Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
Gender: Female
Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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I asked a question about this before. I was the one who was being indeed very selfish about my geeky friend who was embaressing me like hell!!! She was being very clingy and I was starting to feel embaressed about her because of her being geeky and annoying!
Well, she sat with me at lunch today. I followed someone's advice on trying to get some space because I realized I needed it!! But, how can I get space without making her upset. She's completely oblivious to me being annoyed with her!! I don't want to go out of the blue saying "You're annoying be so give me some space" She'll ask why! And then i'll have to tell her the truth! She's so annoying at lunch. I sit with cool people and she's totally butting in to all our coversations going "What?" "Who did?" ITS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!! I've been avoiding her and I know its not right! I need further inforimation!! (link)
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The truth hurts. However, I do think you should tell her the truth. It's only fair. The best time to talk to her about this would be when you two were alone tho. It would be completely rude if you just started telling her she was annoying and too "clingy" in front of everyone. You could try to introduce her to some new friends and get her to talk to new people. I do understand how you feel tho, b/c last year I had guys who were kinda like that with me. They never got the hint when I rolled my eyes after EVERYTHING they sed. So this year, I just stopped doing that and started talking to them. I still get annoyed with them, but not as much. Just remember to say things as nicely as you can when you are telling her how you feel.
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ME: ya.. but heyy ill make this easy.. if you wanna stop being friends with me now... (cause im such a bitch and i ignore people all the time in the hallway etc.) just dont say anything.... its better than seeing the actuall words...
HIM: i still wanna be....its hard when u get mad and aggravated tho
ME: thats why i want to give you a choice.. i will understand if you dont want to be friends..
he then signs off
what do you think that mean? does he not want to be friends anymore?? help please.. be honest!! pleaseee HELP ME! (link)
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It could mean that he just didn't feel like talking to you anymore that nite. It could have also meant that he didn't know how to tell you that he doesn't want to be your friend anymore. Or he might have just got kicked offline and didn't feel like signing back on! Don't get too worked up over it until you are able to talk to him again. You could try calling him and talking to him over the phone, which in my opinion is better than talking online when you are in a situation like this. But if he does tell you that he doesn't wanna talk to you anymore..don't keep bothering him, b/c that would probably just annoy him and then he could end up liking you a whole lot less than he MIGHT now. If he doesn't like the way you act, and you can understand why..maybe you could try not getting so mad all the time. I am the same way, I get so mad over EVERYTHING anymore. Everything annoys the hell out of me, and I can't stand anyone half the time. I hate the way I am, but I am trying to change. If you need anything else..just ask! Good luck!
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Hi, My name is Tabitha and I seached sites to try and find something to help me when I am in deep thoughts and don't know what to do. I am 18 years old and i am a female and yes indeed I do need advice. I fell in love with a guy over a year ago and he waited on me and we got back together but I done something with another guy because me and him were dating. Well I fel close to the guy but I just don't know what would be the right thing to do. The guy I fell in love with, I have not done anything with and I can not tell him what I done with the other guy. My question is Who should I go with? I don't want to involve someone new because that will make things worse. Can someone plese help me?
Thanks
Tabitha
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First of all you need to figure out which guy you like more. It might sound stupid to you, but make a list of the pros and cons about each guy. That might help you decide which guy is better for you. If you were really in love with the first guy, then there should be no question or doubt in your mind rite now as to who you would rather be with. So my guess is, that you weren't really in love with him. I don't really know what to tell you but I wanted to try and help you out b/c nobody else has yet..just ask yourself some questions. Who do you trust more? Who do you know better? Who would you rather be with for a long time? Who do you have more in common with? Figure out what matters most to you, and see which one of those guys could give you what you need.
