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Trust/Europe
My boyfriend just came back from a month long trip to Europe. During his trip, I know he was with a girl named Kate almost every waking minute.(It was a group trip with kids from around the state) He knows I don't like her much, but I try not to think about it. Well now that he's back, they have pictures together, her on his back, him hugging her and things like this. It makes me nervous, I can tell he loves me. But part of me is terrified of what he might have left in Europe. What should I do? Is this wrong of me?
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Of course, they became friends over the trip considering they spent so much time together it was probably near impossible.
If you guys have a very open relationship, you might just want to be upfront and ask what is up, but you are risking the chance of him getting upset, but also remember that your heart is at stake.
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No, it definatly isn't wrong of you to feel this way. It's really hard to see that. I can tell that you haven't freaked out on him too much over it, and I think that's really good of you, because a lot of girls would have and it doesn't solve anything.
If you know that your boyfriend loves you, then don't let it get to you. He's here now, with you, not her. Until he starts to act weird and becomes distant, try to forget about it and move on. It sounds like he's not a bad guy.
Best of Luck.
Sarah
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I don't think you're wrong to feel this way at all. I would be the same way with my boyfriend, even though I fully trust him. It's just hard, isn't it?
But anyway, I'd just confront him about it. Just casually, nothing too dramatic. When you see a picture of them when he's around, just sarcastically say "Oh, I LOVE this picture. That's really something I like seeing." Then see what he does. He SHOULD reply telling you that you have nothing to worry about or something along those lines. If you don't get a satisfactory answer, just tell him how you feel about her. I think he'll understand- most boys aren't THAT dumb. haha.
hope i helped (:
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