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what to do
ok so im in college and i really liked being single n all...liie going to parties and meeting new guys...no nothaving sex with them. Anyways i also really like this guy I know who Ive actually be dating for 4 days now. The point is i think i need to breakup with him cuz i have already cheated onhim and made out with other guys. but, its so hard to do because i really like him a lot. I know i cant stop cheating on him and partying and stuff...So, i do need to break up with him right?.....my second question is how. I think iwanna say that I cant commit myself to one person right now because that is the truth, but I dont want him to think I have already cheated on him eventhough i did. so maybe i should say something else?...like I just dont want a boyfriend?
this is really troubling me badly so sorry its long and please help me
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if your not commit with him well then you should just break up with him because if he finds out about you making out with another guy behind his back he will get really mad at you and eventually break up with you.
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Well you can't say you really like him if you cheated on him! That doesn't make sense. That's a good idea to say you can't be committed to one person, because it seems like thats the truth. Good luck!
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You definitely should break up with him b/c what you are doing in unfair and unfaithful to the guy you are dating. You are in college, you are young. You will have plenty of time to have a steady b/f after college or even when you just mature a little more and limit the partying, and stuff like that. Just tell him that you aren't looking for a long-term relationship rite now, and you just want to be single. Tell him you are afraid you will end up hurting him if you let things keep going the way they are. Say that it is better to break up now before things got too serious or before the two of you got closer. You shouldn't be too attached to each other yet, especially not after only 4 days. It may seem like it's easier sed than done, but once you do it you will feel a lot better. If you want to, you could also just be friends with the guy. I mean you don't have to totally stop talking to him just b/c you aren't dating anymore! Good luck!
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You know what you got to do and exactly what to say. There is no problem. You don't want a boyfriend right now, you don't want to be true to one person right now, for all you know he feels the same.
Just make it clear that it's nothing against him and that he is a really nice guy but you're not interested in a relationship.
Good for you recongizing what you want and being clear about it.
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This doesn't make you look as bad as you might think. You've only been dating for four days, so how serious could you possibly be? You're in college, a lot of people party all the time, so everything so far to me sounds like typical college stuff. So I would go with your first idea, but I wouldn't say that you couldn't commit. Maybe say you don't think you want to commit right now.
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