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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F. (link)
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At your age you shouldn't be this stressed out about life. You are very young, and there is no reason for you to feel like you want to die. You have plenty of time to get help before things get too serious. I'm sure that there are counselors available in your area, who would be willing to talk to you, and help you solve your problems! You just need to relax, and find something to take your mind off the things that bother you. I saw that you were talking about God in your question..Are you aware that if you commit suicide you don't go to heaven? It's good that you aren't afraid of death, but you definitely shouldn't be asking for it! You have a whole life to live. Things will get better, trust me. Time fixes everything. You just have to try to deal with everything the best way possible. It might not always be easy to be happy, and that's okay. Being unhappy is part of life, but trust me..it won't last forever. If you aren't able to get counselling, find someone that you can talk to when you have a problem. Maybe a close friend, of family member. However, if you can't find someone that you know to talk to, you could always talk to me online. I know it might sound stupid, but I would love to try and help you out if you have a problem. My AIM s/n is BrittanyMichx39. Good luck!
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Hello...this is a question for guys to answer but girls are welcome to answer the other question i ask.
okie dokie...
GUYS: do you think it makes us, girls, feel good about our selfs when you call hott to an extended degree?...(example: yesterday this guy YELLED from across the street at my friend(13/f) "turn down the AC cuz its getting hott in here".)
GIRLS: do you apperciate (sp?) it when you are called hott (like the example above) by your boyfriend or another guy?
will rate for good answers
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Being called "hott" does make girls feel good to a certain extent. What I mean by that is..when guys continue saying it to you everytime they see you or talk to you..it gets old after a while. Of course girls are going to appreciate the compliment, tho. In my opinion, I find it much sweeter when a guy tells a girl that she is beautiful or gorgeous, rather than..hott.
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around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do
tks qwerasdfzxcv (link)
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Well if you really didn't start a rumor, then I think you should tell her that. Find out where she got that idea, and ask her why she would accuse you of something like that. If she didn't tell that many people, then it shouldn't be that big of a deal. People will forget about it sooner or later.
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what do you do when you have a boy friend that lives like an hour away, been with him a year, miss him so much you have tears running down your cheek whenever u think of yourself with him, just want to talk to him 24/7 think of nothing else cant get him out of your head, have no money to see him, his parents dont agree with you but still need him so bad??? (link)
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That would be a really hard situation to deal with. Do you even see your b/f at all? If not, I would suggest not being with him. That is unfair to the both of you b/c you can't see each other that much! He probably hates it just as bad as you do. I know it might seem REALLY difficult to do, but I would honestly suggest breaking up with him. You could always try going out with him again sometime in the future when you can see each other, and talk to each other more..but rite now just doesn't seem like the rite time for either one of you! If you need anything else, let me know!
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ok heres the deal i have a few questions to ask in one ok first how do you know when a guy likes you and second how to fall for somebody your acually aloud to date b/c i have the tencency of falling for people i cant have pleaze help me asap (link)
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If a guy likes you he will flirt with you. It usually doesn't matter who is around when he does it either. (if it does matter, and he only does it in certain places such as when you two are alone..he might not be willing to let everyone know he likes you yet..) He will smile at you, and laugh at you, and some guys even wink at the girl they like. A guy that really likes you will be nice to you no matter what, and treat you really well. He will also seem very interested in you, and pay attention to the things you say. He should actually LISTEN to you when you talk! If a guy likes you, he might ask you to hang out, or to call him..or who knows he might even just call you! And for your question about liking someone you can actually date..that might be a hard thing to change b/c you can't help who you like! You can't make yourself fall for a certain guy just b/c you want to. You have to actually like them and be interested in them! You are going to have a lot of different b/fs, which means you are going to like a few "wrong" guys before you find Mr. Right! Don't rush things, sooner or later you'll find him! You are young, so you have plenty of time, and there are plenty of guys! Good luck!
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Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks (link)
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Tell him that you like him. Flirt with him, and do cute things to get his attention. Laughing at his jokes, and making him feel important are definite ways for you to show him that you care! Who knows, maybe he likes you too! You just have to be brave enough to make the first move..in this case it would be to tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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Could someone give me a list of good fairy tales??? (link)
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Cinderella
Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs
Sleepy Beauty
Beauty and the Beast
The Tortoise and the Hare
Little Red Riding Hood
Three Little Pigs
Hansel and Gretle
Little Mermaid
Rapunzel
The Three Billy Goats Gruff
The Ugly Duckling
Goldilocks and the Three Bears
The Gingerbread Man
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ok i know u guys are probelly sick of hearing these qs but i need to know im 14f and my height is 5.5 and my weight is like 116 do i weigh to much for a gurl my age and height.
