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Alright. Long story short. My boyfriend cheated on me by having sex with another girl. It has been a couple of months and I really thought that I would be able to move past it and that our relationship could start over, and maybe even be stronger. But for some reason I cant seem to get past it. Please, how can I move on from this. I want to.
Also I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand how badly this hurt me and how much it still is. I want him to be punished in some way. I just dont know how. How do I get him to realize that this is NOT okay? I mean I took him back once after he cheated. What if he has in his head that he could get away with it again?
well kissing and cheating on another girls then you can get over it. but actual sex. that bf would be dead to me. i couldnt be able to get over it sweetsz.
you need it to get throught to him that this is a very serious matter. you ACTUALLY back with him? wow lovey thats brave. (and a little stupid) i can almost guarantee you that hes ot worth it and doesnt love you. id dump him for good and never mention it OR him again.
my good friend is having acl surgery this tuesday and i wnat to get her a present thing.
my other friend is giving her a stuffed animal before she goes in, and a blizzard after.
any suggesttions? ill rate highh
candy balloon and cards are the basics. but if you want something better than get her something she really wants. a stuffed animal is good but u probabally want something different than you friend. money is great but not all that well....special, you know. candy and flowers too. what i usually do is make a little basket with little trinkets and cool stuff.
are there any electronics like PDA's or whatever that let you go on AIM without having to pay a monthly fee? and i don't mean a phone. and something fairly cheap.
sidekick3 will help. its got everything.
I think my cousin and boyfriend are falling in love right in front of my eyes, and I can't do anything to stop it!
SHould I let love/destiny take its coarse, and let it pair them up, I mean if they're meant to be together, who am I to stop them?
Or do I fight for someone who appearantly doesn't even want to be with me?
Help!
you should be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything. so ask him about it. (he'll probabally say no.duh he's your bf lol). anyway. if your absolutely sure then stop it. it might be mean but who cares hes your bf and you want him dont u? tell your cousin to stay away from your man. she needs to get her own. hehe =)
i really need to lose 30 pounds this summer..
but i have no idea how.
i no i should excercise, and eat healthy but can someone explain
what exercises i should do, how long, how many of them.
what foods i should eat, how much of it, how often.
things like that would REALLLY help.
thanks so much!
well to gert rid of tummy fat-do lots of crunches. but eat healthy and go to the gym regularily. now 30 pounds is alot of weight lovey so i recommend a personal trainer who knows what hes doing. help yourself out with a diet. cut your daily intake into a hlf. get rid of sugar, fat, and carbs. no bedtime snacks either. and run in the neighborhood in the mornings
sorry if this isnt in the right category but..
i get acne often, not alot of it just maybe two big zits or something.
what really really works on acne?
and what makes acne clear up overnight? or as quick as possible?
please lemmi no? thanks a bunch =]
everyone has different skin so acne cream works for different people. but proactiv worked for my friend(and some celebrities). i use clearasil. but the acne creams might work for some time but your skin will get use to it so use different kinds. and to your overnight question. my friend told my toothpaste on the zit overnight will help. (but i've never tried it)
I'm a christian, have been my whole life.. but all of a sudden.. I fear it! I quickly walk past the pictures of Jesus in my living room, i can't bring myself to read the bible or anything.. i suspect im feeling guilty about several things in my life, so obviously i should just confess,, but i cant bring myself to do it! I cant pray anymore! Something is holding me back! What do I do? I dont want to lose my religion compltely!
try going to church. ask the pastor some of these questions. theres also a a book called 'chicken soup for the christian soul' that will really help you
okay well really what i'm trying to say is that i still like my ex boyfriend alot and i heard he still "kinda" likes me. and i want to "get him jealous" if thats what you want to call it. really what i'm asking is how can i make myself look like "breath taking" if you will. or " eye catching".
i'll give you the low down. i'm a 13 year old girl. im about 5'3ish with short brown hair. its about sholder length. brown eyes, and i'm pretty skinny, about average. how should i do my hair, what color make up annd what not? i can pretty much do anything with my hair. i usually straighten it. sometimes i scrunch it. and what color eye shadow if any? what kind of shirt? low cut, full tshirt? quarter sleeved/low cut? i have mostly cloths from hollister and some from abrecrombie and american eagle, so. i just really want to catch his attention and make him pretty much jealous of anyone siiting near me if thats possible. sorry this is so long. tahnks in advnace!
