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why bother.
i liked this guy since right before school ended and he and i would like look at each other and smile alot, but at the time he had a girlfriend so i didn't bother. then all of a sudden they broke up and he said he was crazy about me one day and we started talking on the phone and hanging out.
well, he didn't call for about three weeks, and i was extremely hurt.
so i called him to hang out in the pool with me & my friend and his, where he was all over me and starting his crap about 'being crazy about me!' again. So he called that night and said he wanted me to be his gf and he liked me SO much.
a few nights ago i called and he said he was at work, but he was really short on the phone and he never called back. then i texted him the next day but he never responded and he hasn't called since. i'm not going to bother trying to call him or w/e because i was the last person to make any attempts to talk, but honestly i can't get over him! and i'm so jealous when i see him talking to other girls on myspace. ughh i can't stop! idk what to do.
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Occupy yourself with other things. We've all gone through this, but don't give in, don't call. And if he truly cares, he'll call you, but if he has time for girl who aren't his girlfriend, he really isn't worth your time. It may hurt and all, but in the long run, you'll feel better that you were strong instead of desperate and needy.
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Well right now all you can do is wait. It sounds like he hasn't made up his mind about what he wants. Even if you were to start dating him, would you really want to be ina relationship where on one day he's in love with you and then you don't hear from him for weeks at a time? I know I wouldn't.
Try not to think about it too much. Go out with your friends and have fun. Meet other guys and flirt around a little bit. If he does start calling you more consistantly, then great! But don't rely on him, because he's obviously not reliable, so if you do , your only going to get hurt.
I'm sure he will come around eventually.
Good Luck!
Sarah
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Dont call. He is playing games. Leave him alone.
Let him call you. And if he doesnt So what! Find another guy. He is probably mad because your not moving as fast as he wants you to, so just forget about it, try to occupate your time with other things so it wont be on your mind.
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