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I looked online to find out the ideal weight for someone your height..and I found that the ideal weight for someone who is 5'5 is anywhere between 113 and 149! You are definitely not over weight at all! I am 5'5 as well, and I weigh 108. If you go to this website you can find out more information on how to maintain a healthy weight.
http://www.nal.usda.gov/fnic/dga/weight.htm
Here is another website that has a list of proper/ideal weights.
http://www.weightwatchers.ca/health/asm/calc_healthyweight.aspx
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okay this might sound dumb to some of you, but i have a friend named well lets say kristen well shes the type that if you like the guy she likes shes alright with it intil you start to go out with this guy then she like hates you and thinks your trying to ruin her life so shes pretty emo, well the other day she told me that this guy that is really hott that ive been watching named josh that he liked me, well she thinks i like this other guy but actually i like josh, i dont know if i should start talking to him and go out with him since we like each other or should i back off since kristen likes him?
please help. it might be dumb but plz
no mean answers
btw: 15.f
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Your friend seems very selfish. There are plenty of guys to go around. She can't like them all. If you like this kid, and he likes you..go for it. Your friend should get over it..You might want to talk to her about it first, so it's not a surprise to her when you start talking to this kid, or even going out with him. I think it's perfectly fine for you to go out with this boy, especially if you two like each other and he doesn't like your friend (in that way.) If you are kristen are really that good of friends, she will forgive you and not stay mad. If you need anything else, let me know. Good luck!
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough (link)
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In my opinion, if you had sex at your age..that would be wrong. You are so young, and there are so many consequences that you could have to face if you had sex. Think about it. STD's, getting pregnant..not to mention if your parents found out you would probably get in a lot of trouble, and the list goes on! You will have plenty of time to worry about having sex, when you get older! I don't think that you have been with this kid NEARLY long enough to even be THINKING about CONSIDERING having sex! It's a REALLY big deal, and it's something that you have to take seriously! If you have any doubts about having sex, then you definitely shouldn't do it. Don't feel pressured into it by your b/f either..I don't think any 14, or 15 year old could be ready to have sex.
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I have a big problem with thinking i am FAT! I'm 5'5 and i weigh 119.5! So I dont eat alot. My boyfriend worries about me an tells me if i dont go to start eating right then he was gonna tell someone. I went to the doctor to get my physical for cross country an he pushed on my tummy an asked me if i ever ate an i said sometimes an he said do you have an appitite an im like not really an he said that he could tell that i hardley ever ate by pressing on my stomach! I wanna eat but i get too full soo easy! what should i do? (link)
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You are not fat! I am 5'5 and I weigh 108 and I think I'm fat too. Everybody is always telling me that I'm stupid for thinking that b/c I don't have any fat on me. (That is what they say) But if you are that worried about your weight, you can always exercise! Don't over do it tho! Exercise 3 or 4 times a week for 30 minutes to an hour and eat normally and you should be just fine! If you can't eat very much rite now, start off with small portions of food and each time you eat, eat a little bit more until you get to a normal size meal! I'm sure there are some websites that you can go to, that will help you learn how to eat properly..and there are probably even some where you can talk to other people who have similiar problems to yours. If you would like me to look for them for you, just let me know and I will see what I can do. I'm not guarenteeing I will come up with much, but I can try. You could also talk to me on AIM if you have it. (My s/n is BrittanyMichx39) Good luck!
