Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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But just because its a song why is everybody always like ay bay bay. Its actually kind of annoying. Just wonderiing. (link)
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Everyone just likes taking sayings from songs.
Just like, "Drop it like it's hott", "I'm bringing sexy back", and "This is why I'm hott."
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I think that it should be required to rate. i know that i've spent time writing and looking things up for people so i can help them and then i dont even get a rating at all. i just started my account so i dont have enough ratings to have the average rating on my column....even though ive answered a lot of questions for people! does anybody else agree that after we give up time to help that the person who gets our advice should take five seconds to give us some credit?? (link)
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I don't think it's that much of a big deal.
I'm personally on this site to GIVE advice and couldn't give a flyingfuck if I had ratings or not.
But you're right, it is nice to have feedback. But at the same time, a lot of people rate here based on wether they like your answer or not. Not wether the advice was good.
I don't know, your suggestion could go both ways.
But I think we should do it for the sake of giving advice, not ratings.
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Why do people always think that if your in a serious relationship then the guy loves the girl more then the girl loves the guy? (link)
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You don't see guys 'falling in love' much. As to the opposite hand, girls think they're in love before they even get into a relationship with the guy they like. I'm not saying guys don't commit to relationships, but a lot don't. Lol. So I guess when a guy admits that he's commited and loves the girl, that it necessarily has to be more than the girl loves the guy.
Honestly, that's the biggest piece of bullshit I've ever heard. The guy or girl you're in a relationship with is always going to claim to love you more, but it's not about who love's who more. It's just about the love you two form together. :) And whoever thinks that should get a new opinion^_^
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I had sex with this guy that i really really like. It was my first time. And I hated it. It hurt so badly. And I was bleeding a whole lot. Why did it hurt? And why was I bleeding? I am 14/f (link)
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Well, you were bleeding because he popped yo cherry. :) Bwuahah.
And it probably hurt a shitload because you're really tight O_O And sticking that up your poonani would hurt like hell. But what can you do.
Don't know why yous having sexx if you dont even know the answers to these questions, but that's perfectly fine =) Your decisions, your life :D
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ok i no this is super random and semi old. but whatever happend to ryan cabrera and ashlee simpson i used to love both of themmm when they were dating and then i like stoped listening to them and i just thought of it. and i was just wondering hahah (link)
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As far as music goes, I don't know what's going on with them.
As far as dating, they both broke up a while ago, lol. Ashlee's been dating Pete Wentz from Fallout Boy, but I have no idea if they're still together. I think they are, but you never know with the sudden-breakups of Hollywood. Lol.
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Ok so there's this kidd in my summer school class and i dont know anyone in that class but he started talking to me and every class he talks to me and one time he sat next to me and said i'm gonna sit next to you cause your my friend he sat next to me when he could have sat anywhere else in the classs near the people he know's but then the teacher made him move to his actual seat and he was like ahhhh man does anyone think he likes me (link)
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It's a possibility that he's interested in you, yes. But don't go making any assumptions yet. You say you don't know anyone in your class, right? Maybe he kinda figured it out and just wanted to be nice and make a friend.=] Really, don't make a big deal out of it, because that's all it sounds like you're doing. Lol, no offense. Just all the, "ahh", repeating of him sitting next to you and yeah.
But there's a definite possibility all the same. If you do like him, play it cool because he's already on the move for you, if it's that obvious at all. :) So just chill out and keep talking to the boy.
=)!
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I was wondering if i really is true that black guys have bigger penises? (link)
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Lmao, um.. I don't know.
But it seems just like another stereotype.
I doubt ALLL of them have huge penises.
Just like not all asians are smart.
But yeah, if not, go find out for yourself ;)
Bwuahhah. Jkk. o_o Dont. Unless you wanna? =)
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ohkay so i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone just a minute ago. and i told him that i missed him already ( i seen him yesturday ) && he told me that i`m sprung & he likes that. what exactly does that mean. and he also said that he was gettin there with me as well. i`m so confused. what`s it mean when he said that he is almost sprung with me too ? and what does sprung mean.
i`m female - 16
he`s male - 19 (link)
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Basically, it means you like the person a lot. =) You smile at his voice, his smell, when someone mentions his name, etc etc. And he's almost there with you too! You can think of it as Cupid 'sprung' you with a love arrow. And as soon as you get 'sprung', that's when you just can't stop thinking about them and he's all thats in your head.
