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Aloha, Guys.
I love giving advice so I hope I can help you out in any ways needed. I live in Wisconsin and i love hanging out with my friends. I also love movies and stuff too. I'm a normal teenage girl.

*Currently in CD player: A Boy Named Goo (The Goo-Goo Dolls)*

Okay, well ask away!

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Hey ---I have an aweosme boyfriend that is soo great...I love him to death! And he always kisses my neck and says these things that send chills down my spine.... I wanna return his love by kissing HIS neck...only one problem..HOW I need advice!! How do I kiss his neck and overcome the fear of not doing it right!!-lol_ Thanks!!

When he does it to you, hug him back and kiss his neck. I dunno, just go for it!! LOL. That sounds really weird, but hey...its what ya do! Its hard to explain...you'll just kinda know...its weird. LOL.
*Randy T*

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Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena

Hey Serena!!
I think what Emily is doing is fine. She is prolly just curious, nothing to be worried about. I think it's okay. :)
*Randy T*

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Ok i have this friend, her name is Lindsay. And the other day i was talking to lindsay on line and shes like hey whats up, and then yesterday she called me and shes like wanna hang out and im like sure and i went over to her house and we had fun then i came home cuz she had to go out of town for the day. when were in school she always says hi to me in the hall. does she still want to be friends?? i dont want to lose her as a friend

Well it seems like she does! She's being what a friend is, so you really have nothing to worry about.
*Randy T*

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When i was really little, i was raped by my cousin, someone i thought i could trust. i can no longer trust people anymore, it is very hard for me. What do you think i can do to help me cope with this and how can i explain this to my friends, who always want to know why im such a cold, hard shell of a person?

I'm so sorry to hear this! I'd write things down. Just pour everything out into a private notebook. Write poems, they help. You can also listen to music and read good books. If you really want to, you can tell a really really close friend about how you are feeling. It might help a lot. Good luck and I hope things get better for you.
*Randy T*

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You sound an awful lot like a friend of mine. Caydee?

If you didn't see it on my column, my name is Toni Marie. I live in Oshkosh but my parents live down in Tennesse. So i don't think i'm your friend. Have a good day!!
*Randy T*

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Im havin a couple friends over for Halloween and i want to rent some good scary movies. Does anyone have any ideas other than scream or the exorcist?

Poltergiest movies, nightmare on elm street, The shining, Texas Chainsaw massacre..you get the idea!
*Randy T*

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Okay, i'm freshman and i like this guy who's a junior. he's really nice and seems flawless except for one thing. He's a huge pot-head. You can tell when he's high and he's always making an *ss of himself when he is. Should i forget him or give him a chance? I rate...

He's wasting his own life! I wouldn't even bother with him. If you really want to, you can talk to him. I just wouldn't because he doesn't sound very smart for doing drugs. Do what you wanna do.
*Randy T*

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Hey, I heard that if you were born after 1990, you can't get your temporary lisence until you are 16. Is this true?

Nope, that isn't true.
*Randy T*

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Whats the best type of cleaner to clean
dishes?
wood tables?
tile floors?

Regular soap for dishes, just scrub hard!! Wood? I'd say Pledge and for tile, use this stuff called Fantastik. It's spelled weird, i know!! It works for me!
*Randy T*

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13 - female

I started my period about 9 months ago and I know that it takes about a year or 2 to get into an exact cycle..but how do you know when you're gonna have your period..because I don't wanna have a leak at school or something and not know about it until I get home! Please help!

Some people get cramps or get moody. Just look for signs like that.
*Randy T*

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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop??

If you feel that way, throw a halloween party or just dress up and pass out candy with your friends. I stoped my sophmore year in highschool. I love candy..hee hee
*Randy T*

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k well i am havin thi huge halloween party tomorrow night and i was wonderin if ne one knew ne good costume ideas (like cute &sexy not like disgustin)
thnx and if it help 13/f

Be a devil, a gothic person, a rockstar..Be creative! Things like that are fun. You could also be a cat or a dog or a mouse or something.
*Randy T*

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I am a 17 year old girl. I do not come from a poor family on the contuary i am well off. The thing is that i have a habit of stealing be it from mobile phones which i have now about four,i also steal all of my aunt's clothes and her baby's clothes. The last thing i stole was a video camera from my school.For the previous things i stole they suspected me. Once even the police came to school for i was a suspect for stealing a teacher's cell phone. My parents knows about my problem and the threatens to tell my boyfriend if it continues but really i cannot seem to be able to stop. I sometimes give these stolen stuff to other people and rarely keep them 4 myself.WHAT SHOULD I DO?

You need to get serious help. Why do you steal anyway? Put the things your stole back, and you better tell those people that you did it. If you keep doing this, its gonna get you in a place you DONT wanna be. So get a grip and quit stealing. Why would you steal if you aren't even poor? Good luck and get some help.
*Randy T*

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I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?

The guys shouldn't be doing this. You gotta say, "I'll do what i want so bug off". I cleaned the language up a bit, so you kinda get the pic. These guys are sexually harassing you! Thats a big deal and you are doing the right thing to ask us about it. So feel good about yourself and don't let the assholes get the best of you!
*Randy T*

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ok, yesterday at school my wallet was stolen. then today, some one said they found it in the park and gave it back to me, i looked and all my money is missing, but my photo id is still there. but i am afraid who ever took my money also wrote down my social security number. and now i am afraid of identity theft. what can i do? btw, i'm 17 if that helps any

You should notify your bank or credit card companies right away. They'll watch out for weird things going on with your stuff.
*Randy T*

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i am in 9th grade. which college is best. penn state, michigan state, florida state,california state,or st. vincent? i rate all well.

You should choose your college and not let others choose for you. It's up to you. Those colleges are EXPENSIVE, man! Seriously, you should take time to think about which one YOU want to go to.
*Randy T*

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ok im 18 years old and im a guy. my question is ... when am i gonna start to grow a beard? my beard hasnt come in at all and ive never shaved ever in my life. Its kinda sad really, shouldnt it be in by now? All my friends shave all the time. any ideas?

Puberty comes at diffrent times for everyone. Its ok. I know it's embarressing and stuff, but you're time will come. Just hang in there. It'll come when you least excpect it.
*Randy T*

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is this bad?? OK i was playing basketball today because we had a game and i got pushed down and landed on my hand and got it pulled back and now it wurts to move it i cna but not in one drection!

is this bad?

First off, congrats on winning. LOL! Well I'd say ice it for a while and talk to your parents. See what they say. If they want to take you in to the doctor, let em'. If they don't, just put it in a brace. Good luck!
*Randy T*

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UGH!! everyday before cheerleadin i always put on loads of deorderant on!! and i put perfume on...but my stunt group is always complaining about someone having B.O.! and i think they are all saying its me!! but i dan never smell anything when they say it smells...and i dont get how it could be me cuz i wear sooo much deoderant and sweet pea perfume. UGH!! its getting soo aggravating....does anyone know of any really good deorderant!!??? and fast!!??

Hey, lots of girls can't smell it when they have B.O. It's okay. Just pick up some Suave or Lady Speed Stick. They both work well. It'll be ok. I know it's embarressing! Good luck!
*Randy T*

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Ok Im seriously not a cutter. But i got scratched up by my pet rabbit and i dont want ppl thinking im a cutter at school 2morrow. Im not gonna wear a hoodie all day tomorrow or a long sleeve shirt so what are some good ways to cover it up?

Don't even worry about that! Seriously, if you know you are not a cutter, then don't worry about the other people. I mean really! Can you help it if your rabbit scratches you?
*Randy T*

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