kids, or anything of that sort. tell her that your not comfortable with taking things so fast.. and that you want to just slow down. Your apart of this too, you have to tell her how you feel about it, or else she`ll never know, and she`ll just think your fine with what`s going on. If she loves you, she`ll understand. To slow things down, take her out on a date, movies or out to dinner, somewhere where you guys can just talk or whatever.. but stay away from sex.
hope this helps!
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There are these two boys and they came to live with us they are getting on my nerves hitting my sister yelling in the house and being mean to the animals I need some help any one that answers this question I will give you a five please help me
be serious and strict.. tell them that they should treat the house with respect, and to stop hitting your sister.. if all else fails you have to tell an adult!
hope i helped you out!
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What's the ideal weight for a 16 year old girl that's 5'0"?
i say average weight for a 16 year old girl would be 100-107
hope this helps!
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I put a post up on a penpal website looking for a Japanese penpal to correspond with so I could improve my Japanese and they could improve their English. I specified that I was looking for a Japanese penpal but still recieved two emails from non-Japanese speaking people. I am not interested in corresponding with them but don't know whether to send them an email saying, "Sorry, but I'm looking for Japanese friends only." which seems rather rude or to ignore their email and not reply.
What should I do?
i think that you should, take the time to just talk & e-mail them back. Send one e-mail and just talk about, whatever really. But at the bottom say "i`m really sorry but i didn`t mean to find you as a penpal, i was really looking for a Japaneese speaking person, for a specific reason". I`m sure they should be mad or insulted!? you did tell the truth..
hope this helps!
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Does Chevrolet still make a Camaro?? I was looking under the Chevy website and that car is not listed. please help! Thankyou!
nope..
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I know what 69 is...but I was just curious as to why its called what it is. Anyone have any ideas?
Simultaneous oral sex. Can be practised by M+M, M+F or F+F.
The reference is that the numerals 6 and 9 are inverted versions of each other, reflecting the physical position that the couple must adopt when engaged in this sexual practice.
what's pop a cherry mean?
to take away a girl's virginity. it breaks her intact cherry
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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything
i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.
recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren
OMG.. i`m sooo sorry. it must really really hurt because you loved him. but please, please, please don`t kill yourself over it. ok, i dont think that you should move on just yet. Let things cool off a little. I`m sure that you`ll find someone else, don`t worry, this world is filled with great guys, maybe they all wont be as amazing as Harrison, but i`m sure you`ll have a lot of luck, ok!? if you ever need help with this you can always talk to me, or your friends or anyone really, just please don`t stress out too much, relax & calm down. Just take a couple of days to yourself to think about it and to just reflect, and then maybe the best thing from there is to move on. But don`t entirly forget about him, but don`t obsess over him, you know? Just keep going on with your life..
i wish you the best of luck & love to you!
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i was in my friends pool all day today and after a while, it hurt when i wiped my eyes so i stayed in for like a half hour longer and went home. now my whole face is red and hurts really bad. how can i treat this right now and without having to go to the store because i have no one to drive me there
cool yourself off.. take a cold shower, or use an icy cold wet towel.. if you have any aloe vera, it works great for sunburn`s!
hope this helps!
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*next time don`t forget sunblock! =)
I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks
i say you go with 1, hey a guy with a 6 pack is hott.. lol, juss playin.. well, i mean, a- he`s your age b- even though he may just like you as a friend, you never know what could happen eventually? c- if it seems like he`s flirting with you sometimes.. hey.. again, you neevr really know!? 2.. yeahh he seems a little older than you, maybe you like him but in a sort of "older brother" sorta way you know? I say go with #1.. and if things don`t work out, you have a back-up, #2.. and i`ll have #1! =P lol!
hope i helped!
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how do you temporary highlight your hair without the spray-on temporary highlights or the conair procolor accents watever thing??
well.. i have a few different products that you could possibly check out:
1) Loreal Color Hairpainting Highlight Kits
2) Loreal Color Chunking Blocks Of Highlights
3) Loreal Color Feria Quick Shimmer Highlights
4) Loreal Hair Color Home Highlighting System
Hope this helps!
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[you could always do a websearch on google or something, or ask a salon expert]
i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!!
you have to tell her, sooner or later she`s gunna find out you know. hiding something as serious as a baby from your mom isn`t a joke. yeah, a lot of parents are strict, but you HAVE to tell her. also.. please don`t concider abortion, it`s just totally wrong.. if you tell you mom, you guys can find some way to help this stituation.
hope i helped, good luck!
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what are some quick and easy ways to lose 10 pounds?
it`s simple and pretty self explainitory: just eat good healthy food, lay off the fat and sugar foods.. eat vegetables & fruits.. and get lots of exercise, try something new everyday, one day go out for a bike ride, the next day go running at a track, etc.
hope this helps!
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ok,i went to NH with my friend and missed this party. There was a girl there and i didnt want her to be friends with MY friends. 2 girls -- Jill and Sandy are my friends and i didnt want her to be friends with this girl Tiana. I just dont want them to like her more than me..i know im being a bitch but i dont want Tiana to be friends with Jill and Sandy..Sandy told me she was acting like her bffl...and that made me kinda pissed.. how can i accept that Tiana is going to be friends with them? Tiana used to be my good friend but we split up..and i just want everyone to be friends and i can accept it.
uhmm.. lets see, so you can`t except tiana being friends with your friends, jill and sandy. well, this sound corny but, i think that you should TRY your best to accept her. Even if it seems like your being left out, try doing things with all four of you together. If you were friends with tiana before, then what`s making things so different now? if i were you, i would just learn to forgive & forget.
hope this helps!
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what is masturbating?
Masturbation is the manual excitation of the sexual organs, most often to the point of orgasm. It can refer to excitation either by oneself or by another (see mutual masturbation), but most commonly it is restricted to such activities performed alone. It is part of a larger set of activities known as autoeroticism, which also includes the use of sex toys and non-genital stimulation. There are also masturbation machines used to simulate intercourse.
hope i helped..!?
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