You should listen to "Im Sprung" by T-Pain and put it on over the phone with him, hehaha =)
Itd be cute >_>
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Ok so i love my boyfriend and everything we have been going out for 9 months but its like i want to expiriment with other guys instead...its like im sick of him... i have a guy in mind his cousin... but he has a girlfriend.. but i think he would break up with her for me because he walked in on her cheating on him
what should i do (link)
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If you're bored with him, it's not fair to be in the relationship in the first place! AND the fact that he's talking to other girls in that way, and endangering your safety. Hmm, yeah, break it off. I don't suggest going out with his cousin though >_< Just because it'd complicate things and it'd be weird if your boyfriend ever came up with the cousin. I dunno, do what you wanna do, I can't stop you, but I think you should go to a club and try finding other boys to meet and learn to 'GET TO KNOW' ;) Haha. =)
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alright, so me and my boyfriend have talked about making out, and today we came really close to it, and then it didn't happen.. we talked tonight, and he said that he just doesn't have enough confidence, to make the move.
he said i should.
but i don't know if i should or not.
should i make the move, or let him? (link)
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I say, go for it. It's obvious you're boyfriend isn't going to make a move anytime soon, so just initiate it with a kiss and then start getting yo tongue action on. :) I'm assuming this is ya'lls first time making out and this is why ya'll seem nervous? Main thing: Don't be sloppy and attack his face. Or stick your tongue down his throat. Start off gentle, please. o____o; You don't want him to think you're some kind of monster O_O
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I'm 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I don't really care and I don't obsess over it or anything but if I do ever get one any time in highschool I wouldn't want to do stuff like being fingered or sex or blow jobs and all that...
is that weird? I just don't think i'd feel comfortable doing any of that. I wouldn't have a problem with kissing though..
I'm scared i'll never get a boyfriend just because I don't want to do any of that stuff. (link)
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No way, you're not weird whatsoever. Believe it or not, not ALL guys are after sex. =)! You have to realize that a boy should be willing to wait to do that stuff until YOU'RE 100% ready to it. If not, then you're not with the right boy. It takes two to tango :) And I don't know, when you actually get a boyfriend, your opinions might change. I know a lot of girls who never in their right mind would have wanted to have sex early in HS, but by the time they got a bf, they went all the way to home and tagged the rest of the bases on the way, lol.
I'm not saying that's going to happen to you, but you're just 14. Your opinions won't be the same throughout your whole lifetime. But defently don't ever let any boy pressure you to do that stuff and don't worry, you'll find boytoy when you do ;)
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if you played spin the bottle at a party while your bf/gf was somewhere else and you kissed/made out with someone of the opposite gender in the game, would it be considered cheating on your bf/gf? (link)
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Yes. It doesn't matter if it was a game or not, you kissed another boy/girl and I bet if your boyfriend/girlfriend found kissed someone else, you'd be pissed the F off. Think about being in their shoes.
And yes, it's WAY better to tell them. There would be other people at that party, and word is bound to come up sometime to your bf/gf and finding something like this out from another person hurts 10x worse. Don't expect him/her to not be pissed off either but, at least he/she will appreciate you telling him/her to begin with.
good luckk.
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I hope you all won't see this as a stupid qn.
When we're dirty dancing in a club or when the guy is grinding you, it's possible that he could precum, right? This precum will seep in thru your clothes and could possibly make its way thru ur vagina. I'm sorry if I sounded stupid but isn't that possible? I just wanna double check with u guys and hope to know more bout this. (link)
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No, babe.. Just no.
It's not going to smash it's way through your clothes, climb up your poonani, and make you preg.
No.
Just no.
