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I hurt so much
Okay you dont know how much I hate my life. I moved away from my life to a different state and I live in this hick town and it seems like everyone secretley hates me and a lot of people arent allowed to hang out with me because of things i said ( i get mad easily) and my so called friends told everyone i was cheating on my boyfriend with my best friend ben and christian. ben and christian had both asked me out and i said no because i was with Ian and i love ian so much. but word got around and he believed them so he dumped me and it hurts. and i never have anything to look forward too. My grades are still good. and ian had recently told me he was mooving to colorado and he had moved here during the school year and I cant gt over it the last thing he had said about me was i was a ***** and he hated me. and my last chance to say goodbye left
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Take this time to restart your life. Regrets are yours to forget, or your life is yours to miss. Think about it, he's gone. Yes, it probably hurts more then I could imagine; but boys are just boys.
Spend summer vacation finding yourself. Pickup a hobby, develope a style. Start new activities and get to know new people. Smile to everyone on the streets and compliment when appropriate. Find the good in people and try to make your life a little easier. You can make things better, it just takes a little push from somewhere deep down. Yeah, this probably seems lame and cliche. But moving on is the only way to forget your pain, and become the person you want to be.
I am truly sorry you have to deal with this. As a teenage girl I understand your pain and wanting everything to be better. But the truth is that life just doesn't seem to work that way.
Good luck on starting over.<3
I hope things turn out well.
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Aw. I'm going to tell you the honest truth on this one, I can't fix your problem. But I can tell you that sometimes life seems really hard, but when one door closes another door opens. (corny, i know. but its true) In a year or so things will be back to normal. Try to be nice to people and dont be so paranoid about thinking they hate you. About the whole Ian thing, since he moved to Colorado and you're in love with him, keep in touch, but move on to other guys where you live. I hope this all works out for you and let me know how it goes.
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