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13/F
I got a couple of questions about this kinda stuff, do you guys mind answering them?
1. Does you hymen break if you use tampons, just like having sex?
2. What would you recomend ; tampons or pads?
3. I've been getting discharge (not too heavy) nearly every day since 5th April, and i'm kinda worried; anything i can do/is it alright?
4. Is there any signs if i'm gonna start soon, cos i'm kinda worried about it?
Thanks lol :D
BTW should this question be in sex or somethin else lol ? thnx xx (link)
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1) Um... not usually. It shouldn't
2) At first, I recommend wearing pads, then working your way up to tampons
3) Yeah, it's totally fine! If it becomes really bad you can usually wear a pad and it not as wet!
4) Yeah, you should be getting headaches, cramps, your boobs may groww larger!, it depends!
(BTW- its fine..i put all my questions about sex, or periods, or anything like that in here!
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is it normal to get a zit on your vagina??
cause like i had this spot yesterday and i squeezed it and it kinda popped and bloodish greenish stuff came out. and the bump went down. But now it is like a small bump and red. i havent had sex before. but it is on the top like next to my left leg. (link)
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OK, well, I get zits on my vagina, too!
So your not alone!
Now about the bloodish- greenish stuff coming out, I have poppped one of mine too...and the exact thing happened! SO, it should be fine!
Hope I helped!
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19/female..
i had sex this weekend for the first time.. im 19 years old so please dont tell me that if i dont know, im too young. im not too young. but i dont even know if i orgasmed. he asked if i did but i dont know. i still wanted to do it after i thought i was done.. but i dont even know? when i thought i did, i felt like i was peeing.? please helpppp ? (link)
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Well, you could have. BUT the feeling like you were peeing could just be your vagina juices.
If you organism you feel tired..but happy in a good way that you want to organism more!
hope i helped
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I am 13 if that helps any and I never wear tank tops well only to layer under my t-shirts. And I kinda want to try wearing them like with layering them with t-shirts. I am kinda average on the weight scale. But I'm kind of afraid of what people think. I know that is wrong to think but its hard not to. And I'm shy and unpopular. I know I shouldn't care what people think of me but its really hard. So please help me gain some confidence and let me know if you think it would be ok for me to wear them. Thanks so much! (link)
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Don't worry girlfriend, I used to have the same problem. I wear them all the time..and I am kinda overweight for my age. But I got a bunch of complements! Your pretty in your in your own way, and your unique.one of a kind. even though i dont know what you look like..I think that you would like good in them!
(ps.- dont worry, your not the only one who cares what people think about you...so do i!)
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ok i babysit this little girl shes 3 and when its close for her to go to bed she starts crying because she misses her mom what do i do. (link)
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OK, what you should do is say "mommy will be home in a few minutes!" and maybe read her a story..to make her go to sleep!
good luck
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alright. so i babysit this two year old. the second his mom left he started screaming and it took me like 20394823 minutes to get him to stop crying. it was terrible. the only thing that makes him stop crying is when he watches the movie 'cars' and i couldnt get the tv to work. hes only two and he cant really talk yet (late developer i guess?) but anyways what else could i do to make him stop crying? ive tried distracting him with toys and stuff.
thanks =) (link)
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This is EXACTLY what happened to me!
All I said was "mommy will be home in a few minutes, ok, sweetie" then he still was sniffling. so i took him down stiars and his bro and sis nose how to make him laugh and they did that tehn we watched a movie. so just try to make him laugh!
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Well, the other day I was talking to my boyfriend and he asked me "how far I wanted to go". To be honost, I really don't know. I had planned to stay abstinent until marriage, but I know that as I get older, I might lose my current, or future, boyfriend if I don't want to do very much sexually. I mean, I don't know. I'm only 14 so I think i'm to young to be "sexually active", but it seems as if everyone's doing something like that.... I just don't know what to do...are guys going to pressure me to do this stuff when I get into highschool? I guess i'm just afraid of being the last person considered "prude". Thanks, any advice welcome. (link)
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Well, at least you know that your a little young for sexually activity!
Good for you. Now...if your like me and have morals your doing the right thing to stay pure until marriage. If he was a good boyfriend he would understand.
And I hate to say it..but yeah they will pressure you to do that kinda stuff especcially when you get in high--school!
Just stay strong!
Hope I helpled
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hi this questions is for the girls, i would just like to know how old you were when you first gave oral sex (link)
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I was 14 also.
But like the other person said... Do it when you want to, when you feel ready!
Hope I helped
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f/15
does it really hurt for a girl for the first time cause if it hurt so bad then why do people do it again>>> (link)
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It depends.
For some people it does...for some people it dont.
Usually it hurts first
And why do people do it again..? Because there addicted to it!