=)
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i wanted to see this movie but my parents wont allow it. whats in it thats so bad? explain please. (link)
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There are 2 sex scenes in it, but nothing's ever shown!! If you're 13, you should be allowed to watch it no matter what. Overrall, the movie is amazing too :))!
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Latley I've been so obsessed with - and depressed because of - looks. And I finally figured out my reason for feeling so bad. A guy. Pathetic, yes I know. I want this guy to be so proud of me that he wants to walk around the mall with me under his arm so he can show me off and people can envy him. I want to be his main pride. I want him to feel so lucky I'm his. So I've been killing myself dieting and searching for the perfect look. Now I have 2 questions..
1) How do I prevent this from happening EVERYTIME i like someone? I would like to be able to have a crush without hating myself..you know?
2) What makes a guy proud to show you off? Is it all about the nice ass and skinny body? Or is it looong curly beautiful hair that gets other guys attention?
I know he thinks I'm pretty (atleats I think so, otherwise he wouldnt even bother talking to me right?) so its just a matter of making him feel like he's got something others want - ME!!!
How do I do this? (link)
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Babe, what you need is more SELF-CONFIDENCE. Or self-esteem. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror and point out the things that you like about yourself. And don't say there's NOTHING, because there's always something. We're all unique and have flaws, that's what we have to accept. Sure, there are some shallow guys out there who want to show off their "FIIIINE" girlfriend. But those are the bastards you wanna avoid, period. If your guy is into you for YOU.. then he already knows he's lucky to have you, wether he admits it to you or not. You have to overcome being uncomfortable and wanting to find the "perfect look." Because facts say, THERE IS NO PERFECT. There will never BE "perfect." But there is YOUR perfect. Perfection in YOUR eyes. You have to have the courage to look at yourself in the mirror and say, "I am perfect in my eyes."
And when you're with boyfriend or crush, confidence is key. Anyone who's outspoken and isn't afraid to talk, without overdoing it and being a chatterbox of course, can make a person much more attractive. Of course, there's nothing wrong with shy girls as well, lol. Just don't be afraid to be YOURSELF. Around anyone. Not just your crush.
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would it be bad for me to try ecstasy just once to see what it felt like? how about pot? (link)
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I don't recommend ecstasy at all, since I've heard of people dying from their first experience with it. Well, the whole "You can't say anything about it until you've tried it" is true. o_o But every person has different reactions to drugs.. Some become addicted instantly, and some don't even bother trying it again. I'm the one to talk. >_< It's really your decision of what you'd like to try or not. Everything is. But if you don't, you wouldn't become addicted at all, therefore won't become a pothead, period! Hip hip hooray! =)
Up to you though, babe.
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do (most) girls like it when you finger them (link)
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If you're good ;))
Lol jkk.
There's bound to be some girls who do. There's bound to be some girls who don't. Everyone's different, babe!
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Well i'm knew with having a boyfriend. I'm going into 8th grade, and i have my first real boyfriend.
So i was wondering if you knew anything fun we could do together(besides movies, we've done that)
Thanks! (link)
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Awwe, how cute. :)) Sorry. Okie.
-Swimming!!Beach would be romantic if you live near one;) Pool's fine too.
-Park. Small picnic tis cute.
-A restaurant, nothing fancy, just a nice sit-down restaurant for good conversation.
-Music store?Get aquainted with each other's music likes :P
-Rollerblading/IceSkating!
-Amusement parks
-Any kiddie place like ChuckECheese. Hehe, get in touch with each other's inner kid. :)
-Teen clubs? Heh.Get yo groove on ;)
Good luck with your new boytoy babe :)
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its on the radio alot it goes something like
i still hear your voice.....
then its like
everytime we touch... something
i reach the sky
do any oneee knowww (link)
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Everytime We Touch- Cascada.
Wow, I haven't heard that song since last year..
I used to be obsessed with it. Lol
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does anyone know when the new season of degrassi is coming on? thanx!so excited!lol (link)
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TONIGHT!!!!!!
June 29th.
Followed by The Best Years.
BUT OHMYGOD, I'M SUPER EXCITED FOR DEGRASSI!!
:} EEEP.
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