where lip gloss. tight clothes without looking too slutty. skirts recommended to show off your legs. pastel make-up (aplied lightly not to dark) and theres nothing wrong with twisting the way you walk. laugh loudly to show you have a sence of humor. stay close by without actually fallowing him. catch his eyes without staring at him (then he knows youve really noticed him) and hold your head up high to show confidence
what is tb, or tuburculosis?
is a common and deadly infectious disease that is caused by mycobacteria
13/f
i'm not sure if this is in the right category, sorry.
my nails like flake. like when they get longer, they start to look all flaky and i can even pull layers off. just the white part though. my mom said it's a lack of a certain vitamin. could that be why? what vitamin is it that i'm lacking? and if it's not that, why is this happening?
thanks a bunch! :D
it is a lack of vitamins but i dont know what. they have special nail polish just for that though. soak your nails in a bowl of milk every night.(but remember its a treatment so it wont work over night)
Ok. so last year (or the year before i guess) I really really liked this guy. I mean, he was just my idea of an angel. He was sweet,funny, cute and smart. Well, he found I liked him, and I found out that he wasn't so sweet. He completely flipped, and I was heartbroken. I told people I didn't care because it softened the reality, but It took me a long time to get over that.
Well, a couple of days ago I met this AMAZING guy. He's funny, smart, he loves music as much as I do, he's adorable, and he is really really sweet.. Well, I just met him and I fell hard, and a lot of people have told me that we'd be cute together and blah blah blah. I find it kind of hard to believe that I like him as much as I do because we just met, but thats just my logic talking, but when I see him, or just think about him, my heart goes crazy and I can't help but smile.
I really like this guy, but I guess I'm just afraid of getting hurt again.
I don't really know how to word my question, but if you know what I mean, advice would be greatly appreciated. =]
get to knowe this new guy in your life. you really didnt know the other boy.so before you get your hopes up see who that boy really is. and get your friends to talk to him to incase he's lieing to you. and if all goes good then go for it!.but only if your sure he's all right. dont let your heart do all the talking. sometimes even if it feels right it really isnt
okay well i have this friend who had been my best friend fot the past 3 years now. 6 months ago she found herself a boyfriend who she has liked since 6th grade(3 years ago)in the beginning he was the better of her ex boyfriends but now he is a total jerk. all he wants to do is makeout and go to 2nd wherever they are. when she isn't around or not paying attention he makes these really annoying/hurtful comments either to me and my friends or to someone about someone else and i hate it. all of my friends and my best friends friends hate him and know where i am coming from. Jess(my bf) really likes him. i dont know if she likes HIM or the IDEA of having a boyfriend. we have been fighting so much with any little thing i say about him. when he is with her she forgets that my friends and i are there. her boyfriend bobby will randomly walk up to her while her and i are having a conversation and start making out with her. i have come to hate him and i cant stand to be around him. i have told jess all of this a ton of times but she claims she loves him. and her and i never get alone time. i just dont know what i should do because she likes him and knows i hate him and still no progress with anything is being made.(ex. trying to not forget im there) what should i do? ps sorry this is so long
sweetie im wondering if he really likes her then. try talking to HIM. it will bevery hard and fustrating but tell him that things just arent working out. get your bf to talk to bobby. maybe that will help. jess isnt being fair. hes obviously hurting you (emotionally) and making you angry so she should care. a guy really shouldnt come between a best friend relation ship
? like in an everyday situation like school or over the phone or on aim
flirt with her. girls love compliments. make her feel comfortable. girls also love humor say be realy funny. be sensitive and sweet too. dont get tongue0tied or sweat or seem nervous or she'll just think your wierd. its tricky trying to make a girl happy when you just meet them but you can do it =)
I have a boyfriend and we've kissed and all. We've talked about how making out is with touching. We both agreed we want to and he says he likes to. He just hasn't done anything but the kissing part. I kinda want him to touch me more then he does but I don't know what to do and how do bring it up to him and if I should. Should I talk to him about it more? Or should I just leave it alone and have it happen on its own. By the way...we've been dating for about 6 months. And I still get butterflies about looking into his eyes. I really want to though.
