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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that. (link)
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All the stuff your friend seems to be saying seems like she's making it up. If she's had sex I doubt she'd be telling everyone about it. I think she's just seeking attention and blowing everything out of proportion and exaggerating.
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okay i just turned 13 and i fingure myself 3 or 5 times a day it dosnt affect my social life but friends also havnt got their peroids and i have im just wondering like am i weird or different. like i cant come up with the word but i want to know if im to young?
p.s. thank you ans sorry its sorda long..=) (link)
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Well masturbation is natural, and it's a private and personal thing, so unless you tell your friends they really have no reason to fins out. About your period, everyone starts at different times, I started when I was ten, and I know people who haven't even gotten theirs yet. I don't see how those two things can jeopardized your social life. You don't have much too worry about.
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I like this boy soo much and I was planning on asking him to hang out this summer on the last day of school but I chickened out.
I can't say that I know for sure if he likes me too, we don't really talk but we exchange glances and stuff I guess.
I don't know what to do.
I added him on msn and I think he blocked me. Should I take that as a bad sign?
I talk to his sister (her and I are kinda friends) but I don't want to impose on her and make her feel awkward. She knows I like her brother and shes fine with it but thats as far as it goes.
I don't know what to do to get a hold of him.
I'm not friends with his friends, and im not one to randomly call him up.
Should I just let go of him this summer and try and move on? I've liked him since April and its now July. I FEEL SO LOST. Just looking at his picture makes me nervous, I can't even look at it for more than 10 seconds without looking away or breaking into a ridiculous smile.
I know it sounds scary and lame but hellppp. (link)
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If he blocked you, thats definitely not good. Maybe he only glances back because you looked first. I'm glad you aren't using his sister, that's a very mature thing to do. If calling is the only way to get a hold of him, then just do it, you might as well do it and find out whether he's even interested or not, and therefore you can move on and stop wasting your time or make a move.
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Im in love and I thought that was enough but Idk. I wish he would show me that he loves me some times. He does some times and he treats me right but its like he doesnt care. I want to be with him and I dont want to take another break. I feel like im controlling. I guess its my fault... (link)
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Maybe he's shy because he hasn't had much experience. Or maybe he's scared of commitment. Boys are different than girls, they aren't open about their feelings. Tell him how you feel, that might change everything, he might not realize that he acts this way, and don't worry you aren't controlling, you just care about your relationship. Good luck.
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okay , so i went out with this boy named alec for about 4 months, then we broke up and i found out the reason was not because "we never saw eachother" it was because he liked this girl brittany . and they started going out the same day we broke up . and brittany happends to be my bestfriend's boyfriend's sister . yeah weird ... anyways . he told me he was going to the beach tommarow with his "brother , dad & step mom" then i looked on his myspace comments and saw this from his "girlfriend" brittany , it said "tomorrow is gonna be fun ur not tackling me into the water either!!!" hmm.. why would he lie about that to me? does it mean he still has feelings for me ? or what ? (link)
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I'm sorry to tell you this, but he doesn't have feelings for you. He told you that to get you off of his back. He doesn't want you intruding on his new relationship so he just told you that, because it was the easiest way out. He's moved on and so should you. He clearly isn't worth your time anyways. Good luck, I hope you find someone who is honest and has the balls to tell you the truth.
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My boyfriend broke up with me about 7 or 8 months ago. We only went out for a little over a month. He broke up with me for another girl and it took me a while to get over because i still liked him. We managed to stay friends because we chill with the same group of people. Just a few days ago my friend told me how he was talking about how he doesn't even know why he went out with me and it was only because i had a "huge rack" and a "nice butt". And now its really been making me upset and i dont know why, what can i do? (link)
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Boys are like that, they brag. And they say things they don't mean to seem all powerful and high up. Ignore it, don't let it make you feel bad. Just be glad that that stage in your life is over, find someone else, who appreciates you for you, not for the way you look. It probably makes you feel like guys only like you for the way you look, but not all boys are like that.
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What the heck is a widget (link)
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you can also go on urbandictionary.com and look up the word, it will give you multiple definitions, and you can pick the one the best suits what context you saw/heard it in.
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people are always saying that at our age, we can't really be in love, or that we're too young to know what love is. like when a couple starts going out, and they put "i love matt" and "i love alyssa" on their myspace, a lot of people say its stupid. ok maybe its not like "true love", the kind where you marry someone... but if you really, really like someone a lot, isnt that sort of a type of love? and what if youve been with someone for a really long time, even though youre only 13? me and my bf have been together for almost 2 years and i think what we have is a lot more than just "liking each other a lot." we've been through a lot together, and we've had problems, but we've always worked them out. we're like best friends and cant stand to be apart. if thats not love, then what is? and if its not, then how old do you have to be to really be in love? (link)
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Love isn't about age, it is about maturity.
Love is also interpreted in different ways.