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A few days ago I was at my boyfriend's house. We were in the living room and he turned to me and said "I think I can smell marijuana". (He knows the smell because his sister did it once when she was in highschool) So he concluded that his mother must be doing it since he had found a bag of it in her drawer two years ago. He also added that one of her workers comes over to drink and then spends the night. He believes that the guy who spends the night is her "supplier." The next day when she was gone, he went into her room and looked into the drawer where she had kept it two years ago. Sure enough he found some. We both do not condone drugs and I asked him to talk to her about it. He did not want to do that. So we decided the next best thing to do would be to throw it away. So we did that. Then today I asked him if she's still doing it. And he said he didnt know and decided to check her drawer. He found another bag that she had gone out and bought. Finally, he decided to confront her but she was not home. So we went over to my house and then I get a call on my home phone from his mother. She started asking him if he looked through her drawers to which he said yes. And she said "Well where is my stuff!" And then he said she shouldnt be doing it and hung up on her. Now he is at home but she is sleeping. And I was wondering what the BEST possible solution of dealing with this is? And should he keep letting her do it even if he doesnt like it? Or should he get her help or try to stop her from doing it? Please answer this urgently. Thanks. (link)
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I definitely think he should not let this go on any further that it already has. First he needs to try to talk to his mother alone, about this problem. If that doesn't work..he should tell someone. If you and his mother are close, you COULD try talking to her if you wanted..However, I don't think you should get involved with this. Even though he is your b/f, you might get yourself into some serious complications. If your b/f knows the guys name who he thinks is supplying his mom with the drugs, he could tell the police or an adult about it..they could check in on him and see if he really is doing what you think.
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ok so im in college and i really liked being single n all...liie going to parties and meeting new guys...no nothaving sex with them. Anyways i also really like this guy I know who Ive actually be dating for 4 days now. The point is i think i need to breakup with him cuz i have already cheated onhim and made out with other guys. but, its so hard to do because i really like him a lot. I know i cant stop cheating on him and partying and stuff...So, i do need to break up with him right?.....my second question is how. I think iwanna say that I cant commit myself to one person right now because that is the truth, but I dont want him to think I have already cheated on him eventhough i did. so maybe i should say something else?...like I just dont want a boyfriend?
this is really troubling me badly so sorry its long and please help me (link)
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You definitely should break up with him b/c what you are doing in unfair and unfaithful to the guy you are dating. You are in college, you are young. You will have plenty of time to have a steady b/f after college or even when you just mature a little more and limit the partying, and stuff like that. Just tell him that you aren't looking for a long-term relationship rite now, and you just want to be single. Tell him you are afraid you will end up hurting him if you let things keep going the way they are. Say that it is better to break up now before things got too serious or before the two of you got closer. You shouldn't be too attached to each other yet, especially not after only 4 days. It may seem like it's easier sed than done, but once you do it you will feel a lot better. If you want to, you could also just be friends with the guy. I mean you don't have to totally stop talking to him just b/c you aren't dating anymore! Good luck!
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Does anybody know how I can get hair like Mischa Bartons? like really soft gentle but big waves? Thanks. I rate high.
carolinagrl (link)
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I was looking online and I found this website for you. I didn't really read much of it so I'm not sure if this is what you are looking for or not, but it might help you! So let me know if you need/want anything else and I'll see what I can do for you. Here is the website:
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip6407.htm
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Okay so I bet your all sick of reading these questions but i need help...
I feel like i'm getting annoying to my boyfriend... idk how to explain this feeling but yeah its just like he never has time for anything else because of me. he never complains about it or anything and he's the nicest guy ever, but i just feel kind of bad... i don't really know what i'm trying to say here but yeah... any comments would help.
sorry its so long
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If he is willing to give up everything else to be able to have time for you, then you probably aren't annoying him. However, if it seems like he is making his whole life revolve around you, he might be a bit obsessed. And that could be a bad thing. Tell him that he should hang out with his friends, and spend time with other people, as well as you. Don't do this in a way where he might think you are trying to push him away. (when in reality you are, but for a good reason) If you don't want to just tell him to hang out with other people, and do other things, maybe you could both hang out with friends together. Invite other people along with you guys when you are hanging out so it's not just the two of you alone where all of your attention would be on each other. Or tell him that you can't talk as much b/c you think you are getting too close too soon. You could also try to talk to him about it. Good luck!
