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Okay..I'm so scared about getting my period. I'm in the middle of puberty, and i know it's going to happen soon. With school here, I'm scared I'll get it at school! I already shave my legs, wear a 'training' bra, and have mood swings. Please help! and no..I do not want to ask the nurse for a pad..I'll rate 5's if it's good! PLEASE! I NEED IT NOW!

why dont you just take a pad to school then you wouldnt have to ask the nurse for one DUH!!!!

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Hey I was wondering if Someone could help me get started on some Anime. I like how alot of it looks, and my friend showed me some..please help I rate high with good feedback! Thanx!

anime is really really really kick-ass i think you should go to a bookstore first off and look at mangas and read them find some you like....ex chobits, fruitsbaskets,love hina, naruto, and tons of others or watch cartoon network's adult swim to watch anime

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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?

aight so your friend got up and dint say goodbye maybe he was mad or jealous or just thought something see if you can ever see him again at your chruch and talk to him about it

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I was just wondering where tears came from? Why do our eyes water whn we feel sad or get hurt? Why does our nose start to run and we get choked up? And why do they taste salty? I know this is a random question, but I'm very curious!

maybe your body is messed up and your eyes and your bottom half is mixed up hahahahha

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does anyone know a good breed of dog that is low maintenence and cheap

rottweiler or mutt

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What is some really good emo music? Please name specific songs not just bands. Anything thats calm and good to just chill out to is great. thanks!
~Kelsey

anything by the used, from first to last, emanual, mcr, a thorn for every heart.... etc.

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Im a fifteen-year-old female and I use the finishing touch on my mustache, but it doesnt cut the hair close enough,and it grows back really fast the next day, i dont wanna shave and im allergic to nair and other depilatories. I was wondering..would getting it waxed be almost the same thing? Will it grow back like my mustache does now or will it be all nasty n stuff? And if i do get it waxed does it have to be real long, cuz if it does that will be real nasty! Thanks in advance!!
-DeZ

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

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I want to wear this cute t-shirt to my next informal casual school dance, but do you think it would be weird to wear a "Geeks Are Hot" t-shirt to a dance? By the way, it's a highschool dance and it's for freshmen and softmores only. Oh, and the shirt is pink and it is from wet seal.

those shirts are stupid dont wear it then everyone will think you want to dance with the geeks

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Hmm, okey..
I was just wondering which one of these is best:
WinMx
Bearshare
Kazzaa
Imesh
e.t.c
I've heard some of them give you viruses?
So which one is cheap and doesnt give your computer any viruses?
I appreciate any answers =D
Sorry about the spelling mistakes, just that im in a hurry :P
Have a nice day ;)

get limewire the free version unless you want to pay for the other one

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hey my friends birthday is coming up and she is having a garden party. but i dont know what to wear. nothign to fancy as she has a bouncy caslte coming for her cousins but i know me and my mates will go on it.so i have no idea what to wear or what to do with my hair!any ideas thank you so much! ill rate every answer that i get!

wear black and put your hair in a pony tail or sumn

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My heels on my feet are seriously cracked and dry. Its disgusting. How can I make my feet smooth for summer? Are there any lotions/treatmants you recommend?

soak your feet in toothpaste

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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!?

ive got one thing to say to you nothing can keep 2 people apart if they are connected with love not even age

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The inside corner of my left eye is very red and bloodshot looking. Its itchy and sometimes it hurts. There is this white colored puss that shows up on the corner of my eye and I really don't know what's wrong. I wear contacts and I change them regularly. I don't know what the problem could be. Does anyone know what is wrong with my eye? It's not pink eye because I've had that before and I know what it's like.

stop doing drugs you fucking stoner

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My best friend was/is a guy. We'll call him Bob. Well Bob just got a girlfriend and they had been extremely tight before they went out. Now all of a sudden, Bob's barely talking to me or hanging out with me anymore. I miss hangingout with him. If I confronted him he'd probably listen but not do anything because he'd forget. Please help I really miss him :(

you say was/is a guy does that mean that its a possibility he is a girl?

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first of all, i apologize for the misspelling of 'skating', and the general idiotic appearance of the title. but it worked, didn't it? you came in here to correct me! :P

i am a 16 year-old rookie skater (female) who can't ollie yet.

i was at the skateboard-city.com forums, and this guy posts a rather mean post about how most of the girls that skate are posers, who skate to try to get with 'skater boys', or to get the whole 'skater punk rock' look.

whe someone calls you a poser, the first reaction is to deny it. so of course all of the female skaters on that site protested, but it made ME wonder...

am i a poser? i wish i could say no, but i honestly don't know. there are various reasons why i started to skate (about six mo. ago).

i can definitely say that i didn't start skateboarding because i thought the 'skater style' was hot or anything. i am a "girly-girl" however, i'm not so sure about the skater boy factor. what if i unconsciously DID start to skate because i wanted to meet skater boys? i know it's definitely true that i wanted to make some friends (regardless of gender) through skateboarding.

also the fact that skateboarding - just skateboarding around your town and on the streets itself looked "cool" was a part of the reason why i started. but is this necessarily bad? don't guys get inspired, after seeing a skating video, to do better because of how 'cool' it looks?

and, is it possible to start off as a poser (start skating to look cool or meet guys or whatever) but to change along the way?

sorry about the length. however, i'd really appreciate it if someone (hopefully a skater themselves) replied. thanks in advance. i rate.

everyone is posers in the beginning if there were no posers then there wouldnt be what there is today if you think about it certain things like skateboarding when you first start out everyone is a poser your not a poser if you are then everyone is

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how do i keep my vagina clean?...not smelly

you discust me start washing it more instead of once a week

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ok so my volleyball has invited the team over for a sleepover for a celebration. Im not sure if i wanna go or not. I mean the grls are really nice and we all get along and i wouldnt mind going, but the thing is i dont really know the coach well enough where i would feel comfterble with sleeping over there. But i want to. So sould i just go over there but not sleep over or what?
plz help!
i rate high.

no your coach is really a lesbian and she has balls so i wouldnt trust it

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