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Where can i get a weight table for a 13 year old???

I also know this question is asked a lot, but how can I work on my thighs, abs, and arms??

Thanks, I rate 5's! (if your answer is reasonable) (link)
Ask your mom if she thinks it is okay fro you to try them.. if she says yes, try taking fewer then the bottle says.. to se what your reaction to them is.. then if she says no

Try excercising.. I wouldn't recomend a diet though because those can be harmgul to growth..

on your thigh exercise, try bicyicle kicks.. where your on your back head of the ground feet off the gorund in a 90 degree angle and act liek riding a bike that should help abs as well

try pedlers for abs though .. lay on your back hands under yur but feet 6 in off the ground and straigth.. and kick then up and down about 6 inches..!

arms.. just get a big circular weight and put it near your collarbone and push upwards this is called a military press!

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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair? (link)
a dachsund.. I think that's how you spell it


i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
Well.. it's hard to say.. but I always look at girls! more at guys.. but when I look at girls I don't think of them as HOTT but more as of gorgeous.. like not in a lesbian wayy! I think you are probly getting confused with how you feel about girls..

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Dani3ll3


My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out

Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude


It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.

So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
Hey!! No need to change your personality!! If you start wearing make upv or go to a M.A.C. store and get a make over.. they can surely help you there!! But beyond the most don't change your personality! then once you et a make over, you wil have the personality and the looks!!!!!!! you will blow your friends out of the water!!!

hope I helped!
Dani3ll3


In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working? (link)
Well.. I think it's clear that you are about to start your period! I gaine dabout the same ammount of wait also!


I'm sorry this is gonna be long but I really need the help with a few questions.

- I want to break up with my boyfriend. I was kinda desperate when I said I would go out with him. Tuesday will be a month and a week we've been together. And I know he really loves me. He's even snuck out of his house to be with me. I still wanna be his friend. But I'm afraid that if I dump him he won't wanna be my friend. And there are a few reasons that I want to dump him. Any ideas here?

- The guy that I like, really really likes me. He asked me out a while ago and I didn't like him then so I just said I dunno, and then I got a boyfriend. But now I really like him and my one friend was talking to him and they started talking about me. She asked him if he would ask me out if me and my current boyfriend broke up and he said he would. Then he said that I would never say yes, so he probably wouldn't. And I really wanna go out with him. And I'm dumping my boyfriend (hense the question up there ^) lol. What should I do???


- Please help me!!!! (link)
Well although you love this guy... after you break up w. your bf wait about a week so that it won't seem ovious to your current bf that you broek up with him just for that other guy.....


It also depends if your bf and this guy are good friends..

If they are.. don't go out with either

If they aren't.. use the info that I said at first

Hope I helped! :)

Dani3ll3


I'm on a diet right now, and obviously, Easter is coming up. I have younger siblings who still get candy from the "Easter Bunny" and they're probably not going to buy "The Easter Bunny didn't bring your sister anything because she's on a diet." What can I have my mom give me so that I can have fun on Easter and still stick to my diet? (link)
Peeps have 0 fat! I know your prob like.. are you sure? they taste like they are really fattening.. but they aren't!!


I am 13 and I play sports all the time get up at 6 in the morning to exersise and eat healthy and I still have a bulging gut! What can I do? (link)
I can't say I have a bulging gut becasue I don't, but I can say that if people are making fun of you.. they are making you the center of there lives.. so mayeb they have some problesm of there own that they are insecure abotu and don't want any1 to know about... so they focus the spotlight on you

Hope I helped

Dani3ll3


hey so im going out with a really hot guy who is really nice and loves me a lot. he calls me like 50 timeseveryday, and i can trust him with anything. one problem... hes not the guy i truely like. usually, i would break up with him in hopes of going out with the other guy, but this time is different. you see, the guy i really truely like isnt that cute and hes never had a girlfriend before. me and him are really good friends, have most of our classes together, and play soccer at the same club. i know he probably wouldnt go out with me until highschool (im in 7th grade) but i feel guilty going out withy a guy i dont really like. what should i do? (link)
Ask your boyfriend how he feels about the situation... now I know he is not going to like the idea about you likeing some1 else.. and then that is the time when you need to break it off... evan if teh guy you like doesn't like you.. make yourself available for him
During this, you might evan find yourself in love with your bf again.. and you might evan find out how these 2 guys act in a situation like this..

hope I helped!

Dani3ll3


I'm 13, female, about 5'4" and about 140 lbs. I've tried dieting, since i'm too young i can't use diet pills, and i've run out of solutions. I can't even get dressed without crying because i can't stand the way i look. i have absolutely no idea what to do. any suggestions are greatly appreciated. thank you guys so much (link)
DOn't cry about your weight!!! that should not be one of your priorities! I know that is easy for me to say becasue I am not over weight.. people aren't perfect.. and every1 has there problems.. while you may be over wight.. the prettiest girl in school could have aner problems with her parents.. or maybe the most popular guy in school has a small winkie.. LoL don't stress over this! if your over weight make the most out of life, my mom is over weight and she is the happiest woman I have ever seen. She always makes and effort to make people happy, and she doesn't let her phisical problems hold her down..
in other words if your personality is spectacular, the outside won't matter anymore.

Hope I helped!

Dani3ll3


So im talking to this person from another country.. I ask him what his country thinks about 9/11. The attack we had. So He said i dont want to tell you im really sorry for that but i should better not tell u prob u must have already understood but still wont teel u. What is it that they possibly think? They think what we are doing is wrong? (link)
Well, it all depends on what country he is from! For instance, if it is France, he probly doesn't really feel to strongly about it. This is just an example.


hi, i'm a 19/f and i'm in a little bit of a predicament. i've been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now which is great, but i think that as time passes us by, we're slowly getting into a rut.

like you know when you first date someone you get butterflies and those mushy feelings when you're around them? i know those feelings are temporary, but i feel as if our relationship resembles more of a friendship rather than an intimate bond.

what i'd like advice on is if there is anything i can do to put the spark back into our relationship? (link)
It's just young love growing old.. it should get betterr..


i cannot stand my life anymore. i am 13 and NEVER had a boyfriend. my friend is 12 and has had 7 boyfriends and hooked up with 2. i feel like if i stay so lonely then i will seriously die of a broken heart. i watch my friend hook up with her boyfriend and wonder why wont anyone do that to me? why? im pretty, im sweet, im nice, im flirty. why the fuck am i single and prude? i tried to get my so called 'friend' to find me a boyfriend. she told me 'find your own goddamn boyfriend' i cant stand this. she wants a guy, she gets him, why cant she help a poor innocent girl who will die of loneliness find a boyfriend to love and who loves her? please help what can i do to get a boyfriend and not be so lonely and depressed? thanks sooooo much (link)
Hun, your 13.. you shouldn't be interested in guys right now.. keep your priorities straigth and work on school.. in time the rigth guy will come.. Don't hurt yourself over thiss! trust me.. the same thing happened to mee.. and as for your 12 year old friend.. she isn't really a friend if she didn't wanta help you!!! and you say she ahs hooked up w. 2 guys? well call her a slut or a whore or a bitch or all 3 and then drop her ass!!




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