What should I do?
ok sweetsz well the butterflies show that you realy like him. and thats good it will make making-out even more fun=). if you really want it then go for it! invite him over for a movie (the more romantic the better. it will get you both in the mood.) after that it will all happen on its own. ;)
okay. so i went out with this one guy "b" and he was rly nice and i also went out with his best friend "z" who i rly rly liked but my best friend liked him so we broke up. and now im not going out with either one of them but i still like "z" and he flirts with me and stuff so i think he likes me but "b" told my friend that he likes me too. i dont want to sound into myself by saying it like this. but what should i do?
thx!
ok well you shouldnt have broken up with z just because of your friend. and since z wants to get back with you then go out with z. your friend will get it. and im sure b is nice and cute but u like z more. i and why settle for cute when you can have hot right! girl treat yourself to a nice guy. and sure ur friend wont get over it but its her own personal problem. she needs to get her own guy and ou can help her out with that
15/f. i'm so overwhelmed by everything right now and i just need help. i used to be so honest and always tell the truth, but now for some reason i find myself lying all the time, especially to my parents. whenever my parents are away my sister always has parties, and i always have to lie to protect her.
but i'm so over lying. it gets me upset to have to lie. i just want to be able to come home at night to my house, without a bunch of people here. then they all get drunk and sleep here.
what do i do? i don't want to betray my sister, but i hate lying. i've lied before to protect her, but i don't want to have to lie anymore.
thanks for any help
tell your sister. its not fair (or right) that she's doing this to you. tell her that you hate lieing all the time. and your not gonna lie anymore so she better stop. of course she'll be mad but she will get over it. your family. dont tell your parents though. just dont lie anymore. and talk your sister. explain how you feel and why shes doing this.
Okay, so I really like this guy. He's funny but he's kinda popular too and I'm kinda in the middle. Do popular guys go out with girls like me? Thanks much!
SWEETSZ OF COURSE THEY DO! (just not nerds lol). well he could like you but you didnt say what he does to give you that idea. but hey if your sure then step up to him!
okay so i have this best friend. hes a guy, and were like REALLY tight. i have a weird feeling that he likes me. once, he called me 13 times because he was "bored". we were online and hes like "im bored, im gonna call u" and i said "no im doing hw" but he called anyway and left all these funny messages. then, i texted him at like 2 am cause i was bored, and he says "whats up?" and i said "bored, im under-the-covers texting!' and he said 'ooooooh. sounds seexy." i laughed about it, but it was just really sudden to me. he even asked me to come to his house and swim, but i wasnt free. but does he like me??
well you said that you were really tight. i have tight friends that treat me that way too. sweetsz i dont think he likes you. i just think that he is bored and your his best friend so natuarally if he's bored he will talk to you. just be a big girl about it. when he needs comfort and a friend to talk to and that friend happens to be you then dont freak out like 'E-GADS MY BEST FRIEND WANTS TO TALK TO ME I THINK HE LIKES ME!'. no. but if its really making you uncomfortable then say something. his feelings might get hurt thogh. i say just leave it alone...... hey im just being honest and sometimes honesty hurts =)
I am so depressed over this guy that I thought liked me. Well we work together at the same company. He had been flirting with me and showing an interest in me since before xmas. I was always friendly to him but had my guard up about him. I had heard he drinks a lot and is a womanizer with a bad temper. I decided to give him a chance two months ago so I started to flirt a little back. He got this love sick look in his eyes and then started stuttering around me. So I really thought he liked me. Well in the last two weeks I don't know what has changed but he's pretending he's lost interest. He flirts with other woman right in front of me. He hasn't even been very nice to me either, and acts like I don't exist. I don't know how he can be so cruel knowing that I like him. The worst part is he is the assistant manager! Does anyone have any ideas why he's being this way?
well if he is those things than why would you give him a chance. it sounds to me like he really is a woamizer if he flirts with you and then dumps you and goes for another girl. are you sure his eyes were love sick. maybe they were lying (womanizers do lie to woman)... sweetsz is because your playing hard to get and messing with his emotions. the poor guys been flirting with you since before christmas and you dont do anything about it. then all of a sudden you start to get it and flirt back. well the love ship has sailed and you've missed the cruise (lol). he's mad cause his feelings are gurt. and yeah he flirts with others cause he he THOUGHT he wasnt getting anywhere with YOU. so tell him the truth! sit him down and seriously TALK TO THE BOY!
well i've been in my town for about 2 1/2 years now,and i still havnt made ANY close friends. i dont know why,it just seems like no one is there for me. i have all these aquantenses(sp) and all this,but no close ones. i do have close ones in my old town,but i actually want to have close ones in my new town. how do you make "close" friends? and what makes a close friend? any help,thankss.
a close friend is a person who starts helping you with things. someone you feel comfortable with and cant wait to see again. and you start making plans to go places on the weekend.
go around and go to movies. go to clubs or the most popular place in your town. get a friend from you old and have them help you out so your not so shy. be friendly with everyone. make conversations. and remember people moght not always come to you, have have to go to them