You shouldn't let other people judge your relationship, if you feel like it is love, then it probably is, but you also might realize later on in life that it wasn't love.
You really can't tell if it's love until after it's over, later on in life you'll compare it to other relationships and you'll realize whether it was or wasn't love.
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What kind of make up can make you look older, without applying a butt load of it!? I have a job interview today, and I don't want to look like a 6 year old like I usually do haha. Thanks in advance! By the way, if it helps- I'm 16 years old, I have blonde hair, and blue eyes.. I'm almost 5 feet tall, and I'm pretty skinny- I'm just small all around haha, and I'm wearing a dress that's like beige and it has flowers on it that are maroon and dark green.. and the interview is for Carrabbas, an Italian restaurant and bar.. okay thanks again! (link)
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Use natural colors, like a brown-ish eyeliner instead of black and use browns for eyeshadow. Try not to apply too much blush and lipstick.
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i liked this guy since right before school ended and he and i would like look at each other and smile alot, but at the time he had a girlfriend so i didn't bother. then all of a sudden they broke up and he said he was crazy about me one day and we started talking on the phone and hanging out.
well, he didn't call for about three weeks, and i was extremely hurt.
so i called him to hang out in the pool with me & my friend and his, where he was all over me and starting his crap about 'being crazy about me!' again. So he called that night and said he wanted me to be his gf and he liked me SO much.
a few nights ago i called and he said he was at work, but he was really short on the phone and he never called back. then i texted him the next day but he never responded and he hasn't called since. i'm not going to bother trying to call him or w/e because i was the last person to make any attempts to talk, but honestly i can't get over him! and i'm so jealous when i see him talking to other girls on myspace. ughh i can't stop! idk what to do. (link)
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Occupy yourself with other things. We've all gone through this, but don't give in, don't call. And if he truly cares, he'll call you, but if he has time for girl who aren't his girlfriend, he really isn't worth your time. It may hurt and all, but in the long run, you'll feel better that you were strong instead of desperate and needy.
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I need help. I am 16 year old, 5'8 female who weighs in at 365 pounds. That's right. THREE HUNDRED And Sixty-Five Pounds. Now please, this is serious so don't comment about how fat I am and all that other bull because believe me, I know already. So I need to lose weight (obviously) not only because it is extremely unhealthy but also because I let my weight run my life. I am sick of worrying about wether or not my gut is hanging out or if my shirt will cover it. I am sick of worrying about wether or not I will fit into a desk at school. This is not a joke people. READ WHAT I'M WRITING I SOUND LIKE A FREAK!!!! :( I need motivation. I am completely unmotivated. I hate being what I am but that isn't enough to make me want to change. I don't know what to do anymore. It's gotten to the point where I think I look gross all the time. And I do!
I look so disgusting I could vomit. And it's all because I am FAT. Personally I think I have a gorgeous face but you can't see it or who I really am because I'm in this fat suit. :( I've been big all my life but I can't go on like this or I'll be in my 30's and weigh 600 pounds. That isn't even a human being anymore...It's an animal. :( Any thoughts or advice to get me motivated or, anything. Please, I am desperate. (link)
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I was obsessed with my weight for awhile and what motivated me was all the negative things. That's bad for your self esteem, but it got me somewhere. But I suggest you go to your doctor.
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My boyfriend just came back from a month long trip to Europe. During his trip, I know he was with a girl named Kate almost every waking minute.(It was a group trip with kids from around the state) He knows I don't like her much, but I try not to think about it. Well now that he's back, they have pictures together, her on his back, him hugging her and things like this. It makes me nervous, I can tell he loves me. But part of me is terrified of what he might have left in Europe. What should I do? Is this wrong of me? (link)
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Of course, they became friends over the trip considering they spent so much time together it was probably near impossible.
If you guys have a very open relationship, you might just want to be upfront and ask what is up, but you are risking the chance of him getting upset, but also remember that your heart is at stake.
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There are bumps on my vag, usually about 5 or 6 at a time (not all clustered like cellulite). Some of them look like pimples that match my skin color, and there's usually one or two that have the texture and size of a mosquito bite. There's also this one bump that looks kind of like a scar. It's about an eigth of an inch long , is several shades darker than my skin color, and is surrounded by a VERY VERY thin yellow-whitish line. and these bumps sometimes itch.
additional info:
-i am a virgin, so no STIs..
-i masturbate on average four-five times a week, depends on where i am in my cycle
-14/f
what is it, and should i be worried/get help? (link)
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Well, it is indeed possible to get acne/pimples on your vagina, it sounds like some of it might be acne.
If you shave that area, it might be ingrown hairs or irritation.
Lastly, since you said you masturbated, it might be an infection, if you use your fingers, it is possible that your hands weren't clean, and if you use other items, it is possible that those items might have collected bacteria.
It could be an infection, and in that case you probably should get it checked out.
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