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alright so me & my boyfriend broke up fri. night & hes the only guy ive truly loved. but he just started telling people i was saying bad stuff about them & i wasnt.so i had to break up with him. we still really have strong feelings for eachother but lastnight i went to a party. then i relized i also had feelings for other guys. 1 guy is Logan. He's really sweet. But then there's Christian, Justin, and my ex. Alright, I'm going to get started with the Christian guy first. My friend called me to watch him & make sure he wasn't flirting(they were going out) & to see if he denied going out with her. So when I asked him & he said no i was like wtf? Then he told me that she had just called him & broke up with him. I called her back & she told me he broke up with her! so i talk to him again & hes changing this story & now going out with this girl Alex. Well when I got pissed at him & he was like brb He came back & told me he was going to break up with her. So Me, this guy Taylor, Christian, and Justin walked away from the party & up a hill. Well we were just talking & then people from the party were standing outside looking for us so we couldnt go back down the hill without people thinking we were doing stuff. Christian was standing behind me & i turn around & he kisses me!! So then my friend calls to tell me our rides here so we run more up the hill & around & then we all spilt up..me being with justin & taylor & christian together. So me and Justin were walking downthis other hill & he goes "so do you like christian" & i was like "no idk, who do you like" & he said "no-one" so we keep walking & then he kisses me! but then i told him we really need to go & we ran some more & then cars started coming so we hid beside a house. he started kissing me & trying to go down my pants & i go "are you doing this because your horny or do you like someone?" & he goes "yeah, i like you, do you want to go out with me" i told him i didnt know. i mean i like justin but he does have a rep. of going out with girls to get some but like we've almost gone out before. Theres also a guy from a different school that wants to go on a date with me next weekend. i mean i have some feelings for all of these guys (except for taylor) & i dont know what to do! please help & thank you so much if you read all of this! ill rate 5's. (link)
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Wow that's a lot of guys. First of all, you need to figure out which ONE you like more. You can't possibly like any of those guys enough if you like so many. (just my opinion) I don't think you want to go out with a guy who just wants to get you in bed, so Justin doesn't sound like a good choice to me, unless you aren't worried about that. I don't really know what to tell you to do, other than narrow it down to one or two guys, and then make a choice. You are young too, so don't make this out to be the biggest, toughest decision of your life. Just don't make a stupid choice, and go out with the one who is going to end up hurting you (emotionally) when you won't have sex with him, or the one who is going to start rumors about you when you two break up. (that's how a lot of guys are) Just think about it. This might sound stupid, but you could make a list of the good things about all of those guys, and then a list of the bad things about them, and compare them. See who has the most good things. I dunno, just a suggestion. If you need anymore help, or want to know anything else, let me know. You could IM me on AIM. My s/n is BrittanyMichx39. Good luck!
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YAYAYAYAYAYYYYYYYYYYY
ok so my crush's (lets call my crush A) crush just GOT A BOYFRIEND! this is really good becasue maybe A will realise its really over!!
so about 2 weeks ago, i told A i like him. he said he doent kno me that well bla bla bla. THe next day he said something and i told him i was like over it but i wasnt at all.
So since then weve gotten kind of close in school. i have 6 out of 8 classes with him!! :-D so i hes gotten to kno me! he flirts with me A LOT LOT LOT LOT LOT!! and i flirt back of course. but do you think i should tell him i like him again? either i have a much better chance now because its like rebound! or i have a lesser chance because hes so depressed and sad.
wut do u think i should do? i dont want our friendship to be like all screwed cause i said this and he says he doesnt like me like that. . .
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I think you should tell him that you like him, just to see what happens. If he flirts with you, he might like you too. Tell him that you don't want to ruin your friendship. You have to remember tho, that when people go out, they usually break up within time..and it's not always that easy to be as good of friends with that person that you were before you went out! Good luck!
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