Hope I helped
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Hey, I asked a question yesterday, and like, it was about if I had a u.t.i. but, now I'm not sure if that's what it is. On like, the opening [still the outside] of my vagina, one side is bigger than the other, and it really hurts, and it still hurts to pee. And I have small lump things randomly down there. Does anyone know what it could be? I had sex april 11, and he had a condom and stuff, but could that cause it? Please help. I'm really worried. I'm probably going to go to the doctors next week, but I'd like to know sooner what it could possibly be. I'm really scared. (link)
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Yeah, it sounds like a STD.
Go to the doctor as soon as possible!
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Not exactly advise, just a question (:
How do you know when your hymen breaks? I know it sounds silly, but I just don't know ! Is it something painful or just nothing at all?
Thanks so much all (: (link)
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Well, all that happens is that you usually start bleeding.
And it shouldn't hurt! =]]
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ok. so my one friend is convinced that the world is going to end in 2012. i am one of those people who hears something and wants to be logical but i can't help but believe it. i also worry alot. can someone help set me straight because this whole thing is really starting to scare me. please respond!! (link)
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Don't worry.
I have heard that the world was gonna end in 2007, then sometime in 2006. No one really knows when the world will end.
And ask your friend nicely to prove it to you or something like that.
*DramaQueen63*
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I was putting in alot of music into my ipod last night. I left it in for a REALLY long time. i ejected it out of my computer and turned it off. 10 minutes later I tried to turn it back on butit didn't turn on.
Did i over charge it?? Is the battery too full or something?
if anyone out there knows, I would REALLY apprectiate an answer.
Thanx. (link)
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This happened to me before.
It might seem painful but you have to leave it alone for a day or 2.
Then try... If it still dont work then you probably have a defective one...
so you could trade it in for a new one.
And it cant over charge
Another suggestion... is maybe theres too many songs on it....
Well, hope I helped...
DramaQueen63 ♥
(ps- keep me updated!)
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I dont know what it is but when I wake up or go to the bathroom my underwear is wet. I check and its not blood(from periord) or pee. Its kinda whitish clear. And sometime when I go to the bathroom there is the string hanging down thats clear. I dont know what it is and its freaking me out! Girls, can you please help me? (link)
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Don't worry!
It's just discharge. Every girl get its it!
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13 f
well i wanna babysite kids cause i like doing that so what age do you think i can babysite at?i already have experience with my neice and nephew (link)
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I think your a perfect age!
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okay so when i typed in yeast infection symptoms on google i got this site that said this::
Since not everyone gets the discharge, the easiest way for a woman to tell that she has a yeast infection is that she itches in and around her vagina. A lot. The itchiness may be accompanied by a burning sensation, and her vulvar area can be red and swollen. It may also burn or be generally painful for her to urinate, and sex may become painful as well. A good way to distinguish the burning on urination that is due to a yeast infection vs. a urinary tract infection is to pay close attention to exactly when the burning starts and stops. With yeast, the burning is due to acidic urine hitting the irritated skin of the vulva, so the burning starts when the urine reaches the outside. With urinary tract infection, the burning is felt as the urine passes down the tube on its way out.
While these are the general symptoms of a yeast infection, every woman may experience one differently. She may identify an infection by the smell and consistency of the discharge, which can be unique to her. However, certain symptoms definitely do not go along with a simple yeast infection, and they may indicate that something more serious is going on. For example, if she is feverish or is experiencing pelvic pain, these are definitely indications that she ought to see her doctor in order to receive a proper diagnosis and medical care.
*** kay, so people say that i have one, like on here after i asked about my itchey vagina. but i don't have like any of the symptoms...i have discharge but like i've always had it whats going on? (link)
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Well, this happens to me too. It's normal. Because if you don't have any symptoms, then you can't have one. And every girl gets a discharge!!
hope I helped!
*DramaQueen63*
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15/f
so i have this guy friend who was saying stuff about my best friend. he really has no reason to hate my friend because honestly she didn't do anything to him, he just started saying stuff to her. i got into a fight with my guy friend last week and now we're not really on speaking terms and it was all started with him saying stuff about my best friend again.
i really don't understand his reasoning for being like that to her, he's really stubborn.
i mean i want to be friends with him again but i don't know what i should say to him. he knows now that he probably should keep his oppinions about my other friend to himself. i hate fighting with people, what should i say to him? (link)
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I think that you should just tell him that you want to be friends but if he won't stop saying stuff about your friend then you can't be friends with him. If he was a good friend he would understand!!
Hope I helped
*DramaQueen63*
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is it true that if you masterbate using the bath tub focet its bad for you? (link)
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its fine
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Is there anything I can do which can tighten my vagina? x (link)
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Right when your in the middle of peeing... stop. i have done this before and it really works!
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if you have sex with your underwear on, is it still counted as sex? or does it really just count on what you think is sex or not? (link)
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I wouldn't consider it sex, unless his penis went into ur vagina.
its called dry sex.
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