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Q: A freand of mine is pregnant she wants to abort where can she get an abortion clinic or hospitals in south Africa

I found an address that can probably help you CORLLET DRIVE
BRAMLEY / MELROSE ARCH 2000, South Africa
072 516 6732 got this address thanks to google maps

Q: i have a spyware called Street Ads Browser Enhancer in my programs. i have tried to uninstall it but it starts to uninstall and then says Au-exe has encountered a problem and needs to close. it wont uninstall the program. can anyone help??

I've had s many infections on my computer even though I have a virus remover program. Should I just get a laptop already?

This has happened to me before, what i did was download a software called Spybot and it killed all my infections and other things as well.

Q: my bf want s sex i'm12 year old girl and he's 16 i'm not ready he would touch me and kiss my kneck. I would say stop but would say babe relax. i say stop he says ok but he always bugs me about sex and once he tried to take off my shirt. i love him but not sexually. what should i do?

You should break up with this guy, even if you think you love him. He is 4 years older than you, which means he's more experienced then you, I bet if you give in to having sex which your to young for, he will probably break up with you that's what happened to a girl I know. If he's always trying to have sex, then that means that he only wants something physical, he probably doesn't want you for you. Please take this advice :)

Q: Ok I'm 13/f,and I have a bff who's like my sister.Her name is Mercedes.But when we went back to school August 8,we got put into different classrooms.So the school's slut was in my classroom,and we're now bff's.But my friend Mercedes says that's a bad thing.So she get's angry because I'm hanging with the school slut all day everyday.My mom also doesn't approve of that.But they don't really know anything about the school's slut.She's not like people think she is.My mom said that I'm gonna end up acting like her,but I don't think I will,because I was bff's with her before,and didn't act like her.SO,if all of this is happening,should I end me and Shay's (school slut) friendship?Or what should I do?

You shouldn't care what other people think about your friendship even if it's your mother. And since you say that you know that your not going to act like her then there are not going to be any problems. And it doesn't matter if your friend is a slut, as long as she's a true friend then you have no reason not to be friends with her. :)

Q: Hi, my friend and I want to start a babysitting business and we need some tips on how to convince our parents that we're old enough to become babysitters. We also could use some ideas for a name, price(we are planing on becoming certified babysitters).

Help would be greatly appreciated.
I am 12 and my friend is 11.

Something that you can do is start to baby-sit your younger cousins, or other family members. Another thing you can do is try to prove that your a young adult by making a power point presentation, or having a sit down conversation with your parents. You should make your prices for how much an hour, and a good name is Booming Babysittin. :) But my suggestion is that you should wait until your 13 or of age.

Q: I'm 12 years old and I have to have my blood test today to test if I'm ill. Do they hurt at all? How much will they take? How long does it last?

Help please!

I took my blood test not to long ago, you feel it go in, but as soon as it's in you feel no pain at all! :) And it takes about 25 seconds or more.

Q: well I'm in college now I'm almost 22 and my teacher is 28.he is really shy and very gentle.well he used to be my teacher for 2 semesters.now im still at the university studying but I won't be seeing him anymore cause I don't have any classes with him.I only have 1 semester left to finish college.This guy never gives his phone number to his students but after the semester ended I wrote him a message and told him that i have bought him a gift as a thank you.he gave me his phone number and when i called him he invited me to his own office (he works at a company)so i met him there.we talked I know that he was a little stressed out because the books fell down of his hands.but when i was leaving he said that give me a call sometime.that's it.I was thinking maybe i could tell him that i like him.I don't know how he would respond.i really need help i wanna know if I should tell about my feelings or not!help me please!!

There is nothing holding you back, your almost done with school, your in college and with these signs he might have a thing for you. So go for it!!! :)

Q: Can anyone give me advice on my hair coz I was wondering if I can go swimming tomorrow in the local swimming pool. But ive bleached my hair blonde yesterday night. I what to know if it will turn green or if anything will happen?? please help me!!

Yes your hair will turn green.

Q: After a year of not so promiscuous promiscuity I was told that I had. and treated for, Chlamydia in April. I'm all clear and dandy now, but I've been panicking because I have to get my yearly blood test soon and I'm scared I might have HIV. I have been with the same partner for 8 months and he was a virgin before me and he assures me that if I have HIV - which means he also has it - we will be there for each other. This doesn't help. I panic at the thought of even getting tested because I'm scared to find out the results. What should I do?

The First thing you should do is relax, because when you do you feel more in tune with your body. Even though your scared of seeing the results, it's 50/50 you might not have HIV but you might have something worse then that, you never know. So I think the best thing to do is to get the test as fast as you can because then you won't have to be thinking about it 24/7. And your partner will be there for you.

Q: My dad always complains about food going too quickly. I'm slightly overweight, and I'm super self concious. I don't like eating in front of people or people knowing that I ate because I feel like they're judging me. I told my dad and he said that he doesn't mean anything by saying I eat too much, and that parents always complain, but it still bothers me when he says it. How can I get over it and make myself not care when he says that ?

When he's speaking leave the room, or if you can't, try to distract yourself like go on your cell phone or your computer.

Q: prep list i cant afford a lot i have three other siblings that live with me and my parents don't have much money so hope you can give me good advice thanks in advance

A good idea instead of going to stores that are cheaper, you can always design and make your own clothes. For example take a sewing class, and buy a sewing machine, some fabric and you can stand out, make your own style, but if you don't like that idea. Some stores are alloy, bodycentral, H&M, Forever 21 (always have great sales), and sometimes Urban Outfitters. Hope this Helped :)

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My name is Eunice and I made this advice column to help others with the issues, problems, etc. No matter what your problem is, I'm pretty sure I can answer it. This Advice Column is not about Me it's About how I can help you. :) :)